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Feels good because this is my fastest DG lay so far (2.5 hours).
I've stopped documenting progress because I'm at a point where I've done all my experimenting and will get more results from doing vs thinking.
I also got tired of receiving big opinions from guys doing less than me. Sounds arrogant but is what it is. Thanks to those of you who've tried to help me in good faith, you know who you're and it's much appreciated.
This will be my last report until the end of the year. Only sharing because it's a milestone and I don't get these often anymore.
Hands down this is a direct result of consistency. A terribly underrated part of game that I'll keep bringing up.
Final Thoughts: This was a good reminder to just stick to the process. Honestly as recently as this morning I was feeling like daygame could feel a little helpless at times especially after 2 dates where I didn't like one of them and the other refused to come back with me. It's important to not get emotional in the day to day and focus on the bigger picture and doing the daily tasks that contribute to bigger goals, which is reflective of life to be honest.
It's also cool because it shows daygame has the full spectrum, from fun cluster B girls who sometimes I miss from my online days lol all the way to wholesome just want to be sweet girlfriend types.
For the stage of life I'm at, daygame cold approach is the best for me. I might evolve to social circle in the future if it genuinely compliments hobbies/interests I like but the foundation I build here will be valuable a lifetime.
Onwards & Upwards x
I've stopped documenting progress because I'm at a point where I've done all my experimenting and will get more results from doing vs thinking.
I also got tired of receiving big opinions from guys doing less than me. Sounds arrogant but is what it is. Thanks to those of you who've tried to help me in good faith, you know who you're and it's much appreciated.
This will be my last report until the end of the year. Only sharing because it's a milestone and I don't get these often anymore.
Hands down this is a direct result of consistency. A terribly underrated part of game that I'll keep bringing up.
57 approaches, 4 numbers, 3 dates, 1 lay
My mantra for this year is inputs and patience. The only standard I'm holding myself to is hitting 20 approaches a week. My aim is to reduce rust and never have it again by making approaches a way of life fluctuating from 10-30 a week depending on my life's priorities. I've also forced myself to get good at going daygame solo which this experience vindicates too.
Blonde girl, blue eyes, 5'7, brown beige cardigan, brown beige trousers, white crop top and grey trainers, UK girl who was Welsh (had a cute accent) and from a different city visiting her friend
This was my tenth approach so I was already socially warm. None of the other 9 approaches went anywhere, one girl was into me but I didn't bother number closing because she wasn't quite attractive enough. This girl in question, I saw her looking up at a hotel, just looking a bit lost. And I basically teased her for looking like a lost tourist. What's funny is I said the exact same line with a previous tourist lay and at the time I said, this is exciting because I feel I could repeatedly do that with local and tourist girls alike. Anyway with this girl, she faced me, smiled and said something about trying to find Sephora and get to Bexley Heath to which she was like 1 hour away from lol. I point to the nearest station, tease/laugh at her and the fun begins...
Honestly I felt a little lucky because my experience just made me know this girl was trouble. Arguably right place at the right time. I cold read her for being chaotic to which she enthusiastically agrees, check logistics, she's in London for just the night and seeing her "gay" friend. She didn't need to tell me that so that detail made me know it was on. I also add frames around London being a city for adventure, non-judgemental and how you can do what she wants and she says how she prefers that to her small town in Wales. After a minute or 2 I say, I'm going to the park feel free to join me and she agrees and we walk 5 minutes to the park and sit on a bench
This is where I end up being unintentionally toxic 
I'm still seeing the girl from this daygame lay but when I sense there's an opportunity I cancel... What's mad as well is I know the spike in emotion will probably help her get more into me even though that's not the reason I did it off course
I'm still seeing the girl from this daygame lay but when I sense there's an opportunity I cancel... What's mad as well is I know the spike in emotion will probably help her get more into me even though that's not the reason I did it off courseAt this point, it's just my usual date process. She opens up about being bi, how she lost friends because of it which I say sucks as people need to grow up and be mature, she mentions I'm not 21 which I just shrug and continue the conversation and she doesn't even ask my age until the 2nd place but more on that later. I get a bit of incidental touching as we're sat next to each other and I make sure to compliment her on her adventerous and fun side while being challenging and teasing by remembering things she says and saying how that doesn't make sense E.g. I've never been to Cardiff, before later saying she went there for a Tarrot reading lol. I don't remember the words but the VIBE was most important, fun, easy going, teasy, low pressure, adventerous with undertone of sex not being a big deal
I then babystep her again by saying, this is fun should we get a drink? Again she enthusiastically agrees. I want to get her closer to mine so I say "can we be lazy and get the tube?" She agrees and we end up 2 stops away and head to a bar that's now only a 10 minute uber away. We get drinks and it's more of the same, and she's making jokes of "are you going to kidnap me" I smirk and say only voluntarily if we vibe, let's see. She says "that's fine just let me know in advance" she also asks me if I'll grape her which is crazy and I make a call back to the fact that her ex got her kicked out the club by accusing her of sexually assaulting her (this girl's life is all over the place) so I reverse it and say if anyone has to be scared here it's ME. This is when she asks my age and I say 29 without flinching, she just comments that I look younger, I say I know I have a babyface and the conversation continues and it's no big deal. This is the 2nd 19 y/o I've been on a date with so noticing if I'm cool with it, they're cool with it.
she also asks me if I'll grape her which is crazy and I make a call back to the fact that her ex got her kicked out the club by accusing her of sexually assaulting her (this girl's life is all over the place) so I reverse it and say if anyone has to be scared here it's ME. This is when she asks my age and I say 29 without flinching, she just comments that I look younger, I say I know I have a babyface and the conversation continues and it's no big deal. This is the 2nd 19 y/o I've been on a date with so noticing if I'm cool with it, they're cool with it.This is where I get lucky. Her gay friend keeps calling and texting her because she's late. After we finish our drinks she's like "I'll see you another time" I persist twice with a you can do what you want but if we're vibing here we may as well continue but she doesn't budge and I say no problem, I'll walk you to the station so you can reach your platform. I walk her to the platform and the sexual tension just ramps up a notch. She's looking dead in my face with strong eye contract, fully facing me and clearly wants to kiss me but I hold the line. At this point I cut my losses for the day and say be cool to meet you tomorrow after you've seen your friend but before the train arrives she asks "how long are you from here again?" and I take that as a sign to order the uber and we go arm in arm to the bolt that I book as we go back up
This is all about keeping the vibe up, I've got my hand on her thigh, tell her to stop bothering the driver and tell him if she's too much trouble let me know and I'll kick her out, basically fun non-logical energy, she starts trolling the driver without him even realizing and we share moments and laugh making a nice inner bubble too
This girl was a lotttttttttttttttttt of fun. Freaky, didn't even want to use a condom and wanted me to cum inside her (but I have high dick discipline and made sure we did) and was a good time. We literally only had 1 round before I got her an uber back to the station because her friend was calling and stressing over her lol. She's absolute bad news as she was saying like "are you mad at me??" and "I love you" to this poor guy on the other line hahaah. Very fun but his girl will be an occasional FB at best
Final Thoughts: This was a good reminder to just stick to the process. Honestly as recently as this morning I was feeling like daygame could feel a little helpless at times especially after 2 dates where I didn't like one of them and the other refused to come back with me. It's important to not get emotional in the day to day and focus on the bigger picture and doing the daily tasks that contribute to bigger goals, which is reflective of life to be honest.
It's also cool because it shows daygame has the full spectrum, from fun cluster B girls who sometimes I miss from my online days lol all the way to wholesome just want to be sweet girlfriend types.
For the stage of life I'm at, daygame cold approach is the best for me. I might evolve to social circle in the future if it genuinely compliments hobbies/interests I like but the foundation I build here will be valuable a lifetime.
Onwards & Upwards x
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