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This journal is an experiment.

I read about setting goal. Basically, goal that is selfish: "I want to make X millions of dollar," "I want to be the most powerful politician," "I want to get 100 lays" etc. will not work. Goals in features and benefits will work.

Let's see where it goes.
 

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Chase's 30 day challenge - I'm at 13th day.

This time when I meet a girl at the park I get to the point.
- I compliment her right away, on her necklace.
- I touch her leg a bit to set sexual expectation. She turns her leg away indicating she is not comfortable.

Thus:
- I build rapport with mirroring as they call it in sales or thread amplifying as they call it in seduction. I say nothing about myself, just using her words and explore deeper.

A few minutes later:
- I ask if she live nearby. She lives an hour away, but that could be an excuse. I eject.

When I walk away, she says: "I'm living an hour away but I can drive." Meaning she still want conversation. I go back and continue to deep dive. Possible that there is hidden objection.

- In one of her stories, she mention going to a fortune telling and the fortune teller just want to take her money and tell her empty words. Is the hidden objection here is that she doesn't want me to go after sex? I think the assumption that all girls want me to stay after sex is not true, there must be some girls who just want sex and be done.

- I ask her to go to a nearby coffee shop, she objects that she is still full from lunch.

I talk with her a bit more then make an amicable exit.
 

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14th day: Quickly trying out misdirection tech. At the grocery store, my left hand grabs the big shiny cake box, and saying hi. She says hi and goes.

Other things:
- Social: At beginner level, where people are "meh" about me. Only cure is to continue talking to people, I'll probably say a lot of stupid things but it's part of the learning.
- Fundamentals: Have girls look at me and expect an Orgasm Maker. The fundamental part can come from observing other guys with girls in the field, making friends with them, experimentation, reading posts around here, reading articles on the blog.
 
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16th day: Saying hi to 4 girls on the street. 2 of them does not stop, but saying hi and putting heads down. It’s practically a “maybe” but might as well “no.”

Anyway, it just a number game.

Other things:
- Social: I find a universal social value, “emotional caretaker.” Not enough for high social value people but enough for everybody else.

Of course sometimes other missions take priority. For example if a girl is into me but an asshole butts in then the “emotional caretaker” mission must throw out of the window.
 

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21th day: Doing street approaches for a few days, nothing interesting happens.

From the chat the advice is to train it like a sport, one thing at a time. Thus the whole next week will train on eye contact.
 

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22nd day: Testing out Velasco fashion in this thread:


And I get 2 approach invitations, on the street. From a well-dressed girl (moving in my path) and a muscular girl (changing direction to my way). Opening with "hi" they say "hi" back, however when I say "what's your name" they say "sorry" and moved on.

All good. A city is opening up, rumors say it's the most competitive sexual market. I plan to move there for the education. This will make my results comparable to a novice, but I'll see for myself the fundamentals and vibe of the most competitive men.
 

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23rd day: Arrived.

Meeting one girl on the street, okay reception.

Observations:
- Many cute girls
- People here makes good eye contact

Next part will be finding mentor however I can also solo approach and solo observe.
 

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25th day: Meeting a girl, into me, complied with fist bump, asking name, long handshake. My kneejerk reaction is to go for big compliance by moving. Not working.

23rd day I met a girl and the same thing happened.

I know the process. After asking for her name:
- Light banter
- Getting to know her

It’s important to not get tired.
 

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27th day: Walking on the street, passing a coffee shop, a girl inside the shop looks at me.

I walk in, sitting to the table next to her, she looks at me again. This girl is going with a friend. I wave, she smiles, I say hi and talk with her a bit. When talking I gesture at the seat next to her but continue talking. Then her friend gestures the the seat.

I sit down and continue talking with both. I stay until two things happen:
- She move the chair away to her friend side.
- Her friend says they are about to leave.
Thus I leave myself.

Shit tests:
- Her friend says "should you order something?" I say "nah, I'm not hungry."
- Her friend asks a lot about me. I address all of them but looking back I engage her friend for too long. It's possible that makes the girl auto-rejects.
 
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28th day: Reading Chase’s lack of orgasms keep them faithful article. Based on my life history I’ll probably not become a perfect Orgasm Maker, but a good enough, sometimes Orgasm Maker is good for keeping girls.

Game imbalance hypothesis is correct.

In harder areas, I observe example of:
  • Conversation
  • Voice
  • Life of the party
  • Fashion
In easy areas, even hot girls give me approach invitation which I capture on.
 

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Pheromone cologne - Day 0: Getting a bottle of pheromone cologne. Rumors say that it will improve attraction.

Let's see where it goes.
 

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Day 2: Finished Chase’s 30 days challenge. *** Holy music ***

The cologne is promising. Girls open well in past 2 days.


Example - Day 1
Grocery store at a T intersection, I’m looking at a cereal box. 2 girls go past me, I wave say hi, girl say hello.

Then they stop and look at something behind me. I turned around:
Me: Hey what do you think about this box?
Her: The cover?
Me: Yeah
She giggles and go away.


Example - Day 2
Mall near the escalator. I’m on bottom. Girl on the escalator going down. She sees me and puts head down.

I do fist bump, then ask for her name.
The key is to ask for her name while doing the fist bump.

Long handshake.
I say let’s sit down. She lightly shakes her head, says no, and we part way.
 

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Hint of smile - Day 0: Just see a group photo 5 years ago. In the photo I had a sad face. Looking in the mirror and I still have sad face.

So I'm going to have this kind of face:
(Mozart, Tesla)

Especially:
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Just a hint of a smile. It's almost imperceptible... as we've stated before on being charming and roguish and particularly when discussing sprezzatura, understatement takes the day. You'll notice in every one of those pictures above, with the exception of the third Picasso image, each man has a hint of a smile playing about his mouth. This makes him look impish... privy to some unknown detail... and as if he knows something you do not.
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Exercise: When alone making exaggerate, frozen smile.
Idea is that by constantly smiling I'll have a hint of a smile as default expression.
 

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4th day: Not perfect, but it’s time to test the smile.

Example:
Park, I walk past two girls. They are smiling. I slowly smile, one of them says: “Hi friend.”

Off balanced because girls don’t usually open me. I don’t follow up.
 

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8th day: Right now with a tiny effort I can make a hint of smile in the field.

Example:
Gas station, inside the little store. A girl is nearby. I say hi, she says hi, I do fist bumps, she smiles. I ask for her name, she says it, shake hand. She is hesitating. After the handshake she walks away.
 

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12th day: Now it is a hint of a smile. Not as exaggerated as in the pictures but good enough.

Example:
Department store, girl on opposite aisle. She sees me, moves in my way.
I pass by her, fist bump.
She smiles nervously, says “Why?” but complies.
I ask for her name, she tells me.
Going for handshake. She hesitates, I do fist bump again and go.
 

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Reward after compliance - Day 0: One mistake that I make over and over is not rewarding after compliance. Let’s fix this.
 

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1st day: Outdoor club - kissing a girl on the cheek.

Lessons:
  • Some hole in the wall places can be good.
  • Fashion - when in Rome do as the Romans: Bringing many clothes, when outside venue I select clothes based on people in line.
  • What to talk about - when in line I’m on my phone, spending the entire time listening to what other people talk about.
  • I look good - clothes / facial expression: when I get in a pair of girl say “oh my god you’re handsome” and hugs me.
  • I don’t sound good - a girl standing alone near the dance floor, I chat with her but she has trouble hearing me. Though she still complies with physical (fist bump, spin).
  • Who is this girl? Why does she have glasses and business clothes in a club?
  • I may need to tailor to the venue better.
 

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2nd day: After a week relapsing into porn addiction, I come out and continue with dating.

Street, do a fist bump, then saying “Nice, what’s your name?”
 

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3rd day: What if in a coffee shop, a pair of girls facing the wall?

I walk past them twice to build mere exposure, then open. It doesn’t work.

Anyway, I know my progress is super slow. The general problem is I react poorly in novel situation.

In the next month I plan to operate a secret project that will boost my learning speed. Meanwhile I’ll just work on one thing at the time.
 
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