I've never offered anyone a drink in my life and if someone turned it down, I would feel a bit awkward and not sure what to say.
I see. I personally find it odd if one person is drinking and the other person isn't. Maybe that's just me though. If she turns down the drink, don't make a big deal about it. Treat it the same as if she turned down a glass of water. If she came back to your place and she likes you, she's not going to turn down a drink because she thinks it's spiked. If she turns it down, it's usually something innocuous.
I still need to get some alcohol, I don't drink....I'm still trying to find an alcoholic beverage that I enjoy and is maybe less unhealthy than other options. Maybe some zero calorie soda mixed with a shot?
Yea, I know what you mean. I'm not much of a drinker either. I enjoy it occasionally, but I still try to avoid it as much as I can. What I've found is tequila and red wine are typically the ones that come up as least unhealthy. Coincidentally, they're also the best for setting a mood.
Other options would be something with really low alcohol content so that she still feels like she's "drinking" but really isn't. So I mean something much less than beer. And for girls who don't drink at all, I'd suggest Kombucha which technically is 0.5% alcohol content but would certainly not be considered alcoholic. This still can make them feel like they're doing something edgy.(Disclaimer I've never tried this myself, but once I went on a date with a girl who didn't drink and she mentioned kombucha and how it actually has alcohol. The way she was talking about it made me realize that to her, drinking kombucha would make her feel like she's being a little "naughty". You can play up how it actually has some alcohol)
