As a result of working on my fundamentals for the last year or so, I see girls signaling me a lot more. Good reactions seem to be a normal occurrence in my daily life.
But it also been ten months since my last new lay.
And although I haven't been approaching as much (my ratio is 1/4 of what it used to be) I see two things that are different: 1. Girls seem more eager on the outset, they either reject me gently or are fast to give out their numbers after a couple of minutes talks. I don't need to approach as much and work hard to get dates. 2. But they also make sure not to drink (I meet a lot more non-drinking, non-partying girls now) or have "an appointment" making logistics bad for seduction.
Could my heightened value make hookups harder for me?
When I wasn't that valuable, women either rejected me more blatantly (sometimes even harshly). Dates were hard to get by but lays weren't that far and few between as they are now.
I also see that girls that signal me these days are more attractive than the ones I used to talk to and I don't get friend zoned anymore. These women know what can eventually happen so misunderstandings are rare these days.
What can have happened? Do prettier girls (the ones I am meeting now) make it harder to hook up? Or I'm I being bf-zoned because I am more attractive? Or is it a combination of both or something else I don't see?
Any feedback would on this be nice. I also write a journal with my encounters these days.
But it also been ten months since my last new lay.
And although I haven't been approaching as much (my ratio is 1/4 of what it used to be) I see two things that are different: 1. Girls seem more eager on the outset, they either reject me gently or are fast to give out their numbers after a couple of minutes talks. I don't need to approach as much and work hard to get dates. 2. But they also make sure not to drink (I meet a lot more non-drinking, non-partying girls now) or have "an appointment" making logistics bad for seduction.
Could my heightened value make hookups harder for me?
When I wasn't that valuable, women either rejected me more blatantly (sometimes even harshly). Dates were hard to get by but lays weren't that far and few between as they are now.
I also see that girls that signal me these days are more attractive than the ones I used to talk to and I don't get friend zoned anymore. These women know what can eventually happen so misunderstandings are rare these days.
What can have happened? Do prettier girls (the ones I am meeting now) make it harder to hook up? Or I'm I being bf-zoned because I am more attractive? Or is it a combination of both or something else I don't see?
Any feedback would on this be nice. I also write a journal with my encounters these days.
