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sooo, went on a second date and she is just a normal girl who is afraid of kissing but lets you touch.. oh, fuck, and now I remembered my first post and what happened...
not seeing her again would be the good idea..
but anyway, just for education purposes:
bad stuff
second date, sitting playing games, my arm around her, or on her legs. but nothing else is happening. even if I caress her head, like "good girl" she said "mm, but I asked you to not touch me, I am shy"
also said that after a kiss on a shoulder (she wears a cute sweater with naked shoulders)
conversation went toward girls with bad/absent fathers and she said - yeah, I am one of them.
good stuff:
can touch hands, her legs, hug her (fuck, I am sounding like such a virgin)
I called her, she didn't answer, I went to sleep, than had 2 missed calls (what girl that you haven't fucked calls you back?)
she takes a 1.5 hour bus to see me
option #1
see her again, say computer is off limits (shit is downloading or whatever)
set up candles, turn off the light and kinda set romantic frame
see if I can get her aroused by touching
I can learn more about physical escalation, try different techniques and frames, like massage
I don't have any other prospects for now and in one week streets will be empty for a month and a half (winter break + bad weather)
maybe she will be more open and I will actually move things forward
option #2
it will just be more of the same rejection which will further cement her refusal to go forward and I will only harm my escalation techniques with shitty feedback (kinda like if you daygame 30 yo mean looking married women and get 80% of hard rejections and 20% reacting in disgust)
so just fucking ghost
after a date with 18yo virgin I was contacted by a policeman. need your help
fucking scary shit, please give all of your advice, I can't exactly tell my mom this shit, you know:) I am 27, I met a 18 y o girl though daygame. she was super compliant from the get go, called her same day, got a date for tomorrow in a cafe near my place, for her it was an hour and a half bus...
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sooo, went on a second date and she is just a normal girl who is afraid of kissing but lets you touch.. oh, fuck, and now I remembered my first post and what happened...
not seeing her again would be the good idea..
but anyway, just for education purposes:
bad stuff
second date, sitting playing games, my arm around her, or on her legs. but nothing else is happening. even if I caress her head, like "good girl" she said "mm, but I asked you to not touch me, I am shy"
also said that after a kiss on a shoulder (she wears a cute sweater with naked shoulders)
conversation went toward girls with bad/absent fathers and she said - yeah, I am one of them.
good stuff:
can touch hands, her legs, hug her (fuck, I am sounding like such a virgin)
I called her, she didn't answer, I went to sleep, than had 2 missed calls (what girl that you haven't fucked calls you back?)
she takes a 1.5 hour bus to see me
option #1
see her again, say computer is off limits (shit is downloading or whatever)
set up candles, turn off the light and kinda set romantic frame
see if I can get her aroused by touching
I can learn more about physical escalation, try different techniques and frames, like massage
I don't have any other prospects for now and in one week streets will be empty for a month and a half (winter break + bad weather)
maybe she will be more open and I will actually move things forward
option #2
it will just be more of the same rejection which will further cement her refusal to go forward and I will only harm my escalation techniques with shitty feedback (kinda like if you daygame 30 yo mean looking married women and get 80% of hard rejections and 20% reacting in disgust)
so just fucking ghost
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