Advanced body language – Sexual Presence (from Cajuns blog)

[Glow]

Advanced body language – Sexual Presence



1. Less is more.

- Move only when you need to, and react with delay.

- Slow down your movements, as if moving underwater.

- Movement should be bold, sporadic and purposeful.



2. Poeticize your presence.

- Absolutely believe that you are a spectacle to be witnessed.

- Draw attention to your every move with strong eye contact, and delayed responses.

- Always appear physically more comfortable than anyone else in the group. Lean back when standing, angle back and drape your arms when sitting.

- Your demeanor should be carefree, content; you do not want or need anything.



3. Emphasize your sexuality

- Relax your eyes. Look at Jim Morrison, Phil Lynott or even Marilyn Monroe, their eyes all carry the same look, model it.

- Slightly Purse your lips, as if you’re about to kiss them.

- Slightly tilt your head up and look down when speaking.

- Slowly study women’s faces during interaction, glance at lips periodically.

- Keep an inquisitory look of mild arousal on your face.

Just wanted to share and maybe activate one of the GEMS out there that many dont know of. This is a core "how to" on sexualised presence as outlined by Cajun back in the days.

Still available and taken from https://cajunsspice.blogspot.com/2008/01/advanced-body-language.html
2 more articles there. and solid products are available if you want more depth on that and other aspects of physical presence. i have no relation to them or it just fyi. Its just gold.

I am as i am coming back myself these days using this as a starting point for "presence maxing" to use a term people can relate to. Its really more presence management in my book to avoid herculian notions. Presence refers to more than looks, especially concerned with vibes eg looks being a subcomponent of it - Still important.

Have fun w it

Ps: Mods I respectfully assume an "abstract" like this from the blog is acceptable as it is standard practice to cross-create traffic boosting his site. Please remove if its not aligned with your ways.

 

[Jamster]

Body language an important -very important - adjunct to "approach, approach, approach."

Cajun Spice is right, you can learn a lot from rock stars. The thing is - each rock star is different, so you can pick what suits you.

Buddy Holly, John Lennon and Weezer are WAY different from Mick Jagger or Jim Morrison who are different from Leonard Cohen or Bob Dylan who are different from Robert Smith or Morrisey. But they all have rizz dripping off their lips, yes, indeed

So, pick the rock star that fits YOU.

I was blown away by, of all people, a guy named Tyler Ballpark.

I gotta admit, I looked up his performance cause his song on the radio just irritated me. When I first saw him, even, I sneered - which I don't do often. Then he started to move and sing and my eyes rolled at how weird and over the top he was.

(How's THAT for an introduction?)

Then after a minute of watching, I realized "DAMN! that guy is compelling!" (And maybe some hope for guys that aren't classic sleek studmuffins like Jagger and Morrison.)

 

[Glow]

hehe interesting indeed,

hes a mix of quirky, weird, a force of being and deep closed eye sorta expressions just from what i saw (these work the most - girl will sizzle on these especially when he adds forcefulness to it) - i am certain he appeals a lot to certain group of women.

Thanks for the share.

 

[POB]

Just wanted to share and maybe activate one of the GEMS out there that many dont know of. This is a core "how to" on sexualised presence as outlined by Cajun back in the days.

Still available and taken from https://cajunsspice.blogspot.com/2008/01/advanced-body-language.html
2 more articles there. and solid products are available if you want more depth on that and other aspects of physical presence. i have no relation to them or it just fyi. Its just gold.

I am as i am coming back myself these days using this as a starting point for "presence maxing" to use a term people can relate to. Its really more presence management in my book to avoid herculian notions. Presence refers to more than looks, especially concerned with vibes eg looks being a subcomponent of it - Still important.

Have fun w it

Ps: Mods I respectfully assume an "abstract" like this from the blog is acceptable as it is standard practice to cross-create traffic boosting his site. Please remove if its not aligned with your ways.

G-zus @Glow , no need to kick the door this hard on your way back!
Great finding.

 

[Glow]

G-zus @Glow , no need to kick the door this hard on your way back!
Great finding.

Not sure what u mean... this is from my light weight arsenal
Good seing you POB!

 

[Jamster]

I looked up a couple excellent old rockers who are notably not handsome, but really talented: David Bromberg, and Wet Willie.

They project a kind of presence.

But then, really good professors do the same thing. Some of them are handsome, some not. Some REALLY not.

I audited a Bio class a little bit ago and the professor woman was just captivating and charming. But I saw her walking down the street a month or so after the class ended - and I was actually shocked at how unattractive she was in real life. Put her in front of 150 adoring undergrads with a presentation that she had mastered? Different story.

 

[James Cruse]

I audited a Bio class a little bit ago and the professor woman was just captivating and charming. But I saw her walking down the street a month or so after the class ended - and I was actually shocked at how unattractive she was in real life. Put her in front of 150 adoring undergrads with a presentation that she had mastered? Different story.

I think that's an interesting case - where someone has cultivated exceptional body language for their career but hasn't bothered to do this in their personal life.

I've seen this with a few people I've worked with before - they switch on great body language for presenting in front of potential clients or motivational speakers speaking in front of their clients.
But when you see these guys outside that, their body language falls apart and they look like normal not-so-confident people.
It's like they're steeling themselves for their presentation, but it's too hard for them to continue outside just those short periods of time for the sake of work/money.

I think this is difficult for us to comprehend but I've seen guys in seduction do the opposite - great body language when women are around, but can't make the effort for great body language presentation around their friends, family or at work.
These are the guys you'll find that they're not the leader of their group, but they look like they should be when you see what they're like around women.
Their male friends can't understand why they do so well with women when they behave (their body language) is like a loser around other men/at work. I've met these guys aswell.

We promote here to bring strong body language throughout your entire life holistically, personal, romantic or professional - at least I hope that's the message in the seduction community, it certainly is from me.