Being the guy that brings girls to events and out with him.

[lux7]

I also enjoy being seen as the guy seen as being good with women and getting women than actually getting them because after a while, sex is overrated.

You're chasing validation, man.

And that's why you post so many LRs.

Not that it's wrong per se, and somewhat we all are.
But there are different levels there, too, and when it's too much you are putting your own life's satisfaction and psychological well-being into other people's hands.
You are relinquishing control.

Something to think about.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Nah we good @lux7 we good. I post LRs cuz I get laid lol.

Nothing to think about.

Other than the fact that I am looking to play this game on a different level than most.

 

[lux7]

Still sounds like you're chasing external validation (ie.: measuring your worth by what others think of you).

I know because I've been like that for a while, too.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Still sounds like you're chasing external validation (ie.: measuring your worth by what others think of you).

I know because I've been like that for a while, too.

Great so let me be unless you are doing what others have done and offer relevant advice on how to achieve the end-result (bringing hot girls to events)

 

[Carousel]

Great so let me be unless you are doing what others have done and offer relevant advice on how to achieve the end-result (bringing hot girls to events)

Ref your post on meditation and this one:

Your focus seems to be on WHAT YOU ARE LACKING and WHAT IS PROBLEMATIC AND WRONG. You know what? Nobody wants to validate you if you are in such a state, or at best people with even more negative realities (crazy party girls with drug problems, dishonest sleazeball guys working in nightlife etc). Spreading positivity and good emotions is actually rather key to building social circles, especially those with quality people.

I think you will achieve your goal if you start focusing on WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE. And be a bit more grateful for that.

This is actually simpler than meditation, it is a pure cognitive shift. What is good here and now? Instead of what is wrong in the past, now and in the future. Ironically, you will most likely exactly get that kind of validation the moment you stop chasing it.