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Hey guys, I am going to basically remake a post I made almost 15 years ago which was the start of understanding sexual tension, and say it how I would of said it then if I knew what I know now.
OK so back then there were murmurs of "psychic" "almost supernatural" happenings and nobody knew what it was so people at times went on crazy tangents at times, believing in the near woo woo spooky aspect of seduction.
I remember seeing the spooky aspect of seduction for the first time, I met this guy who was good with girls and we went to a bar, and there was only one OK looking girl there so we both walk up to her but he gets there first, he spun her around, lifted her up gazed in her eyes then grabbed her hand and walked out of the club under a bridge and then use your imagination on what next.
I was stunned. I had looked around the venue to see if anyone had noticed what I just saw... No one saw... No one cared.
I was puzzled for days, thinking how the crap did that make any sense. Like seriously wtf was going on.
Then suddenly I remembered myself doing something similar in another situation and realized just how bizarre something I previously thought was normal really looked.
So I will start by saying this, true seduction certainly is WEIRD at the least, it doesn't look normal, feel normal, or produce normal results.
But is it actually supernatural because it looks weird. Well... No... And this was the reason why I began to popularize sexual tension. In order to explain the weirdness was actually rooted in a concept that is far more accessible and not woo woo spooky.
So there is a limit to how weird it can get, based on the tension between two people. If tension is high it can get weird fast, if it's moderate it will be nice and recognizable, if it's low nothing happens.
I liken the low end of tension to a potato, the middle end to a flower or sunset (normal but also nice) and the high end to mentalism illusions and hypnotic inference.
Not to say high levels of tension are hypnosis or illusions, just illustrations of like phenomena.
So... Seduction can get to spooky levels, but how much of this spooky stuff is required.
Well the true answer to high results is definitely SOME.
Some things you do SHOULD go beyond the ordinary nice feelings that connect to rational thought and it should pass over into entirely creative thought.
This switch is a spooky fact about seduction, that there is almost like a switch in your biology that limits the influence of your personality, and when it switches, you sort of loose sobriety and act more upon impulse. These impulses are the foundation of all the weirdness, because reacting on impulse, thinking on impulse, and calibrating to a woman's signals on impulse can happen rapidly.
To master your own impulses is tough to do, cuz nobody knows how to teach it, explain it, or demonstrate it. So this part of seduction remains elusive even though it is quite important for exceptional results.
So what even is this impulse?
Well, impulses are derived from chemical reactions. What regulate these reactions are signals through the autonomic nervous system and proteins and enzymes in the blood. Your subconscious and liminal thought process impact the nerve signals that can start chemical reactions, so good eye contact causes you to feel goosebumps and it then triggers a nerve to trigger the endocrine system releasing endorphins that act as a catalyst for MORE triggers.
Or you have proteins, mostly in the liver, influencing the chemicals in the blood and thusly impacting the brain, which then triggers a response.
So these are not exactly woo woo, use the force Luke, things. They are grounded in chemistry and our anatomy. But...
To the human mind, it is often too much to think about or to process, so the mind gets easily overwhelmed by unfamiliar sensations and new experiences so it shuts these impulsive reactions down.
Likely there are evolutionary reasons for this, obviously because highly impulsive people are likely to get in more accidents, annoy others in social groups, and outspend their resources like running around too much when your food is finite.
The body thusly caps these weird impulsive actions to remain in homeostasis which on maslows hierarchy of needs is the first.
In order to circumvent the need for safety requires our intervention, to take a risk, to follow an impulse, and by doing so start a chain reaction chemically in the blood and neurological in the brain and nervous system, we need to take a risk to start a process that leads us into a spooky place where logic plays less of a role than impulse control does.
To the human mind, it is like sacrificing a sane interpretation of events for a magical one. A process where by you cannot track, predict, measure, or recreate the same action.
This causes people to avoid the unknown because they seek an answer or a repeatable formula.
Yet spookily the formula is to head into the unknown, to create impulses, and even become more impulsive over time and exposure to it, until in the eyes of others you possess a bit of magic to you.
Back in the day I was maybe too scared off the woo woo to really tell anyone the importance of it. But... Your mind sort of should go beyond what is normal in a highly sexual encounter, so in a way... You should react a little like it's magic.
Of course just knowing that the magic is our mind unable to cope with impulses and switching to creative processes.
But in the end, it is important to not always categories, but sometimes to gain experience in how to let go of common sense to explore another side of things.
If your mind thinks it is magic so be it.
If others think it is, all the better.
The point is... This crossover into the harder to conceptualize is important to powerful results, though it is little understood, so do not close off to it, just use crutches like "ah this is tension" or "this is chemistry" to house the unexpected and help you cope.
At the end of the day our body is a Ferrari that moves too quick to pilot as a sober man, it takes a bit of a daredevil to do it justice.
This is the spooky part of seduction, as you can just imagine how wrong it can go. But, that's why you take it in small steps and build skill and finesse over time, so you can mostly control even your most impulsive sides of yourself.
OK so back then there were murmurs of "psychic" "almost supernatural" happenings and nobody knew what it was so people at times went on crazy tangents at times, believing in the near woo woo spooky aspect of seduction.
I remember seeing the spooky aspect of seduction for the first time, I met this guy who was good with girls and we went to a bar, and there was only one OK looking girl there so we both walk up to her but he gets there first, he spun her around, lifted her up gazed in her eyes then grabbed her hand and walked out of the club under a bridge and then use your imagination on what next.
I was stunned. I had looked around the venue to see if anyone had noticed what I just saw... No one saw... No one cared.
I was puzzled for days, thinking how the crap did that make any sense. Like seriously wtf was going on.
Then suddenly I remembered myself doing something similar in another situation and realized just how bizarre something I previously thought was normal really looked.
So I will start by saying this, true seduction certainly is WEIRD at the least, it doesn't look normal, feel normal, or produce normal results.
But is it actually supernatural because it looks weird. Well... No... And this was the reason why I began to popularize sexual tension. In order to explain the weirdness was actually rooted in a concept that is far more accessible and not woo woo spooky.
So there is a limit to how weird it can get, based on the tension between two people. If tension is high it can get weird fast, if it's moderate it will be nice and recognizable, if it's low nothing happens.
I liken the low end of tension to a potato, the middle end to a flower or sunset (normal but also nice) and the high end to mentalism illusions and hypnotic inference.
Not to say high levels of tension are hypnosis or illusions, just illustrations of like phenomena.
So... Seduction can get to spooky levels, but how much of this spooky stuff is required.
Well the true answer to high results is definitely SOME.
Some things you do SHOULD go beyond the ordinary nice feelings that connect to rational thought and it should pass over into entirely creative thought.
This switch is a spooky fact about seduction, that there is almost like a switch in your biology that limits the influence of your personality, and when it switches, you sort of loose sobriety and act more upon impulse. These impulses are the foundation of all the weirdness, because reacting on impulse, thinking on impulse, and calibrating to a woman's signals on impulse can happen rapidly.
To master your own impulses is tough to do, cuz nobody knows how to teach it, explain it, or demonstrate it. So this part of seduction remains elusive even though it is quite important for exceptional results.
So what even is this impulse?
Well, impulses are derived from chemical reactions. What regulate these reactions are signals through the autonomic nervous system and proteins and enzymes in the blood. Your subconscious and liminal thought process impact the nerve signals that can start chemical reactions, so good eye contact causes you to feel goosebumps and it then triggers a nerve to trigger the endocrine system releasing endorphins that act as a catalyst for MORE triggers.
Or you have proteins, mostly in the liver, influencing the chemicals in the blood and thusly impacting the brain, which then triggers a response.
So these are not exactly woo woo, use the force Luke, things. They are grounded in chemistry and our anatomy. But...
To the human mind, it is often too much to think about or to process, so the mind gets easily overwhelmed by unfamiliar sensations and new experiences so it shuts these impulsive reactions down.
Likely there are evolutionary reasons for this, obviously because highly impulsive people are likely to get in more accidents, annoy others in social groups, and outspend their resources like running around too much when your food is finite.
The body thusly caps these weird impulsive actions to remain in homeostasis which on maslows hierarchy of needs is the first.
In order to circumvent the need for safety requires our intervention, to take a risk, to follow an impulse, and by doing so start a chain reaction chemically in the blood and neurological in the brain and nervous system, we need to take a risk to start a process that leads us into a spooky place where logic plays less of a role than impulse control does.
To the human mind, it is like sacrificing a sane interpretation of events for a magical one. A process where by you cannot track, predict, measure, or recreate the same action.
This causes people to avoid the unknown because they seek an answer or a repeatable formula.
Yet spookily the formula is to head into the unknown, to create impulses, and even become more impulsive over time and exposure to it, until in the eyes of others you possess a bit of magic to you.
Back in the day I was maybe too scared off the woo woo to really tell anyone the importance of it. But... Your mind sort of should go beyond what is normal in a highly sexual encounter, so in a way... You should react a little like it's magic.
Of course just knowing that the magic is our mind unable to cope with impulses and switching to creative processes.
But in the end, it is important to not always categories, but sometimes to gain experience in how to let go of common sense to explore another side of things.
If your mind thinks it is magic so be it.
If others think it is, all the better.
The point is... This crossover into the harder to conceptualize is important to powerful results, though it is little understood, so do not close off to it, just use crutches like "ah this is tension" or "this is chemistry" to house the unexpected and help you cope.
At the end of the day our body is a Ferrari that moves too quick to pilot as a sober man, it takes a bit of a daredevil to do it justice.
This is the spooky part of seduction, as you can just imagine how wrong it can go. But, that's why you take it in small steps and build skill and finesse over time, so you can mostly control even your most impulsive sides of yourself.
