Anyone have success with Instagram?

uriel

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Oct 21, 2019
Messages
787
Okay, what kind of money and adventure do I need to showcase? What specific things should I take pictures of?
International travel, exclusive VIP tables and hotels, jet ski, boats and the like…
All the things that a gold digger would target you for.
 

Troy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Jul 11, 2013
Messages
556
Points 1 and 5 I understand. Take professionally blocked and framed pictures so they look good. Take pictures with women so that other women will follow me. But as for points 2 and 4, what am I meant to do with the guy friends once I make them? With specific regard to getting prominent (female) Instagram people to follow me?

Speaking of that, point 3. Having a skill. I've been looking into the kinds of women I wish would follow me/take initiative with me, and the kinds of men they follow. One woman is Phoenixx Starr/devilsthroat. She's one of "those" content creators who keep getting their accounts deleted because of the explicit nature of their content. But on any given day she's hovering around somethingty-thousand followers per social media platform.

One of the guys she follows on Instagram and Twitter is visneakerboy.


"Only" a couple thousand subscribers, and with a follow-to-followed ratio of, like, 1:1. If he has a skill, it doesn't seem to be featured on his socials. In fact, he's barely posting on social media at all. And so I look at this guy, and I'm baffled. How does this follow-for-follow account with barely any posts get chased by actual porn stars?

Okay, what kind of money and adventure do I need to showcase? What specific things should I take pictures of?
I went to look up the Phoenixx Starr/devilsthroat.

First things first, why are you interested in a porn star following you? I did a simple Google search and the first URL is Twitter. And we know Twitter allows porn content. Right below it is all the Porn sites along with OnlyFans.

You said she is a content creator...I will just say this. I hope you ain't spending money on her OnlyFans account or anything like that. Because the only thing I could find about her was porn videos.

I would suggest a detox first and foremost. I see you are new here so I want to first understand what kind of guy you are? What is your goal with dating and seduction? The reason I ask is because each guy has a different taste in women.

Regular girls are capable of doing equally slutty things as porn stars. Why seek validation from a porn star? How is her following you going to enhance your life? She has 30,000 + followers and is getting banned for a reason -----> she has simps, incels and lonely guys following her.

Now don't get me wrong, I do watch porn occasionally, but I am in no way facinated with having one of them girls follow me anywhere on social media. Once I bust a nut, I shut off the computer and get right back to working on my business.

Maybe the guy who barely has any followers is her family member, long time friend, coworker (excuse me fuck worker), a random guy she likes or fucked with in the past. I don't know and dont care to know either. You should not care at all who this guy is either.

Regarding what to post on social media to get girls, I have a few questions for you.

1. Are you currently a high income earner with disposable income to take these girls on dates? These IG thots you seem to be going after typically have very high standards. They are not the women I would recommend you even go after.

2. Aside from Porn stars on IG, what other kinds of girls do you like dating?

3. What skills do you currently have? Do you see yourself using those skills to post engaging content?

I will give an example with 2 random guys:

Guy A is a Plumber. He works 16 hours per day, 5 days per week. When he gets off work, he likes to play football with his friends. And he is very good at freestyle football.

Guy A would be able to make content around freestyle football and post to social media. Girls who are into freestyle football will follow him. Guy A would not need to post anything on social media that he is a Plumber, because that is not content for Instagram. Yes Plumbers are productive men in society, but people are not going on Instagram to see toilets, sinks, poop, all that kind of stuff.

People go to see food, fun, travel, gossip, celebrites etc.

Guy B is a fitness model. He has 6 pack abs, a powerful walk, a nice car, clean clear skin, he has female friends. He also has a good fashion style. He is NOT yet rich, but he earns a decent income. Guy B already has the a lot of the "fundamentals" talked about on GirlsChase https://www.girlschase.com/content/great-fundamentals-handling-your-intangibles

Guy B would be able to make tons of posts about just himself here. People like athletic men, they like nice cars, and everything else that comes along with Guy B.

See the value right there?

Edit. I just saw @uriel post above this. I second what he just said. I am in no way advocating to flaunt money on social media or anywhere. Even if I were rich, I would not do that. Focus on attracting women without money and invest that time into your fundamentals.
 

ZacAdam

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Nov 20, 2012
Messages
5,686
Okay, so whatever "momentum" is, what you mean is "People will be weirded out if you talk about anything outside what your Instagram is about/what you're famous for." So if I'm a dance guy, don't start talking about my photography hobby.

Yea, people will get pissed.

Saving Time is the first problem that everyone including Girlschase members wants to solve.

All of us will not want to admit but we kinda want Girlschase.com to solve getting women, getting social, getting freedom and getting money, by using the same system if possible.

Girlschase.com must also be a fun place, serious place, meme place, education place, everything.

Because saving time is first

z@c+
 

Don Giovanni

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Dec 12, 2019
Messages
103
Okay, what kind of money and adventure do I need to showcase? What specific things should I take pictures of?

Please stop thinking you need a yacht to build a good ig profile.

Find your niche - fashion, photography, music, trashy-party vibe, something you enjoy. You don’t have to have a typical mainstream rich always on Bali type of profile.

Post things that engage people and provoke response. Example: story where i play guitar, caption guess the song.
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
I went to look up the Phoenixx Starr/devilsthroat.

First things first, why are you interested in a porn star following you? I did a simple Google search and the first URL is Twitter. And we know Twitter allows porn content. Right below it is all the Porn sites along with OnlyFans.

You said she is a content creator...I will just say this. I hope you ain't spending money on her OnlyFans account or anything like that. Because the only thing I could find about her was porn videos.

I would suggest a detox first and foremost. I see you are new here so I want to first understand what kind of guy you are? What is your goal with dating and seduction? The reason I ask is because each guy has a different taste in women.

Regular girls are capable of doing equally slutty things as porn stars. Why seek validation from a porn star? How is her following you going to enhance your life? She has 30,000 + followers and is getting banned for a reason -----> she has simps, incels and lonely guys following her.

Now don't get me wrong, I do watch porn occasionally, but I am in no way facinated with having one of them girls follow me anywhere on social media. Once I bust a nut, I shut off the computer and get right back to working on my business.

Maybe the guy who barely has any followers is her family member, long time friend, coworker (excuse me fuck worker), a random guy she likes or fucked with in the past. I don't know and dont care to know either. You should not care at all who this guy is either.

Regarding what to post on social media to get girls, I have a few questions for you.

1. Are you currently a high income earner with disposable income to take these girls on dates? These IG thots you seem to be going after typically have very high standards. They are not the women I would recommend you even go after.

2. Aside from Porn stars on IG, what other kinds of girls do you like dating?

3. What skills do you currently have? Do you see yourself using those skills to post engaging content?

I will give an example with 2 random guys:

Guy A is a Plumber. He works 16 hours per day, 5 days per week. When he gets off work, he likes to play football with his friends. And he is very good at freestyle football.

Guy A would be able to make content around freestyle football and post to social media. Girls who are into freestyle football will follow him. Guy A would not need to post anything on social media that he is a Plumber, because that is not content for Instagram. Yes Plumbers are productive men in society, but people are not going on Instagram to see toilets, sinks, poop, all that kind of stuff.

People go to see food, fun, travel, gossip, celebrites etc.

Guy B is a fitness model. He has 6 pack abs, a powerful walk, a nice car, clean clear skin, he has female friends. He also has a good fashion style. He is NOT yet rich, but he earns a decent income. Guy B already has the a lot of the "fundamentals" talked about on GirlsChase https://www.girlschase.com/content/great-fundamentals-handling-your-intangibles

Guy B would be able to make tons of posts about just himself here. People like athletic men, they like nice cars, and everything else that comes along with Guy B.

See the value right there?

Edit. I just saw @uriel post above this. I second what he just said. I am in no way advocating to flaunt money on social media or anywhere. Even if I were rich, I would not do that. Focus on attracting women without money and invest that time into your fundamentals.

What's a detox? Is it when you stop watching porn? Because I don't really watch porn. Discounting the porn I watched to look up Phoenixx today, I haven't seen porn in a good few months, likely half a year. I don't have the sex drive for it. So that probably answers the other question, no I'm not spending money on her goods or services.

But I want her/women like her because I'm attracted to her status. Her status within the wheelhouse of "women who have sex." She's "demonstrated high value" among sex having women. That's my taste in women. So... porn stars and Instathots, I guess. The kinds of women known for being fuckable. It's not just that they're pretty. It's them being known for it that I'm attracted to.

What women am I interested in besides those? None, really. Not to this extent. If I had my absolute say, I would be chased by Internet sluts.

Am I a "high earner?" How high is "high?" I imagine it varies by state? What sort of spending would I need to be doing, in concrete figures, to live an "attractive life?"

Please stop thinking you need a yacht to build a good ig profile.

Find your niche - fashion, photography, music, trashy-party vibe, something you enjoy. You don’t have to have a typical mainstream rich always on Bali type of profile.

Post things that engage people and provoke response. Example: story where i play guitar, caption guess the song.

Or maybe I don't? I'm trying specifically to be pursued by high status Internet women.
 

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 11, 2019
Messages
2,212
Location
South Florida
Nah I disagree. Never buy followers. For the following reasons:

1. It's bad ethics
2. It's false social proof
3. It is lazy
4. It can do more harm than good
5. Likes and comments matter just as much as followers, if not more

I will explain further on each point.

Bad Ethics

Why practice living a lie? I know the whole fake it till you make it may be popular among some. But buying followers to pump up social proof is not good. It is no different than a guy putting oil in his arm to make it look like he has muscles when in reality he does not.

False Social Proof

Girls are extremely intelligent when it comes to social proof. Trust me, no amount of faking it will help you on Instagram. The platform has evolved to such a point that it is easy to spot a fake account.

Lazy

If you are considering buying followers, you might as well do the following:

1. Hire girls on SeekingArrangement to take pics with them and pretend you have social proof. Forget about seduction, just fake it.
2. Hire a group of male models to take pics with. They posing as your friends doing cool stuff.
3. Go to one of those photo studios that have a background wall paper of London. Let them take pics of you to make it look like you were actually in London enjoying vacation.

Im being sarcastic here. See what's wrong with all of the above? It's lazy. Throwing money at the problem without a plan will get you nowhere. Instead focus on building real skills. Get good at sales, you will be a better conversationlist. Focus on making money so you can travel, and do cool things and post cool pics. Focus on approaching girls, getting rejected and making friends. The social proof will come that way.

More Harm Than Good

Once trust is broken, especially with a stranger, it will be very difficult to regain. Even if you only plan to pump and dump girls, remember that's just not good practice. I hear women on social media complaining all the time that men lie to them to get laid. This "buying followers" is no different. It will cause women to feel"buyers remorse" when they find out you lied. Yeah the interactions with them may have been great. The sex may have been good, but you lost a key component which is trust.

Likes & Comments Matter

I have seen the worst on Instagram. Guys having 50,000 subscribers. The like count? 12 fucking people liked his photos. That looks hella spammy these days. Maybe it worked when Instagram was new. But Instagram has evolved with blue checks. Women go on social media posting pics, hoping to meet the most elite guys on there. This does not mean the guys are rich. But these guys must have a legitimate great life, not a fake one.

Even if you guy 5,000 followers, it's not going to help. I have been with girls before and see them actually click on the followers icon on Instagram accounts. Girls actually check to see if the accounts look real. When you buy followers it will typically look like this:

mohammed87666
jessicax55623
bisef5554
musclestee22234

There are no DP pics, no one is following those accounts. And usally those accounts are following 2,000 plus people already. It's just spam.

I know Instagram has a feature to hide the amount of persons who like a post. But I can promise you, it will still look 100% spammy. And let me ask you, do you have the following to show on Instagram?

6 pack
a cool skill eg. you doing freestyle football videos, you in comedy videos, (some kind of niche that is really cool) and attracts like minded people
you out with friends
real girls having fun with you
a nice car
you on nice vacation
a nice home
you doing cool activities

If you legitimately dont have those things going for you, buying followers will put you at a disadvantage with women who see your Instagram. I have seen accounts where guys have 10,000 followers, and they are taking pics in baggy clothes and a basic ass bedroom, with bad angles.

Girls are usually better at taking pics than men are. So unless you have those skills or are willing to pay a professional photographer to take real pics, it's a time waste.

Please I beg you, do not be one of those guys on social media with horrible photos, thousands of followers, and less than 20 likes to your name.

I would rather you take that time to focus on meeting women in real life or leveling up your lifestyle to do more.


I have seen a lot over the years. I would not recommend buying any followers. See my other comments above.



Instagram is all about the "image". In order to be super successful on Instagram you need the following:

1. Professional photos (hire a photographer)
2. Make real friends in real life
3. Have some sort of skill that builds value. Think about it, why do women like Lebron James? Connor Mcgregor? It's not just because they are rich, it is also because of their skills they bring and how it makes others feel.
4. Build a network of other high value men
5. Meet women in real life, build connections so you have a revolving set of girls to take pics and do cool stuff with. Why do you think women like Dan Bilzerian? (Yeah I know some people on here dont like him, but the point is he is great at building social proof).

Now you don't need to be a celebrity with millions of followers to have success. But you need a good following. As a good rule of thumb. Aim for 10,000 followers with at least a 7-12% engagement. So 700-1200 likes per post from real people.

Yep everything mentioned above requires real work, lets make it happen.
The buying followers is not for seduction...it is for a business, using social media for seduction is meh, not for me
 

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 11, 2019
Messages
2,212
Location
South Florida
Yeah, you have to post like 5 of them per day and you get girls to DM you but you don’t control which exact girls DMs you.
In my experience you will find that the ones who DM you are not the hottest and the more followers a girl has, the least likely she is to reply a DM.

Too passive for my taste.
I rather go daygaming.
Correct
 

Troy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Jul 11, 2013
Messages
556
What's a detox? Is it when you stop watching porn? Because I don't really watch porn. Discounting the porn I watched to look up Phoenixx today, I haven't seen porn in a good few months, likely half a year. I don't have the sex drive for it. So that probably answers the other question, no I'm not spending money on her goods or services.

But I want her/women like her because I'm attracted to her status. Her status within the wheelhouse of "women who have sex." She's "demonstrated high value" among sex having women. That's my taste in women. So... porn stars and Instathots, I guess. The kinds of women known for being fuckable. It's not just that they're pretty. It's them being known for it that I'm attracted to.

What women am I interested in besides those? None, really. Not to this extent. If I had my absolute say, I would be chased by Internet sluts.

Am I a "high earner?" How high is "high?" I imagine it varies by state? What sort of spending would I need to be doing, in concrete figures, to live an "attractive life?"



Or maybe I don't? I'm trying specifically to be pursued by high status Internet women.
High earner depends on where you live. In other words, you know yourself best. Do you have disposable income to take these porn stars and Instathots out on lavish dates?

There is a channel on Youtube where this guy interviews porn stars. This Youtuber has about 4 million subscribers and I have witnessed porn stars who will date guys outside of the industry. Some will want money, other ladies who do porn, dont mind dating a guy who is not a big spender.

I am not sure what GC rules are when it comes to mentioning the name of Youtube Channels so I will leave that part out.

But still... Instathots?

You better have serious cash to spend no designer bags and jewelry. These girls date men for clout. They are not interested in dating men without money and/or status.

Go to Youtube and look for videos of guys talking about their experiences dating Instathots. These girls will get you in a room and say "It's $3,000 USD to fuck me".

Would you be down with doing that? And even after you fuck them, they still want gifts and designer bags.

Another thing you said "Her status within the wheelhouse of "women who have sex"

Chase wrote an article about this. See it here: https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls

I think there is another article on the website that goes more in detail. Someone who knows what I am talking about, drop a link please.

The way you are framing the conversation is "only porn stars and Instathots like having sex. These women are easy unlike other women who are IMPOSSIBLE to lay. In fact all other girls hate sex. They hate being freaky."

I can tell you that is not true. One of my girlfriends back in 2015 was a Christian girl who was at Church every Sunday on her knees and praying.

Story time:

I was on a bus one day and a someone dropped their phone as they got off the bus. So I am a very honest person and I opened this persons phone and attempted to call this persons Mom, Dad, brother, and sister number that was saved in their phone. I eventually got through to this nice girl, her name was Ali.

So I explained to this girl what had happened and I wanted to make an arrangement to meet her brother to return the phone. Long story short, me and her started texting. And one day she texted me (I forgot word for word, but it was something like this:

Ali: Hey Troy, I'm feeling very wet and I want to come sleep with you

A few days later, me and her met up for the very first time and I slept with her. To this day, she is one of the fastest girls I have took to bed.

I share this story with you to make a point, that girls are just girls. Porn star, Instathot, Nerds, Muslims, Christian, etc. If you put in the work, all of them are capable of fucking with you.
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
High earner depends on where you live. In other words, you know yourself best. Do you have disposable income to take these porn stars and Instathots out on lavish dates?

There is a channel on Youtube where this guy interviews porn stars. This Youtuber has about 4 million subscribers and I have witnessed porn stars who will date guys outside of the industry. Some will want money, other ladies who do porn, dont mind dating a guy who is not a big spender.

I am not sure what GC rules are when it comes to mentioning the name of Youtube Channels so I will leave that part out.

But still... Instathots?

You better have serious cash to spend no designer bags and jewelry. These girls date men for clout. They are not interested in dating men without money and/or status.

Go to Youtube and look for videos of guys talking about their experiences dating Instathots. These girls will get you in a room and say "It's $3,000 USD to fuck me".

Would you be down with doing that? And even after you fuck them, they still want gifts and designer bags.

Another thing you said "Her status within the wheelhouse of "women who have sex"

Chase wrote an article about this. See it here: https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls

I think there is another article on the website that goes more in detail. Someone who knows what I am talking about, drop a link please.

The way you are framing the conversation is "only porn stars and Instathots like having sex. These women are easy unlike other women who are IMPOSSIBLE to lay. In fact all other girls hate sex. They hate being freaky."

I can tell you that is not true. One of my girlfriends back in 2015 was a Christian girl who was at Church every Sunday on her knees and praying.

Story time:

I was on a bus one day and a someone dropped their phone as they got off the bus. So I am a very honest person and I opened this persons phone and attempted to call this persons Mom, Dad, brother, and sister number that was saved in their phone. I eventually got through to this nice girl, her name was Ali.

So I explained to this girl what had happened and I wanted to make an arrangement to meet her brother to return the phone. Long story short, me and her started texting. And one day she texted me (I forgot word for word, but it was something like this:

Ali: Hey Troy, I'm feeling very wet and I want to come sleep with you

A few days later, me and her met up for the very first time and I slept with her. To this day, she is one of the fastest girls I have took to bed.

I share this story with you to make a point, that girls are just girls. Porn star, Instathot, Nerds, Muslims, Christian, etc. If you put in the work, all of them are capable of fucking with you.

Let's briefly taking fucking off the table for a brief second. She is following these men. Men like ViSneakerBoy. Is ViSneakerBoy putting up $3000 a night plus gifts? Because she's following him. If she's after his money, he must be putting up $3000 + gifts on a regular basis, not just that one time. He's a regular source of income. The "clout" part, she's more popular than he is. So he's not offering her that. I'm just... intrigued by what it's actually taking to land in her very limited "Followed" circle. And other specific women like her.

And I'm not just talking about women who know how to have sex. This is about status. I'm sure Christian girls know how to put that non-surgical vasectomy on you. But I'm not looking to fuck some nobody. I'm attracted to status. I want it to be a big deal, a special treat, that such a woman not only has sex with me, but pursues sex with me. Or whatever's happening with these follows.
 

DoWhatWorks

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Nov 7, 2019
Messages
253
my wing primo does what you are trying to do, but he does it with snapchat no instagram i talk about this here

Useful video thanks. My wing does a similar thing with his nice apartment. I find more people my age are on Instagram though. In UK Snapchat skews young teenagers.


Yes it works for everything you mentioned.

But I wouldn't give my instagram to a girl if I had, say, 50 followers, not to give off an "antisocial" vibe. Add everyone you already know, and I wouldn't rule out buying a couple of followers, but you don't want your follower list to be full of mohamed123s, so a better solution would be adding to your bio "new ig"/"new account" or something like that.

Yep had similar thoughts to go down the “New IG route”. So I come across as cool but low-key and almost a “hidden gem” lol
I don’t know man, in my experience stories are the best way for girls to dm you. You just have to post stories that provoke a reaction or make you easy to dm…

+1 agree with this


on another note as someone who has been “behind the scenes” with promoters & party hosts it’s a lot of work. To be effective it’s also more social circle vs cold leads game.

Yeah for now I don’t think the juice is worth the squeeze. When I have more money & time it may be worth setting up an inbound system though.
 
Last edited:

Troy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Jul 11, 2013
Messages
556
Let's briefly taking fucking off the table for a brief second. She is following these men. Men like ViSneakerBoy. Is ViSneakerBoy putting up $3000 a night plus gifts? Because she's following him. If she's after his money, he must be putting up $3000 + gifts on a regular basis, not just that one time. He's a regular source of income. The "clout" part, she's more popular than he is. So he's not offering her that. I'm just... intrigued by what it's actually taking to land in her very limited "Followed" circle. And other specific women like her.

And I'm not just talking about women who know how to have sex. This is about status. I'm sure Christian girls know how to put that non-surgical vasectomy on you. But I'm not looking to fuck some nobody. I'm attracted to status. I want it to be a big deal, a special treat, that such a woman not only has sex with me, but pursues sex with me. Or whatever's happening with these follows.
I would love if another guy on here with just as much experience or even more could help me explain things to @FrothySolutions .

There are a few things I believe need to change with your mindset before you have more success with women. The first thing I noticed from the last message is you have very high standards of women you sleep with.

I recommend reading this article https://www.girlschase.com/content/entitlement-what-do-you-really-bring-table

It is one thing to ask another person to be XYZ thing. But are you that XYZ thing they are looking for? Write below, if a high status woman were to date you, what do you bring to the table @FrothySolutions ? List everything you can think of below that interests women, which you currently posess.

Another thing, you have put this porn start on a pedestal. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/content/women-pedestals
 

uriel

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Oct 21, 2019
Messages
787
@FrothySolutions, listen pal, I’m not going to say that you should not chase high status women.
If that’s really what turns you on and you must have them, then you should definitely pursue them.

However, I will just warn you that “high status” as defined by men (lot of money, thousands of followers, maybe company owner…) is not exactly what makes a woman a good partner.

The kind of woman you’re looking for is constantly busy, has a extremely low attention span (she is being pulled in a thousand directions) and is sought out by hundreds of guys like you.
That does not make the best of partners… and it’s 10 times harder to land than a similarly beautiful and not “famous” girl.

In other words, not enough bang for the buck…

But well, you do you… just a word of advice.
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
@FrothySolutions, listen pal, I’m not going to say that you should not chase high status women.
If that’s really what turns you on and you must have them, then you should definitely pursue them.

However, I will just warn you that “high status” as defined by men (lot of money, thousands of followers, maybe company owner…) is not exactly what makes a woman a good partner.

The kind of woman you’re looking for is constantly busy, has a extremely low attention span (she is being pulled in a thousand directions) and is sought out by hundreds of guys like you.
That does not make the best of partners… and it’s 10 times harder to land than a similarly beautiful and not “famous” girl.

In other words, not enough bang for the buck…

But well, you do you… just a word of advice.

Hold on, I think you misunderstand me when I say "status." I don't need her to have lots of money and I certainly don't need her to run a business. By "status" I mean "She's a popular Internet slut." Granted, they do tend to make a lot of money and that probably technically counts as a business. But the money/business part isn't the key part. It's being a popular Internet slut.

I would love if another guy on here with just as much experience or even more could help me explain things to @FrothySolutions .

There are a few things I believe need to change with your mindset before you have more success with women. The first thing I noticed from the last message is you have very high standards of women you sleep with.

I recommend reading this article https://www.girlschase.com/content/entitlement-what-do-you-really-bring-table

It is one thing to ask another person to be XYZ thing. But are you that XYZ thing they are looking for? Write below, if a high status woman were to date you, what do you bring to the table @FrothySolutions ? List everything you can think of below that interests women, which you currently posess.

Another thing, you have put this porn start on a pedestal. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/content/women-pedestals

I don't know what I have to bring to the table. That's why I'm pointing out people like ViSneakerBoy and saying "How is he doing it? How can I be like him in the ways that matter? In the ways that get popular Internet sluts to follow him on the Internet?"
 

uriel

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Oct 21, 2019
Messages
787
Hold on, I think you misunderstand me when I say "status." I don't need her to have lots of money and I certainly don't need her to run a business. By "status" I mean "She's a popular Internet slut." Granted, they do tend to make a lot of money and that probably technically counts as a business. But the money/business part isn't the key part. It's being a popular Internet slut.

And how do you expect her to maintain her Instagram life if she is not selling something?

To amass a huge following is a full time job, you either sell something, have a business on the side or live off someone else.
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
And how do you expect her to maintain her Instagram life if she is not selling something?

To amass a huge following is a full time job, you either sell something, have a business on the side or live off someone else.

Is her Instagram life necessarily an expensive one? I need her to be a popular slut, not rich.

But on the other hand, most popular Internet sluts are rich. Very few are doing this for free. So odds are even if the "business" part isn't important, she's likely gonna be a businesswoman. In that her pussy is her "business." But is that really such an undesirable woman to be with? Thousands of men want her, her attention is being pulled in a thousand different directions? Those things sound bad. But consider this: She chose to follow me. So among the thousands of men who want her, and among the thousands of other priorities she could have, she chose to pursue me. If only through following me on the Internet. That's initiative.

That's what I want for me. A popular Internet slut with thousands of men and thousands of priorities to choose me out of all of them.
 

uriel

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Oct 21, 2019
Messages
787
But on the other hand, most popular Internet sluts are rich. Very few are doing this for free. So odds are even if the "business" part isn't important, she's likely gonna be a businesswoman.

There is real money involved in this Instagram “popularity”.
You have to pay to increase the reach of your content so more people can see it and you get more followers otherwise you hit a soft cap.

Every influencer you see with 200K+ followers is boosting or has boosted their posts.
Where does this money comes from? Selling stuff, paid collaborations, etc… it’s work.

But is that really such an undesirable woman to be with? Thousands of men want her, her attention is being pulled in a thousand different directions? Those things sound bad.

No, I don’t think it’s bad. I just think it’s not economical.

Let’s say you want a specific girl to follow you so you ask someone to introduce you, send several DMs, follow her, comment her stories until finally she follows you.
You spent let’s say 20 hours to somehow get a super popular woman to click on the follow button.

20 hours for one click… does that sound like a worthy exchange for you?
And if you want 20 girls to follow you?… 20 x 20 = 400 hours of work.

To me, it does not sound like equivalent exchange.

But consider this: She chose to follow me. So among the thousands of men who want her, and among the thousands of other priorities she could have, she chose to pursue me. If only through following me on the Internet. That's initiative.

That's what I want for me. A popular Internet slut with thousands of men and thousands of priorities to choose me out of all of them.

Alright she follows you.
Let’s say you get to be one of the only 1,500 people she follows. What now?

If she is like most people, I bet she only cares about some specific 30-50 people which Instagram optimizes so she always see their stories first.
So there’s about 1,450 people she follows who she doesn’t give a damn for.
Is that something you’re interested into?

I mean, if you’re looking for “high status” followers, that’s the receipt.


Again, I’m not really trying to dissuade you… more like I want you to realize that it’s a huge amount of work for some clicks or a followers number.
If you want it, you want it… so go for it.

Just saying it’s a lot of work… and if it’s some kind of sex, connection, relationship or validation you’re looking, perhaps there are more practical sources.
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
There is real money involved in this Instagram “popularity”.
You have to pay to increase the reach of your content so more people can see it and you get more followers otherwise you hit a soft cap.

Every influencer you see with 200K+ followers is boosting or has boosted their posts.
Where does this money comes from? Selling stuff, paid collaborations, etc… it’s work.



No, I don’t think it’s bad. I just think it’s not economical.

Let’s say you want a specific girl to follow you so you ask someone to introduce you, send several DMs, follow her, comment her stories until finally she follows you.
You spent let’s say 20 hours to somehow get a super popular woman to click on the follow button.

20 hours for one click… does that sound like a worthy exchange for you?
And if you want 20 girls to follow you?… 20 x 20 = 400 hours of work.

To me, it does not sound like equivalent exchange.



Alright she follows you.
Let’s say you get to be one of the only 1,500 people she follows. What now?

If she is like most people, I bet she only cares about some specific 30-50 people which Instagram optimizes so she always see their stories first.
So there’s about 1,450 people she follows who she doesn’t give a damn for.
Is that something you’re interested into?

I mean, if you’re looking for “high status” followers, that’s the receipt.


Again, I’m not really trying to dissuade you… more like I want you to realize that it’s a huge amount of work for some clicks or a followers number.
If you want it, you want it… so go for it.

Just saying it’s a lot of work… and if it’s some kind of sex, connection, relationship or validation you’re looking, perhaps there are more practical sources.

1500? It's a much more exclusive club than that. Maybe 150 people. Or 200. But very rarely is it ever over 1,000. Just one reason why this is so enticing to me.

Now, why is that so enticing? Because the way I understand it, she has taken interest in me. She is taking the initiative to follow me. So I'm questioning your scenario where I have to follow her and somehow get someone to introduce me to her. Is that how it's done?

Because Carmen Sandi/thatgreeneyedgirl22_ follows this guy, BlackFrecklesRawHype. Some kind of radio podcast guy. 741 followers as of right now.


And dig this, BlackFreckles doesn't even know who Carmen Sandi is, didn't know she was following him. So she did all of the initiating.

But maybe BlackFreckles has his own methods. If anyone here has Instagram thirst traps bugging them for cock, I'd like to hear your methods.
 

ZacAdam

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Nov 20, 2012
Messages
5,686
There comes a point in time where I need to say this.

"Facebook advertising is for wannabe speakers. Private Message is for high level people" - Peng Joon

Usually, Internet marketers BULLSHIT, and we bullshit a lot. Recently, i was quite surprise that Peng Joon says this.

Here's the thing: You want to meet @Teevster or @Skills , don't you guys even notice that they all DM-ing among each other? Almost all high level, universal across.the board, all DM each other. You can pay as much followers as you like but unless you have Dubai d'or money, you not gonna meet high level people too often.

RSD Luke and RSD Madison at one time followed me for quite awhile, and my follower count is not even more than 500.

It's value. Value Value VALUE.

Instagram is a multi faceted sword. People hear what they want to hear. Don't talk to Muslims about Christianity. They hate it. Don't talk to gamers about social justice. You will lose your audience.

Value. It's not that hard. Just keep producing content that solve people problems and opening up real problems with nuances.

z@c+
 

FrothySolutions

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Jan 14, 2022
Messages
20
There comes a point in time where I need to say this.

"Facebook advertising is for wannabe speakers. Private Message is for high level people" - Peng Joon

Usually, Internet marketers BULLSHIT, and we bullshit a lot. Recently, i was quite surprise that Peng Joon says this.

Here's the thing: You want to meet @Teevster or @Skills , don't you guys even notice that they all DM-ing among each other? Almost all high level, universal across.the board, all DM each other. You can pay as much followers as you like but unless you have Dubai d'or money, you not gonna meet high level people too often.

RSD Luke and RSD Madison at one time followed me for quite awhile, and my follower count is not even more than 500.

It's value. Value Value VALUE.

Instagram is a multi faceted sword. People hear what they want to hear. Don't talk to Muslims about Christianity. They hate it. Don't talk to gamers about social justice. You will lose your audience.

Value. It's not that hard. Just keep producing content that solve people problems and opening up real problems with nuances.

z@c+

I don't understand what you're saying here. If I wanted to talk to high level people, I can't just DM them out of the blue. Hence the need for lots of followers/exposure/whatever makes you worth the time of high level people.
 

Warped Mindless

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 20, 2012
Messages
90
I’ve bought IG accounts a few times. One had 50k followers.

Bought it, deleted all the previous content, uploaded new pics of me (many were professionally taken) doing candid model type poses that you see on the mens style pages. Lost a lot of followers very quickly because of the content change but still had around 30k.

Had it for a couple months before IG banned it. Women are very quick to google guys they meet now and they become much more intrigued when the charming mysterious stranger they met also has great model looking pics and 30k followers but not much else info attached. I purposely engineered both my approach and my online presence to reinforce the “mysterious charming stranger” aspect and it worked decently well but not well enough that I cared to go through the trouble of buying another one.

If I were out trying to sleep with with as
Many women as possible again I would do it as it did greatly help reduce flaking.
 
Top