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Building up to the date

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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About two nights ago, a girl who I haven't talked to for a while got back in touch with me. I was curious about what she'd been up to all this time and honestly, since we lasted talked about year back she's only grown to be more cute than what she was a while back when we hung out from what I could tell (she was very blatantly into me, you now smiles, strong eye contact, a lot of playful physical contact to get me to notice her more, ect.) so we talked for a while last night and she told me a few interesting things that she's been up to and is excited for then we set up a time for lunch to catch up sometime earlier next month when finals are over with. She didn't take long to accept. Sounds great, right?

Well then I realized I'm going to either have to maintain her interest for three more weeks or hope she doesn't flake. I'm not entirely sure which I should be doing but I'm fairly certain it's the former. However I'm not sure how to go about this. I couldn't really find anything in my search for an answer to this on the site (although I swear I've seen it somewhere on here before). So if anyone's got any article's to direct me to, I'd be more than grateful but the question remains: After I've gotten the date set up, what should I do leading up to it to maintain interest?
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Here are some good principles to keep in mind:ARTICLE



BE A MAN ON A MISSION AND ALWAYS WILLING TO WALK AWAY
No woman, or women in general, should be your main mission in life. A lot of the relationship problems that arise do so simply because you’re not doing your own thing and too much of your happiness revolves around her. This means that you will, consciously or not, start putting expectation on her behavior and get angry/disappointed every time she doesn’t follow through.

This also applies to women: you don’t want to be the most important thing in her life either.

The best way to avoid this is to be a man on a mission!

And a man on a mission will never hesitate to give up on things that get in the way of his mission. This brings me to my last point:

You don’t work on your casual relationships, you don’t try to “fix” them if things go wrong. No, if something is not working, you thank her for the experiences and simply walk away to another woman (women).
 
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