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  1. Higher

    FR+ Troubled girl

    This happened a week ago (Sunday June 7). CONTEXT Me: Caucasian European, 43, local Her: European with slavic roots, ~33, local This beauty enters my awareness as I'm seated on a bench at the lake, sending out a vocal. OPENING She complies nicely to my pic opener. We're wearing similar caps...
  2. J

    Who are the best day gamers to watch to learn how to cold approach and learn quickly?

    There isn't a lot demo people here which I find strange because that is a huge part of men learning to date women in general. And since this sight is so heavily focused on cold approach It would stand to reason that guys need to see it in action to see how it's done. But pickup artistry is all...
  3. James Cruse

    LR Blue-Eyed Mega tits Rihanna & Model Surfie Cockblocks

    This happened several weeks ago and I originally posted on the discord. Night game, inside a nightclub. Most of this is fairly typical of my night game pulls now, with a few surprises that came up that aren't typical of my normal night club seductions that make it interesting. I usually only...
  4. J

    FR FR “Strong Attraction, No Pull: Noticing a Pattern in My Night Game”

    Yooo, sup guys! This is going to be my first time posting on the forum—or any forum at all, actually lol—so I hope this is a decent read at least. TL;DR at the bottom if you're short on time. Thanks, ChatGPT, for that one lol. I guess to get straight to the point, I’ve been noticing a very...
  5. Arnav

    Is compliance actually a sign of attraction, or just basic social politeness?

    I’m struggling to understand the concpet of compliance in my interactions with girls. When I approach them and start talking, I can often get them to move or comply with small requests, like allowing me to inspect a piece of jewelry they’re wearing or move a few feet. However, despite this...
  6. Arnav

    A perfect 10 gave me strong compliance but still said no- need insight?

    Hi guys, I have been reading articles on gc and read the bits on commpliance and also some field reports on the forums and it seemed like compliance was the strongest indicator of attraction. I recently appraoched a girl, and had 2 major compliances that I got from her, this gave me the...
  7. V

    A girl most likely into me but I can't get past the mental block

    Hey there y'all, I've been posting here like two months ago about my breakup. Since then much has changed and I feel better. There are few experiences from that but I will leave it for another thread. So I started dating again and cold approaching, got me to the point where I was in local...
  8. O

    How do you get quick investment to equalize the frame?

    What are the three phases, value, compliance/investment and attainability? Fuktt up the last one numerous times I'm sure. Women am I right. They objectify themselves. They force objectification because they are.. over responsive and over dependent on our words, actions, vibes, making themselves...
  9. James Cruse

    Transitions Compliance Bridging: How to Eliminate Flakes by Bridging the Compliance Chasm Between Dating Apps & Dates

    This is similar to a conversation I was having with JM about what I eventually figured out that I needed to do when I was using Dating apps in Latin America to reduce or completely remove flaking and notoriously late dates while in Latin America: A Method to get women to commit, their...
  10. James Cruse

    Great Seduction Brings out the Best in Women

    Great Seduction Brings out the Best in Women This should go without saying but I think alot of men who are learning and implementing seduction lose sight of what they’re actual goal is with seducing women. We’re not just here to have sex with women and potentially HAVE a relationship. That’s...
  11. Higher

    Date Plans Attention-seeker or did I make any mistakes?

    Hi gurus, I need your insights on this one. I'm tryna understand if this girl was an attention-seeker and not really open to be seduced, or if I made any obvious mistakes (or both). -- The girl I spot this Asian girl while daygaming today. She's dressed to the nines, super sexy, she has a...
  12. T

    Trouble Leading When Moving a Girl (Night Game)

    I’ve just got into the habit of moving girls during my night game interactions. I usually suggest we go somewhere quieter or to the bar to grab a drink. They usually don’t move with me until I say it a second time (They just kinda stare at me or sometimes they’ll give a slight objection, which...
  13. M

    Reten problems… can it be fixed?

    It’s weird… and perhaps almost unbelievable, but in a year I’ve laid over 73 women but yet I’ve failed at retaining anyone for something longterm. It’s not really hard for me to get laid, in fact, if I wanted to lay one girl per day, I probably could achieve that. I don’t think I’m there yet...
  14. R

    Compliance Tests Intensity

    Can we rank compliance tests based on intensity? The way I see things is that compliance is an indicator of her attraction: the more compliant she is, the more attracted she is. Also, I see compliance can be measured in two aspects: the number of times she complies, and the nature of requests...
  15. Higher

    Barely saw her and she asks me what my ascendant sign is...

    Gents, I met this girl back in November. I cold approached her and we went for a coffee. We traded numbers. We met again end of Jan (we couldn't meet earlier), and we went for a walk and another coffee. Never kissed. Overall facetime: 3.5h. Now, I realize I give off massive boyfriend vibes...
  16. T

    Girl Leaves the Interaction Shortly After Isolating

    I’ve recently gotten to the point where I am able to move/isolate women after I open and reach the hook point. (Night Game at Bars) However, I’m reaching a sticking point where the girl will say she has to ‘go find her friends’ just minutes after we get to a new part of the venue or even if we...
  17. Calibration

    How to address wild cards?

    As I explained in the other post, I'm facing a lot of wild cards or curve balls which I don't know how to address and I'm getting the same results since I'm doing the same thing over and over again. Since there are different wild cards, with every girl and I've been facing a lot of different...
  18. WorldlyGoldenViper

    Opinions Needed! - How To Move Interactions Forward with this New Girl? (Met at Work, Good Connection, Potential 1st Relationship)

    Hi everyone! First, a bit of background: I recently met this girl at work. I'm employed there full-time as my graduate role whereas it is more of a summer job for her. She is the same age as me, comes from a family of half Middle Eastern and half South Asia, but fully raised in New Zealand. She...
  19. Rakehell

    Transitions Commanding Her Sexually: Escalating to Sex in The Smoothest way Possible For Happy Customers and Boosts to Your Preselection Post Sex

    During escalation to sex I’ve found it very profitable to command her to help along in the process. After you make the initial definitive sexual move which in my opinion would be kissing, it opens up the door to having her comply with more sexual things. Of course you can have her comply prior...
  20. Jan

    FR Compliance Discrepancy - Tons of Body Language Compliance and Almost Zero Sexual Compliance

    I met this chick from Tinder. I’m 36, she is 27. We had a rather brief conversation online, then I proposed that we skip the app, and meet for a date. She agreed initially but she asked if we can postpone it to the weekend without giving a reason. I told her that “It’s not a good reason to...
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