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Can guys with big egos that objectify women ever have success in the game?

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I feel like this describes me well, I am a guy with a massive ego and I can never get myself to love women after reading what I have read.

For me, the primary purpose of a woman is to put out and a woman is only good in my eyes if she is willing to fuck, it is kind of like a business transaction. Like I cannot get myself to ever really love a woman or genuinely care about them in a romantic way. At times, I fantasize about dating a hot girl and cheating on her regularly with other hot girls just because I can and just to show her how little she matters.

I know these are nasty thoughts to have but the only value women have in my life is sex and the only value sex has in my life is confidence boost to prove that I can fuck hot girls.

Now I hear that you are supposed to love women in a certain way, see them for their immaturities, and all that but I disagree. I cannot ever see myself entering a long-term loving relationship with a woman, she is either a trophy or there for a confidence boost. Like I see myself living life like this and not giving into women or even seeing them as individuals, they're a number to me.

Can guys with that kind of mindset, if they accumulate enough value and learn game be successful?
 
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Can guys with that kind of mindset, if they accumulate enough value and learn game be successful?

You seem to be viewing your mindset as static which isn't the case. People change and grow overtime, tremendously. In the case of becoming a lover of women, accumulating enough value (and this goes beyond being big and powerful - these are TRAITS you develop), learning game (also having to do with TRAITS and not technical skill), and simply having an abundance of experience are what changes you and forms you into one. As these traits develop, you may find that you no longer seek women as a fuel for ego and rather to share experiences with.

Sex with the right people is much more of an encompassing experience than is the hedonistic pleasure of fucking some alleged 10. Don't get me wrong, fucking a hot ass, big titty blonde is fucking sick. I'm a hedonist for god's sake - but I know what it is and what else is out there (not to say I'm out here banging 9's and 10's left & right or have ever done that - I'm not).

Big egos & cockiness are shell-like and artificial (the external), whereas wholesomeness & confidence are strong and rich (the depth in addition to the external).


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