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Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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She's into you for all the little things you do in combination rather then just that one thing.

She loves the fact you give her a warm smile, walk on the side of the pavement closest to the car and remember the little things she's told you about that no one else remembers.

She gets butterflies when she sees you in that effortless well put together outfit and a territorial jealousy when she notes that the waitress was definitely hitting on you when they asked for your order.

Us men are a lot more simple than woman... If a girl is attractive, easy to get on with and fun to have sex with that's pretty much all our criteria met.

As a girl though so many things come to play... Guys often complain about this but this is actually advantageous!

A girl that's genetically a 5/10 will have a hard time getting a solid guy to date her no matter how nice she is.

A guy that's genetically a 5/10?

-He can go to the gym and maximise his physique
-He can build a social circle and fun lifestyle so girls are drawn to him
-He can put effort in his clothes and stand out (something most guys let go and just look sloppy)

Girls are honestly so much more forgiving towards looks then guys are that it's not even funny. Usually it's how you feel about yourself that matters more than how you actually are. (Within reason)

Companies try and hard-sell you by magnifying insecurities to buy shit you really don't need. Like a lambo that is extremely inconvenient to drive.

To the girl? Sure the lambo is alright but more importantly it's the drive, determination, willingness to succeed and uncompromising standards that's probably just as if not the main attraction.

It's the little things in a man that come together to make who he is.

Focus on one little thing at a time and let the snowball avalanche grow.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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