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  1. assman93

    Is rizz learnable? Reviewing Olivia Fox Cabane's The Charisma Myth

    Last summer, on a moving job I made a friend I will name Noah to protect his identity. Noah was not actually that much younger than me but was nonetheless more attuned to Zoomer slang. Anyways, Noah introduced me to the term “rizz”, which denotes when a guy has romantic sway with a woman...
  2. B

    Last minute resistance after bar night, very close to pulling.

    Hello elders, So this happened to me twice within a couple of weeks: In the latest stages of a night out I spot a pair of girl sitting alone, one them being more approachable. I sit down and chat them up and escalate it with the better target. They warm up well, sitting right into me and are...
  3. J

    FR FR “Strong Attraction, No Pull: Noticing a Pattern in My Night Game”

    Yooo, sup guys! This is going to be my first time posting on the forum—or any forum at all, actually lol—so I hope this is a decent read at least. TL;DR at the bottom if you're short on time. Thanks, ChatGPT, for that one lol. I guess to get straight to the point, I’ve been noticing a very...
  4. P

    To start over on logistics in 2025

    My first post; I'll try to keep the context brief but can detail more if needed. More logistics/lifestyle than technique; no harm skipping this if the former doesn't interest you. White 25 yo in central Alabama (USA). Not-ideal logistics: at least a half-hour drive to the nearest city/area with...
  5. W

    App Idea For Seamless Room Bookings (When Pulling)

    Sometimes, you have bad logistics (e.g. staying with family, or date is far away from your place, or can’t go back to the girl’s place, or you’re travelling and have no accommodation) And if it’s on with the girl, you might have to book a room during the date Except that most booking apps are...
  6. T

    FR Fumbled Yet Another Pull Home from Date [Missed Escalation Windows]

    I greeted her with a hug and complimented her on her outfit. After I got my coffee, we sat at a table and had some basic get-to-know-you talk. I did a cold read on her ethnicity by assuming she was Puerto Rican (she was mixed B&W). She mentioned that she used sunscreen, which I teased her about...
  7. AdamC

    How do I "Pull" this Lithuanian "Voman?"

    Hey everyone - would appreciate your help - "How do I "Pull" this Lithuanian "Voman?" So yesterday I picked up this Lithuanian Woman who just came to visit Los Angeles and stay with her Aunt here for 5 days, and then she travels off to Mexico City. I opened her at a CVS in Chinatown after...
  8. Jan

    How do you PRACTICE pulling?

    As long as you are in a high traffic venue, t's quite easy to practice approaching as a beginner. If you are determined, you can practice many, many times in just few hours. It gets more difficult when you want to practice mid, and especially late game elements. I'm specifically talking asking...
  9. Jan

    How do you handle two sets in day game?

    Most of my approaches during day game (mall game) are single sets. They are quite simple to handle socially and if they hook, it's very easy to proceed to an instadate most of the time. However, recently I got pickier about the quality of girls and I realized that I stroll around quite a lot...
  10. Conquistador

    Date Plans I sublet a pigsty (but my own room is clean) (pulling)

    So I finally have somewhere to pull to!! Only problem is, I sublet for the summer, and the dude’s roommates trashed the place except his/my room (which even has some nice classy posters!!) Plus they left literally a half ton of stuff around so I can’t just clean the place out. At least I have...
  11. Jan

    LR-- I feel like I'm getting good at this shit. Fantastic evening with a hot milf.

    There is this new venue in my city. It's a high quality food court with a large bar with live music. I had a great experience there few days ago, when I approached a group of three, managed to pull one of the them and had great two nights in a row with her. It's another story which I will most...
  12. Jan

    FU WTF End Game situation

    FIRST I was out in a club two weekends in a row. On the first weekend I met a really beautiful woman. I was with a friend and we approached her and her friend on the dance floor. We danced a bit and had a decent banter on the dance floor. After couple of minutes was feeling due to my limiting...
  13. Chrance

    Socializing Direct vs Indirect Pulling - which and when?

    After reading a nice LR by @DoWhatWorks I’ve been rethinking my approach to pulling, specifically in a night game scenario. I seem to have a mental conflict with two things The idea that the girl already has her mind made up of whether she’ll have sex with you, and Plausible deniability with...
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