Any Good Sex Technique Resources?

Henry

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What are some good sex technique resources such as books, blogs, youtube channels, etc?
 

ZacAdam

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What are some good sex technique resources such as books, blogs, youtube channels, etc?

There was this one article. I could not remember. A GC article. Adapted Missionary. Not sure if it is the right article.

I'm not sure it is Chase or Ricardus, or there's 2 articles from both.

A lot of good stuff in there.
z@c+
 

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There was this one article. I could not remember. A GC article. Adapted Missionary. Not sure if it is the right article.

I'm not sure it is Chase or Ricardus, or there's 2 articles from both.

A lot of good stuff in there.
z@c+

It was of chase.. we even had a discussion on the chat the other day.. apparently we are ALL using adapted missionary.


I would recommend Hector's videos as well. So you can become a true pornstar.
 

Mike Silvertree

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@https://www.skilledseducer.com/members/swagstar101.7144/ wrote...

Hey @Mike Silvertree can you recommend a sex book which has a big troubleshooting area? Lately I have a hard time staying hard.

Start by reading this post, which is pinned at the top of this forum.


Let me ask a few questions.

When does this happen?

When this problem occurs, what was the behavior, attitude, state of the chick right before it happened?

What was your mental state as it was happening? What was your internal dialog? What was your reaction? The chick's reaction?

What is you age and general level of health?
 

Swagstar101

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When does this happen?

When this problem occurs, what was the behavior, attitude, state of the chick right before it happened?

What was your mental state as it was happening? What was your internal dialog? What was your reaction? The chick's reaction?

What is you age and general level of health?

Meanwhile almost every time I want to sleep with my wife... I can say in my youth it didnt happened but as I got older It got harder for me to get chicks and so I lowered my standard lookwise. In this time I always got hard and had only problems getting an orgamsn.

Now years later with my wife we tried a lot. And also I had orgasmns with her but only sometimes. most times I didnt get one.
I think because of the many fail attempts I'm just got demotivated and expect a negative outcome. that sets me under pressure and very self concious.

What do I think? thoughts like "oh no its getting small again", "it wont work out", "it must work" "Why the fuck isnt it working"....

Most of the time I'm getting pissed, angry or I try to ignore the problem and go back to watch tv or instantly go to sleep..

My wife is very understanding and tries to comfort me.

Im 33 at the moment. I'm feeling good and healthy but the truth is that I'm a bit overweight and I take fluoxetin and reagil. Also i think im porn addicted. My doctor found out that i have a Lack of Testosteron but the gel he gave me made me very angry so I stopped taking it. And sports is a hate job for me. I know I need to Do more sports... Nevertheless with porn I can come 3 Times a Day in 5 Minute...
 

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Meanwhile almost every time I want to sleep with my wife... I can say in my youth it didnt happened but as I got older It got harder for me to get chicks and so I lowered my standard lookwise. In this time I always got hard and had only problems getting an orgamsn.

Now years later with my wife we tried a lot. And also I had orgasmns with her but only sometimes. most times I didnt get one.
I think because of the many fail attempts I'm just got demotivated and expect a negative outcome. that sets me under pressure and very self concious.

What do I think? thoughts like "oh no its getting small again", "it wont work out", "it must work" "Why the fuck isnt it working"....

Most of the time I'm getting pissed, angry or I try to ignore the problem and go back to watch tv or instantly go to sleep..

My wife is very understanding and tries to comfort me.

Im 33 at the moment. I'm feeling good and healthy but the truth is that I'm a bit overweight and I take fluoxetin and reagil. Also i think im porn addicted. My doctor found out that i have a Lack of Testosteron but the gel he gave me made me very angry so I stopped taking it. And sports is a hate job for me. I know I need to Do more sports... Nevertheless with porn I can come 3 Times a Day in 5 Minute...


Go to a specialist on hormone replacement therapy, the gel is the worst possible treatment ever and very expensive...
 

Mike Silvertree

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My best guess is, the drugs you are taking are a problem. Fluoxetin, known as Prozac in the US, is a SSRI, and they are notorious for causing various sexual dysfunctions and libido loss in men and women. I assume by Reagil, you mean Reagila, which is an anti psychotic. I didn't find anything on it being linked to sexual problems, but weight gain is a common side effect.

Beyond that, it sounds like you have a lot of anxiety about sex, and that is an erection killer in itself. We have several nervous systems that regulate our bodies. The autonomic nervous system regulates most of the machinery of life, like digestion, heartbeat, all the various glands that secrete regulatory hormones and neurotransmitters. There are two halves to this system and one or the other is in charge at all times. The Sympathetic Nervous System is the Fight or Flight system that regulates your body during stressful moments, anything scary or stressful. The Parasympathetic system is the Rest and Digest or Feed and Breed system that takes over when you are relaxed. If you are stressed out over sex, your body will shift to the Sympathetic system and one of the things it does is ready you for battle, which among other things includes cutting blood flow to parts not needed for fighting, like digesting food or sex. That means no boner for men and a dry tight pussy for women. It is very hard to get an erection if you are stressed out. This is a feedback loop that almost always plays a part in erection problems with men.

You need to talk with your doctor about getting off those drugs. Unless you have serious problems, taking anti-depressants and anti-psychotics is likely to cause more harm that good. Up until a few decades ago, people managed life without drugs like that. You also have to be less stressed out when you have sex. It sounds like you can get an erection with porn, so the equipment works, which means the primary problem is the stress you feel, likely from pressure to perform, that is the problem. Perhaps address this with your wife and work together on reducing the stress you feel from pressure to perform. Do not quit those drugs without consulting your doctor. That can cause major problems.
 

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Your ED and lack of desire is a consequence of your porn addiction.

Stop watching porn. Reduce masturbation to once a week at most and all of your troubles will melt away.
 

Beck Bass

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I would recommend Hector's videos as well. So you can become a true pornstar.
Lol those videos with the doll are rilarious

Adapted Missionary.
Yeah, pretty much the best way to make a girl cum, from penetrative sex anyway.
From my latest experiences I would question though how effective being "great at sex" is and making a girl cum lots of times is, it seems like lots of girls I've been sleeping with get mad that they cum more and more easily with me than they can give me orgasms, like they feel not so attractive or valueable because of that. But maybe it's just my approach to sex and post-sex stuff, deff a sticking point for me right now (other than getting dates at all in this rona shit world).
 
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