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Balanced Diet Of Openers

ChaseMiser

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I've been a 'cocky funny' guy for a long time with really low success ratio. After finding this article on the main site, I realized what was my issue. Only using one opener just does not work, I need to take a girl through an array of openers throughout the conversation in order to get her feeling that I am not just 'the funny guy' and to get her thinking about me and unable to pin me down to one personality. I would like to work on as many openers as possible to work into my repertoire. The aforementioned article mentions another type of opener:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tact ... -and-funny

'Chase Framing' is great and works seamlessly into 'cocky funny,' but it's not enough. I was hoping to learn other types of opener into a routine I'm working that encompasses 5-7 openers in the initial interaction. What other openers exist outside of these two?
 
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radeng

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I think you’re misusing the term opener here. There’s really only one opener in the interaction and it’s the first like you deliver to a woman. My most used opener by far, is the good ole fashion, “hey there! How’s your night/day going?”

If you’re referring to tactics as openers or phases of the interaction, us old guys would be More helpful if you used correct terminology ;)

That being said, the way in which you talk to a girl is only a small part of the interaction. You’re non-verbals are more important. Whiles it’s good to have some great canned stories at hand, it’s better to have a “vibe” that attracts women.

Have A calm laid back, yet dominant demeanor, dress a little edgy, crack a joke here and there and bust her balls a bit but most of the convo focus on get to know you questions, asking for compliance, and touch and body language.

Radeng
 
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