Problem - Around 90% Girls get startled/ make nervous face when I do direct approach.
I have successfully gotten laid from direct approach and have gotten few ig closes too.
I am not able to figure out whether the issue is with
A) My approach or calibration
B) The girl i.e. she is nervous kind
C) Situation i.e. I do direct approach at night on street or beach or sometimes in morning/noon at railway station. I live in India so girls are on high alert in general.
Most recent approach.
It was on the beach around 11 pm.
The beach was sufficiently crowded.
Sitting and chilling with my friend a set of 2 girls pass by and one gives me strong eye contact.
We were earlier walking in front of them and when they entered I had liked her body so we sat down on purpose so they pass by us.
After she gives eye contact I had to run a bit behind her and I said hello from a friendly distance they stopped and I said you caught my attention while passing over from there. She was startled at this only. So I said don't get startled. She still was and I put a warm smile on my face and handclasped. ( Smile was very genuine bcoz I was having fun with my friend beforehand only).
She was still making a nervous face and I asked her you don't seem from here. To which she replied yes in a nervous voice and then started fumbling like I have some work.
At this point I ejected.
I want to reduce this startled reaction from girls
Should I say relax a bit after I approach?
I have not faced this issued with situational openers yet. But they don't suit every situation.
One more thing is could it be due to the age gap? Like she might have thought I am too old? she looked kind of young maybe a 1st year student or so.
P.S.
I had previously posted a thread about ejecting too soon. Where my issue was I was preempting that girl will feel uncomfortable so I used to eject. Now I have changed my mindset that a girl will excuse herself if she doesn't like me.
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I have successfully gotten laid from direct approach and have gotten few ig closes too.
I am not able to figure out whether the issue is with
A) My approach or calibration
B) The girl i.e. she is nervous kind
C) Situation i.e. I do direct approach at night on street or beach or sometimes in morning/noon at railway station. I live in India so girls are on high alert in general.
Most recent approach.
It was on the beach around 11 pm.
The beach was sufficiently crowded.
Sitting and chilling with my friend a set of 2 girls pass by and one gives me strong eye contact.
We were earlier walking in front of them and when they entered I had liked her body so we sat down on purpose so they pass by us.
After she gives eye contact I had to run a bit behind her and I said hello from a friendly distance they stopped and I said you caught my attention while passing over from there. She was startled at this only. So I said don't get startled. She still was and I put a warm smile on my face and handclasped. ( Smile was very genuine bcoz I was having fun with my friend beforehand only).
She was still making a nervous face and I asked her you don't seem from here. To which she replied yes in a nervous voice and then started fumbling like I have some work.
At this point I ejected.
I want to reduce this startled reaction from girls
Should I say relax a bit after I approach?
I have not faced this issued with situational openers yet. But they don't suit every situation.
One more thing is could it be due to the age gap? Like she might have thought I am too old? she looked kind of young maybe a 1st year student or so.
P.S.
I had previously posted a thread about ejecting too soon. Where my issue was I was preempting that girl will feel uncomfortable so I used to eject. Now I have changed my mindset that a girl will excuse herself if she doesn't like me.
How not to eject too soon after approaching?
I mostly use direct openers and some times situational openers directly being from you are cute to some comment on girls outfit but then I end handshaking and just go away from her after delivering the compliment in case of situational opener I can talk a little bit longer but Idk why I am not...
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