Hello guys, wanted to share this:
I’m almost 40, i look very much younger and people usually guess I’m 30 or something like that.
I’ve been employed at this company three years now and there is this girl, 27, some male colleagues around her age tried to score with no success, and I would like to score myself.
She is in an office with a female colleague around my age, married with kids which I’m not interested in whatsoever, but I sometimes manage to pass by, step in, throw a couple jokes, being a little flirty and then leave and disappear for a while. My goal is to trigger them into thinking that out of all the people there I’m the one they enjoy the company the most and I’m pretty sure I achieved that result.
She likes me but I’m not sure in what way so I thought I’d share with you some signals that I got so far, though I’m not even sure they can be considered signals at all:
She and some colleagues of her (female) go and have lunch each Friday and one colleague told me she said I should go cause she’d be happy, when I asked her why should she be happy she said I make her laugh. I cut myself out of the conversation telling her they already have an entertainer (one male colleague has lunch with them each day- also he’s one of those who tried to score and failed).
One afternoon after work me and her and another colleague had a chat and the other colleague said we should have drinks together someday after work, I said ok as long as nobody knows (Again I wanted out of the conversation for there is no point in hanging out with her and other colleagues).
She personally told me she dreamt of me, in the dream I won a lottery and became a millionaire. She told me so in front of other colleagues and not during private conversation.
I think I’m inside her comfort zone but not sure If she sees me as a colleague whose company she values and that’s it, or I should move forward with her.
Also the environment is very delicate cause girls talk and I don’t want to end on the list of those who tried to score and couldn’t.
Should I move forward with this girl and if yes, how?
Thanks a lot!
I’m almost 40, i look very much younger and people usually guess I’m 30 or something like that.
I’ve been employed at this company three years now and there is this girl, 27, some male colleagues around her age tried to score with no success, and I would like to score myself.
She is in an office with a female colleague around my age, married with kids which I’m not interested in whatsoever, but I sometimes manage to pass by, step in, throw a couple jokes, being a little flirty and then leave and disappear for a while. My goal is to trigger them into thinking that out of all the people there I’m the one they enjoy the company the most and I’m pretty sure I achieved that result.
She likes me but I’m not sure in what way so I thought I’d share with you some signals that I got so far, though I’m not even sure they can be considered signals at all:
She and some colleagues of her (female) go and have lunch each Friday and one colleague told me she said I should go cause she’d be happy, when I asked her why should she be happy she said I make her laugh. I cut myself out of the conversation telling her they already have an entertainer (one male colleague has lunch with them each day- also he’s one of those who tried to score and failed).
One afternoon after work me and her and another colleague had a chat and the other colleague said we should have drinks together someday after work, I said ok as long as nobody knows (Again I wanted out of the conversation for there is no point in hanging out with her and other colleagues).
She personally told me she dreamt of me, in the dream I won a lottery and became a millionaire. She told me so in front of other colleagues and not during private conversation.
I think I’m inside her comfort zone but not sure If she sees me as a colleague whose company she values and that’s it, or I should move forward with her.
Also the environment is very delicate cause girls talk and I don’t want to end on the list of those who tried to score and couldn’t.
Should I move forward with this girl and if yes, how?
Thanks a lot!
