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    Compliance, comfort and attraction

    Hello, I have a very basic question. From my experience this past two months, it seems to me that compliance is a sign of girls feeling comfortable rather than being attracted to me. I have this cold but nice and kind vibe really. I cannot really shake it off (growing up as a nice guy oh well)...
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    Issues on my part in bed

    Hello, recently, I spent a night with a girl. We had sex at night and then again in the morning after we woke up. I masturbated 2 days before this because I was worried I would finish too fast. The reality is I could not come at all. My dude was like 80% hard most of the time and that is my...
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    Screening question - invisible or go more ambiguous?

    Hello, Recently I have been playing around with screening because that is something that I have been neglecting. And if you do that like I did past year, you can end up with starting something with or just investing in a girl who has some baggage, issues or is not a great match for you. My...
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    Your neutral facial expression can reveal your socio-economic status

    Hi, couple days ago I stumbled upon an article based on a research from University of Toronto showing that people can guess your socio-economic status. The article is here. If you do not have the time to read it, I will list out the findings. They key thing to mention is that the method was...
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    Girl shrugs her shoukders when I point out something

    Hi, This most likely has a very basic explanation but I cannot figure it out. I met couple of girls where when I pointed out something or just mentioned something about them - example: "you look like you did not get much sleep last night" (which in hindsight I might have implied that she looks...
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    What to do to maintain sexual tension when the girl keeps defusing it

    Hello, I just came from a date, it went well, however I observed that when I tried to build the tension in some moments between all the connecting, flirting, deep diving and playful banter, by staring her deeply in the eyes (I am yet to learn some other "technique"), she usually started...
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    Lessons from a tinder date after a year of not gaming at all

    The date was from Tinder, she said she got interested in me and pretty much kept the app for 7 weeks because of me - we could not find a time that would be good for us both 1) People are like box of chocolates... You never know what they have been through, what their motivations are and so on...
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    Health Asking for more references about my physique

    Hello, the reason I ask about opinions here is to just get more feedback - most of my friends dont work out and they say something that I look good and that I am "ripped" (probably the closest translation from my native language)... Which... them not working out is most likely the reason they...
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    Looking for an article on the main site

    Hello, I was not sure where to put this. I remember an article that talked about feeling insecure because your girl has more sexual partners than you. Does anyone remember the title or if it was part of some other article? I read the one about her partner count and finding out and the one Why...
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    Her relationship with her dad

    Hello, I have been reading a lot about how daddy issues affect men lately (because I kinda have them), but usually this phenomenon is more talked about in case of women. And how it affects their attraction toward guys. I also remember Oven's video on RSD channel about this, how he discovered a...
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    What's the difference between tests and disrespectful remarks?

    I thought that tests/challenges had certain flirty aspect to it but I cannot remember any interaction from past days that a girl would say something rude to me with some playfulness or "flirtiness". I want to prevent that "he lets me walk all over him like no problem, he has no self-respect"...
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    The best course of action to get the most learning from this

    Hello, The set up is fairly straight forward and the end result most likely set too. But let me explain what I have in mind. I structred the post, hopefully all the important info is there. Start with title. Current situation: I sat down next to a girl on the first day of our class, we talked...
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    How to introduce myself in an attractive way in front of a whole class

    Hello, in one of our courses (it is called, roughly translated as: training of social and managing skills) we have to stand up and say something about ourselves to others in class (not timely limited, but people talk about 2 minutes). There is 18 of us in total. There are like 9 girls. I find it...
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    Problem with my mind being too analytical about myself and everything

    Hello, I will start by saying that I am an introverted person, somewhere in between of a flegmatic and melancholic. I found this site in October 2012 thanks to some dude on Omegle named Fernando from Chile. Because I talked about a girl that friendzoned me and I had no idea what to do. Most...
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    How do I answer "What are you looking for" type of questions?

    Hello, recently, I have had troubles with girls asking me (either on date or like 20 minutes after approach - most of the time direct) "what do you want" or "what are you looking for" or any variation like "are you looking for a serious relationship?" or on Tinder "do you think his is a hook up...
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