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fucking scary shit, please give all of your advice, I can't exactly tell my mom this shit, you know
I am 27, I met a 18 y o girl though daygame. she was super compliant from the get go, called her same day, got a date for tomorrow in a cafe near my place, for her it was an hour and a half bus ride, so, again, super compliant.
we met, I was talking slowly, sexy, we sat down, got food, I asked about what she is stydying vs what she dreams of. turns out she wants to be a director. which is my exact dream as well. so I asked her to tell me a script idea, she told me, I put in more details and we got a very good movie idea together.
meanwhile I am resting my hand on her back and we are sitting thigh to thigh
then I told her to persue her dreams and enroll into a movie university, explained how exactly she could apply for scholarships and actually make that happen.
then I invited her home to show her some whatever shit and we got our coats and left (3-5 min walk to my place). in the middle of the walk she is reading her phone and telling me that mother will probably disapprove and that she needs to go home.
I say that lets sit at my place for 5 min and then we both will go to the bus stop and I will take a bus as well since I plan to visit my grandma. she says ok.
we go inside, where I have a small self made studio with green screen and lights, I show her around and we sit on a couch before the computer
I turn to her and turn her head with my finger to kiss her, but she is a bit frightened and explains that she never kissed a guy before. she was also frightened to sit on my lap, but I sat on hers as a joke and then she had no more problem.
I make more attempts to kiss her which she refutes (but after that she bit her lips quiet a bit so I was compelled to push with a kiss). then finally I put her on a couch, and she becomes my height and I a kind of steal a kiss, just a peck on the lips
we play a bit of new star wars jedi whatever and witcher 3 with her on my lap and my hands around her legs and waist, then we kinda just walk around the room hugging, I carry her, she smiles and laughs.
then she really has to go (we spent about 40 min in my apartment) and we get up and go to the bus station, she is kinda quiet, which I interpreted as her being super aroused at the time, we stand on a bus stop, I ask if she wants to hug while waiting, she says no, which was kinda weird at the time.
ANYWAY
i text her "text me when you get there", with my only thoughts of anything done wrong that probably I should have gone easy on kissing attempts, since no one can actually fuck a virgin on a first date anyway.
I text her "fuck, still got the burger from that cafe in my coat pocket"
she replies "hahaha, don't show it to your granma"
here I completely relax about the whole "too many kissing attempts thing"
she texts me "I'm here" along with couple of jokes and friday night ends
FUCKING ANYWAY
two hours ago a guy texts me from new number
"hey"
"you shouln't have offend the girl"
I call him, calmly ask what is he talking about, he says with mild aggression "tell me, man, are you right in the head? a girl told me you hit on her"
at this point I just think this is her frendzoned friend something like 18-19 years old (I am 27), not a big deal at all, so I just talk very calmly like in customer service
I ask to give her the phone, she tells me I was being a bit aggressive, I basically tell her, ok I got it but you could have just told me that yourself without the guy, she says yeah you right, I told her how I liked her really much that she has the same dreams as I do, and we hang up.
after that I record whatsapp mesagges to her, kinda repeating that again and hinting on going to the movie next week and praising her friend for being a courageous guy (still thinking he is fuckin 18yo)
and record message to the guy himself, praising him directly and saying that I really like this girl, so he doesn't think I am some kind of pervy pua predator, and also how I didn't mean to push anyone or take advantage of anyone and that she never explicitly told me No and never pushed me away or anything like that.
then he fucking responds that he understands but he is just so tired to hear every monday morning on a police briefing how many pedophiles and rapists there are in the city and he just doesn't want his friends to be in the victim statistics. he tells me how my words about "and that she never explicitly told me No" will not hold up in court so I should me more careful, that he himself was in this situation and his friends were in this situation. and that he hopes that I resolved it when talking to her on the phone.
SO
do I ever meet this girl again? we kinda sorta have a maybe date next week, and I don't want to ghost her and I don't want to fuckin see her again honestly.
so I am thinking inviting her to the movie once and if i get a NO, that will be the end of that
I am 27, I met a 18 y o girl though daygame. she was super compliant from the get go, called her same day, got a date for tomorrow in a cafe near my place, for her it was an hour and a half bus ride, so, again, super compliant.
we met, I was talking slowly, sexy, we sat down, got food, I asked about what she is stydying vs what she dreams of. turns out she wants to be a director. which is my exact dream as well. so I asked her to tell me a script idea, she told me, I put in more details and we got a very good movie idea together.
meanwhile I am resting my hand on her back and we are sitting thigh to thigh
then I told her to persue her dreams and enroll into a movie university, explained how exactly she could apply for scholarships and actually make that happen.
then I invited her home to show her some whatever shit and we got our coats and left (3-5 min walk to my place). in the middle of the walk she is reading her phone and telling me that mother will probably disapprove and that she needs to go home.
I say that lets sit at my place for 5 min and then we both will go to the bus stop and I will take a bus as well since I plan to visit my grandma. she says ok.
we go inside, where I have a small self made studio with green screen and lights, I show her around and we sit on a couch before the computer
I turn to her and turn her head with my finger to kiss her, but she is a bit frightened and explains that she never kissed a guy before. she was also frightened to sit on my lap, but I sat on hers as a joke and then she had no more problem.
I make more attempts to kiss her which she refutes (but after that she bit her lips quiet a bit so I was compelled to push with a kiss). then finally I put her on a couch, and she becomes my height and I a kind of steal a kiss, just a peck on the lips
we play a bit of new star wars jedi whatever and witcher 3 with her on my lap and my hands around her legs and waist, then we kinda just walk around the room hugging, I carry her, she smiles and laughs.
then she really has to go (we spent about 40 min in my apartment) and we get up and go to the bus station, she is kinda quiet, which I interpreted as her being super aroused at the time, we stand on a bus stop, I ask if she wants to hug while waiting, she says no, which was kinda weird at the time.
ANYWAY
i text her "text me when you get there", with my only thoughts of anything done wrong that probably I should have gone easy on kissing attempts, since no one can actually fuck a virgin on a first date anyway.
I text her "fuck, still got the burger from that cafe in my coat pocket"
she replies "hahaha, don't show it to your granma"
here I completely relax about the whole "too many kissing attempts thing"
she texts me "I'm here" along with couple of jokes and friday night ends
FUCKING ANYWAY
two hours ago a guy texts me from new number
"hey"
"you shouln't have offend the girl"
I call him, calmly ask what is he talking about, he says with mild aggression "tell me, man, are you right in the head? a girl told me you hit on her"
at this point I just think this is her frendzoned friend something like 18-19 years old (I am 27), not a big deal at all, so I just talk very calmly like in customer service
I ask to give her the phone, she tells me I was being a bit aggressive, I basically tell her, ok I got it but you could have just told me that yourself without the guy, she says yeah you right, I told her how I liked her really much that she has the same dreams as I do, and we hang up.
after that I record whatsapp mesagges to her, kinda repeating that again and hinting on going to the movie next week and praising her friend for being a courageous guy (still thinking he is fuckin 18yo)
and record message to the guy himself, praising him directly and saying that I really like this girl, so he doesn't think I am some kind of pervy pua predator, and also how I didn't mean to push anyone or take advantage of anyone and that she never explicitly told me No and never pushed me away or anything like that.
then he fucking responds that he understands but he is just so tired to hear every monday morning on a police briefing how many pedophiles and rapists there are in the city and he just doesn't want his friends to be in the victim statistics. he tells me how my words about "and that she never explicitly told me No" will not hold up in court so I should me more careful, that he himself was in this situation and his friends were in this situation. and that he hopes that I resolved it when talking to her on the phone.
SO
do I ever meet this girl again? we kinda sorta have a maybe date next week, and I don't want to ghost her and I don't want to fuckin see her again honestly.
so I am thinking inviting her to the movie once and if i get a NO, that will be the end of that
