Easy Gambit to Sexualize

terminator92

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According to the forum rules, I cannot as yet post on the Tactics & Techniques thread. But I have a gambit I have used multiple times over 2 years now to turn the conversation sexual. This can be used when on a date and the girl is attracted to sexualize or when you are in isolation with a girl and she has given you IOIs or to test the waters by introducing a risque topic to see where you stand. The scenario described in this gambit actually happened with a teacher of mine and that's where I got this idea. So here goes:

Setup- I start with asking her what languages she speaks or get the topic onto languages and then start the gambit.

Gambit -"You know I tried learning German, I wasn't that bad at it but I just could not get the pronunciation down. I did quite well in the written tests, but the speaking was the problem. Once, I was having my German oral exam and finally after the exam my teacher who was this girl from Vienna was like your grammar and stuff is good but your pronunciation is just off. I have told you this several times, you speak German like you are speaking English, German has harsh sounds which you just don't pronounce correctly. And I told her that I was trying my best I just couldn't seem to be able to make those harsh sounds and she was like okay let me put it this way whenever you have to pronounce these harsh words that have "cht together like Nacht" (meaning night) think of it like the sound one makes when they are being choked, keep that cue in mind and make sure you say it like that in a harsh way. I was like okay and I thought what a random example to give and later as I was thinking about it I thought she must have been one of those who just likes being choked in bed and that's why that's what she could think of off the top of her head" :D

Follow up:
I say the last part with a laugh and then depending on the reaction I have used many follow ups like

"Hey don't hate, I am open minded and I love it when girls openly express their sexuality/ kinks." (Go off into sexual openness and non-judgment)
"You look like you are also the kind of girl who would like to be choked in bed."
"Hey to each his own. I have my own kinks and I think great sex is based on people being uninhibited about what gets them off!"
"Well, you know after 50 Shades of Grey choking is now almost vanilla."


And tons of other variations. Of course always calibrate to the girl and the stage of the interaction you are at with the girl.
I have had as far as I remember at least 8 girls blankly admit that they also love being choked after delivering this gambit and a lot of other girls who admitted to having tried it before and a very shy girl who did not really respond and I just cut the thread and moved on to another topic later bring it up in bed and turned out she absolutely loved being choked.

Anyways if any of you are interested or tried learning German use the gambit and let me know your thoughts :)
 

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According to the forum rules, I cannot as yet post on the Tactics & Techniques thread. But I have a gambit I have used multiple times over 2 years now to turn the conversation sexual. This can be used when on a date and the girl is attracted to sexualize or when you are in isolation with a girl and she has given you IOIs or to test the waters by introducing a risque topic to see where you stand. The scenario described in this gambit actually happened with a teacher of mine and that's where I got this idea. So here goes:

Setup- I start with asking her what languages she speaks or get the topic onto languages and then start the gambit.

Gambit -"You know I tried learning German, I wasn't that bad at it but I just could not get the pronunciation down. I did quite well in the written tests, but the speaking was the problem. Once, I was having my German oral exam and finally after the exam my teacher who was this girl from Vienna was like your grammar and stuff is good but your pronunciation is just off. I have told you this several times, you speak German like you are speaking English, German has harsh sounds which you just don't pronounce correctly. And I told her that I was trying my best I just couldn't seem to be able to make those harsh sounds and she was like okay let me put it this way whenever you have to pronounce these harsh words that have "cht together like Nacht" (meaning night) think of it like the sound one makes when they are being choked, keep that cue in mind and make sure you say it like that in a harsh way. I was like okay and I thought what a random example to give and later as I was thinking about it I thought she must have been one of those who just likes being choked in bed and that's why that's what she could think of off the top of her head" :D

Follow up:
I say the last part with a laugh and then depending on the reaction I have used many follow ups like

"Hey don't hate, I am open minded and I love it when girls openly express their sexuality/ kinks." (Go off into sexual openness and non-judgment)
"You look like you are also the kind of girl who would like to be choked in bed."
"Hey to each his own. I have my own kinks and I think great sex is based on people being uninhibited about what gets them off!"
"Well, you know after 50 Shades of Grey choking is now almost vanilla."


And tons of other variations. Of course always calibrate to the girl and the stage of the interaction you are at with the girl.
I have had as far as I remember at least 8 girls blankly admit that they also love being choked after delivering this gambit and a lot of other girls who admitted to having tried it before and a very shy girl who did not really respond and I just cut the thread and moved on to another topic later bring it up in bed and turned out she absolutely loved being choked.

Anyways if any of you are interested or tried learning German use the gambit and let me know your thoughts :)


They are not bad, but throwing them just like that could backfired if the girl is not into for example chocking, pulling hair etc... no all girls are into those things and it could backfired, so it would be nice if you pre-empt with knowing what she is into...
 

terminator92

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Even with girls who were not into that, it has helped to pave the way to discuss other sexual topics. But to be honest, most chicks I have met like being dominated in some form or the other and whenever I get a not so positive response I always calibrate by leading it somewhere else or to just the broader topic of sexual non-judgment but yes there might of course be an off change she is completely put off by it though to me that kind of serves as a filtering mechanism as I would not enjoy a girl who isn't into some rough stuff.
 
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