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Went out to the bar with a couple of friends(the one near my hometown), 20 min drive approximately.
Had 2 wings(both shy, was a problem at first, but my 2 most successful sets, they engaged with the girls).
Got to the first bar, and waited a bit to make my approach. Was mainly sober tbh, on my first few approaches, I got blown out(they simply didn’t respond).
Tried not to let myself get in too much into my head, and just told myself to keep approaching girls in a more chill way till I at least find one receptive girl.
As we were leaving the bar, I spot 2 very cute girls, I tell my wings that I’m gonna make one more approach(why not). Turns out this was a very good idea, as the girl I wanted was immediately receptive to me.
Went to the next bar, got some drinks, ran the usual opener teases, but most of the girls weren’t feeling it(wasn’t in my best state possible admittedly).
Also ran into trying to talk to lots of girls with bfs right there in the room, wonder why they were uninterested, and it turns out their bf was just a little bit away, and when I see them with said bf, just acknowledge it and turn ur back to them.
After this, the bar was closing soon, as it was emptying out, so we left. Did more approaches as well, but only wrote 3 down, since those are the only ones that I can really write about.
All in all, the 3rd approach was my favorite one, as I could start to run the routine that I started, as well as build proper arousal and touch compliance, and saw she was immediately hooked.
My friends inadvertently cockblocked me, Idt they get it as much as me(I practice night game a lot more than them).
Any feedback on where to improve? Trying to get better at leading, closing, and routine based game and cutting out unhelpful convo.
Had 2 wings(both shy, was a problem at first, but my 2 most successful sets, they engaged with the girls).
Outfit was black pants, white t shirt and brown quarter zip and black shoes, gold chain, gold bracelet and 2 gold rings.
Got to the first bar, and waited a bit to make my approach. Was mainly sober tbh, on my first few approaches, I got blown out(they simply didn’t respond).
Tried not to let myself get in too much into my head, and just told myself to keep approaching girls in a more chill way till I at least find one receptive girl.
First solid approach, approached a 3 set, 2 blonde girls and a brunette. Approached one of the blinds, but noticed the brunette was more receptive, playing furiously with her hair and body language more towards me, so I focused on her. Good thing because the girl I initially opened was talking to some other guy(maybe bf who knows).
Ran a few teases(ur having the most fun, you stole my outfit, etc.) as well as asked a few basic questions, but my wings didn’t hop in for the other friend, seemed like she couldn’t fully give me her attention. Kept trying to tease and ask questions to try to spark a convo, was very interested at first, comfortable with touch and in my space, but the lack of my friends going in meant she couldn’t leave her friend. Tried to introduce my friends to her friend, but they ended up leaving.
Ran a few teases(ur having the most fun, you stole my outfit, etc.) as well as asked a few basic questions, but my wings didn’t hop in for the other friend, seemed like she couldn’t fully give me her attention. Kept trying to tease and ask questions to try to spark a convo, was very interested at first, comfortable with touch and in my space, but the lack of my friends going in meant she couldn’t leave her friend. Tried to introduce my friends to her friend, but they ended up leaving.
As we were leaving the bar, I spot 2 very cute girls, I tell my wings that I’m gonna make one more approach(why not). Turns out this was a very good idea, as the girl I wanted was immediately receptive to me.
Opened by saying “I think u guys are having the most fun here” to which they said they weren’t. I told them I was being sarcastic, and the girl I was talking to (HBJacket) qualified herself saying, yea usually we’re very fun. Also found out they had an uber already called to leave, so decided to run a bit of banter, and basic fact finding to see if I could plan something for the future. She said she’s from a nearby university, I asked her how nightlife was there, she said ok. I seeded the idea that in coming to my university bars, to which she was interested.
As she was talking, explaining something to me, her lips brushed my cheek, enough for a quick peck(could have teased or qualified here, didn’t take advantage of the moment), and I asked her for her number. She said she doesn’t give out her number, so after a bit of back and forth, I took her Snapchat(probably mistake on my part, I lose frame).
UPDATE: Texted her the next day, she unadded me.
As she was talking, explaining something to me, her lips brushed my cheek, enough for a quick peck(could have teased or qualified here, didn’t take advantage of the moment), and I asked her for her number. She said she doesn’t give out her number, so after a bit of back and forth, I took her Snapchat(probably mistake on my part, I lose frame).
UPDATE: Texted her the next day, she unadded me.
Went to the next bar, got some drinks, ran the usual opener teases, but most of the girls weren’t feeling it(wasn’t in my best state possible admittedly).
Also ran into trying to talk to lots of girls with bfs right there in the room, wonder why they were uninterested, and it turns out their bf was just a little bit away, and when I see them with said bf, just acknowledge it and turn ur back to them.
Final set was a brunette and blonde, I opened both of them, noticed HBBrunette was immediately more receptive to me, started teasing her that she stole my outfit, then started to get to ask about her a bit more.
This time, I took it further as I sensed clear interest from her(she was facing me, furiously brushing her hair back), so I inspected her rings, asked her favorite one, meanwhile I was holding her hands, and let her inspect my rings out too, she complimented my jewelry. Meanwhile, my friends were talking to the one other girl.
Purchased another quick course on how to get an instant kiss(not ideal for nightlife but logistics are already very unfavorable), so I started by saying “hey you seem very open minded and outgoing.” She said yes to the open minded, not really to the outgoing.
Then I asked her to prove herself by saying something open minded she did recently, to which she said “does it count if I’m drunk” to which i said yes.
She talked about how she went into some random guys house for that night(I was gonna ask more questions) but unexpectedly for some reason my friends started talking to HBBrunette while I was stuck with the blonde friend. Could sense that the blonde was interested in me, however not as much as the brunette, so I decided to go more for connection building with less arousal, since I knew which one was my target.
Got the brunettes snap(I went directly for snap this time) and both of their instagrams, brunettes didn’t follow my friend back but followed me back, blonde only traded instas with me.
Eventually, they both had to find their friends, tbh idt that my friends got that they were both looking to hook up, the brunette especially, meanwhile they had a nice but unhelpful convo. Still though they both came out of that interaction all smiles and cheers, not going to explain, let them get some initial confidence.
This time, I took it further as I sensed clear interest from her(she was facing me, furiously brushing her hair back), so I inspected her rings, asked her favorite one, meanwhile I was holding her hands, and let her inspect my rings out too, she complimented my jewelry. Meanwhile, my friends were talking to the one other girl.
Purchased another quick course on how to get an instant kiss(not ideal for nightlife but logistics are already very unfavorable), so I started by saying “hey you seem very open minded and outgoing.” She said yes to the open minded, not really to the outgoing.
Then I asked her to prove herself by saying something open minded she did recently, to which she said “does it count if I’m drunk” to which i said yes.
She talked about how she went into some random guys house for that night(I was gonna ask more questions) but unexpectedly for some reason my friends started talking to HBBrunette while I was stuck with the blonde friend. Could sense that the blonde was interested in me, however not as much as the brunette, so I decided to go more for connection building with less arousal, since I knew which one was my target.
Got the brunettes snap(I went directly for snap this time) and both of their instagrams, brunettes didn’t follow my friend back but followed me back, blonde only traded instas with me.
Eventually, they both had to find their friends, tbh idt that my friends got that they were both looking to hook up, the brunette especially, meanwhile they had a nice but unhelpful convo. Still though they both came out of that interaction all smiles and cheers, not going to explain, let them get some initial confidence.
After this, the bar was closing soon, as it was emptying out, so we left. Did more approaches as well, but only wrote 3 down, since those are the only ones that I can really write about.
All in all, the 3rd approach was my favorite one, as I could start to run the routine that I started, as well as build proper arousal and touch compliance, and saw she was immediately hooked.
My friends inadvertently cockblocked me, Idt they get it as much as me(I practice night game a lot more than them).
Any feedback on where to improve? Trying to get better at leading, closing, and routine based game and cutting out unhelpful convo.
