So in general I can regularly get 6s and the occasional 7 from tinder. And yet the last 2000 approaches from the standard Street stop compliment opener followed by cold read tease etc approach has resulted in no lays. I generally approached 7s and above (7-8s as 9s are rare).
I can understand if 8s are not accessible that can be a fundamentals thing. But from what everyone writes here it should be possible to get 7s more consistently from cold approach than tinder, but this goes against the data. (although historically I have had some high 7s and even 8s from daygame but never an 8 from online)
One option is to forego daygame and go with night but nightlife isn't so good here and I'd rather not stay up late 3+ times per week (and anyway nightlife isn't opened up yet from quarantine) .
So this leads me to believe that the standard compliment opener and chat is shit in general, or just shit for me.
Ironically after the first 1200 or so I tried an aggressive Scotty gll type approach and from that I got dates from it sometimes which I almost never did from ldm here but I fucked up all the dates. So I could try that again but go for 7s only and work on my date game with the 3 keys extensively. Still it seems odd that that would be an effective approach in general.
Is there a more effective model for street approaching?
Or better to go for stationary targets inside stores and use indirect routine stacks and so on?
Or parks (but what would be a good approach for a girl sitting in a park other than a compliment opener?)
Sorry I know this seems basic but I haven't been in the game actively for a little while and want to do more cold approach and don't want to make the same mistakes.
Would rather not do high pressure situations like public transport or situations with few targets so can't really train the approach a lot and practice (like grocery stores)
I can understand if 8s are not accessible that can be a fundamentals thing. But from what everyone writes here it should be possible to get 7s more consistently from cold approach than tinder, but this goes against the data. (although historically I have had some high 7s and even 8s from daygame but never an 8 from online)
One option is to forego daygame and go with night but nightlife isn't so good here and I'd rather not stay up late 3+ times per week (and anyway nightlife isn't opened up yet from quarantine) .
So this leads me to believe that the standard compliment opener and chat is shit in general, or just shit for me.
Ironically after the first 1200 or so I tried an aggressive Scotty gll type approach and from that I got dates from it sometimes which I almost never did from ldm here but I fucked up all the dates. So I could try that again but go for 7s only and work on my date game with the 3 keys extensively. Still it seems odd that that would be an effective approach in general.
Is there a more effective model for street approaching?
Or better to go for stationary targets inside stores and use indirect routine stacks and so on?
Or parks (but what would be a good approach for a girl sitting in a park other than a compliment opener?)
Sorry I know this seems basic but I haven't been in the game actively for a little while and want to do more cold approach and don't want to make the same mistakes.
Would rather not do high pressure situations like public transport or situations with few targets so can't really train the approach a lot and practice (like grocery stores)