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  1. HeartRipper

    Great Escalation, Make-Out, And She Walked-Away

    Spot on. I agree. Or like @ElderPrice mentioned, maybe she was just a girl on a high. You had a small interaction, no moving, less investment...then 1-minute makeout (too long in a public setting. Kiss a little, pull away and invite her home).
  2. HeartRipper

    It's your boy LD. Long Dick. Leave a message.

    It's your boy LD. Long Dick. Leave a message.
  3. HeartRipper

    FR Girl at the bar

    This is definitely good. Any experience is good for reference experiences. The better your game becomes, the more you will look at these interactions and plainly see how you fucked up. And you will be happy you did 'em. Couple of points: Generally stay away from asking for permission. This is...
  4. HeartRipper

    She walked away without saying anything?

    I think is really good. It would've been great to read her reaction when you told her that you were going back inside.
  5. HeartRipper

    What do you do when a girl you’re interested in has problems in their life.

    What do you want with her? A relationship?
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    Observations vs Insights in The Opener. Most of you suck at this

    @Tony D, This is an amazing reminder. 100%. The opener sometimes should simply do that...open the girl, get her attention and then deliver the insightful magic. Otherwise, the last thing you want is a girl asking "what?" from not having heard what you said, and then having to deliver the whole...
  7. HeartRipper

    She walked away without saying anything?

    My bad. This is actually true with really hot sets. You go in, she is responsive. Throws shit-test, you fail, or she throws a hoop and you comply...you're done. This happens because they are usually more skilled at screening guys so all they need you to do is one mistake and you are in the pile...
  8. HeartRipper

    What would girls think of me if they found out that I'm still a virgin?

    How do they usually ask? Because if they are asking, it is because you are giving off signals that you are a virgin (sub-consciously). This means you need to focus on getting your fundamentals right so that they never get to ask in the first place. Or simply get laid so that your new truth is...
  9. HeartRipper

    What would girls think of me if they found out that I'm still a virgin?

    @Cthulhu , I think there isn't an inherent problem with being a virgin because all of us had to start there anyway. You need to know, however, that girls are definitely more attracted and turned on by a sexually experienced man than to one that's not, because they know he will provide them with...
  10. HeartRipper

    She walked away without saying anything?

    No. I think that would be a bad idea, as you want to be the one leading, not following the girl around. Although it is equally bad to just stand there and lose value, waiting for her. I think what you did (waiting a few minutes and then leaving) was the best thing to do in the moment. However...
  11. HeartRipper

    She walked away without saying anything?

    That could be a possibility but field pick up doesn't quite work that way. It is not that the moment you fail a shit-test the girl frowns, loses attraction and then dashes off--because you failed the shit-test (though it could happen if it is extreme but unlikely). What I have noticed is that...
  12. HeartRipper

    She walked away without saying anything?

    This has never happened to me. At least the girl excuses herself before she leaves and then doesn't come back. However, I think to really find out what happened, it was worth re-opening her later on. At that point, you would be able to gauge from her reaction towards you (positive or negative)...
  13. HeartRipper

    How to Come Back from a "Friend" Shit Test

    Thanks for the insight @naturalmikey I agree. The focus should be to get a meet, not to have an epic interaction.
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    How to Come Back from a "Friend" Shit Test

    A cousin of mine sent me her best friend's number last week and I hit her DMs (WhatsApp inbox) immediately. My intro was smooth--I basically just introduced myself and told her where I got her number. I asked and she sent me some pics of her (I usually ask for some to generate some compliance...
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    How to Stop Being Creepy?

    I think this is pretty standard. However, do not follow the old pick up method of "always open over your shoulder." I have honestly found that it doesn't really matter how you approach as long as you get the girl's attention and then get the interaction going. This is the goal of the first few...
  16. HeartRipper

    How to Stop Being Creepy?

    Tyler (Owen Cook) has autism but he trained himself out of it. I think you can do the same by hardcore working on your fundamentals. Dressing better, being calmer, how you walk etc. The more value you have before you even start talking to a girl, the less she will be creeped out on approach...
  17. HeartRipper

    Holy **** I am bad at talking to girls

    It's usually a bad idea to argue with girls over game principles. I don't even bring this stuff up with girls because most psychology works in reverse of what the conscious mind thinks is what is. So do not explain to her about why buying her drinks is putting her on a pedestal, or why she will...
  18. HeartRipper

    What do you do when a girl you’re interested in has problems in their life.

    Let me start by mentioning that I am an empath to the point that it sometimes has hurt my game (don't be fooled by the name HeartRipper . Lol). However, the reality of life is that sometimes you cannot help everyone. And yet emotion (from a lay or relationship, whatever) will drive you to...
  19. HeartRipper

    Opening - is there a middle ground

    A situational opener that will work in all instances was one I learned from Vadim at Honest Sigalz. It especially worked for me in daygame especially (since until recently, I have been working on my daygame more than night). It works with commenting on anything attached to the girl. Something...
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