Can women feel that you are in pickup mode?

[DarkKnight]

The title is pretty self explanatory I guess. I reflected multiple times on Chase's article about practice mode and how women can behave more subdued when you are obviously working a room.

I'm only hypothizing right now but I can see how this works against you:
1. Just like a storekeeper because you touch an item the girl can assume the sale and demand more/show more ressistance.
2. You can get early in a chasing frame from the girls perspective.

So I am starting to figure that hanging out and then making it happen is indeed the most efficient type of seduction, since girls will throw more signs of interest because you seem to be preoccupied. This also puts them in a chasing frame. Perhaps this is why girls you don't care about tend to like you most? This also can help with filtering girls who like you from ones who are wishy washy.

Ofcourse then you need to have the mental powers of switching to seduction mode like Chase suggests. And be profecient with approaching and making it happen which takes training.

I have been cold approaching a lot this last year in order to test my power and at one point found it to be pretty exhausting. Cold approach has its merits but being in that mode non stop can really tire you out.

 

[Fuck This]

They sense neediness, they sense desperation. and they are repelled.
They can spot a Gamey guy in a minute. He is being too "try hard". He is dressed too flashy and being a social butterfly

But when I can have women approach me when I am sweaty after a run, there is SOMETHING I am giving off. I assume it is an openness to being approached. People tell me that my physical carriage is imposing yet my facial expressions and demeanor is welcoming. Many times that is a social situation where I am interacting with multiple other people. So I appear approachable.

If you are Spam approaching women in the club without any previous eye contact or reason for introducing yourself they will know you are on the hunt. The truly cagey ones will "let themselves be caught"

 

[Space]

-Fuck This

Then I can hide the fact pretty successfully from women as I'm never caught. I must be the stealth seducer by your description. I don't dress flashy though.

 

[DarkKnight]

I would say I have giving a way too great predatory vibe and this has been sabbotaging me a little. I don't think I emitted neediness or desperation, because I am not both of those things, but I could have come across too much as a hunter.

I will try to tone that down and behave like a tiger hidden in camouflage.

 

[naturalmikey]

good pickup doesn't look like pickup. cold approach is for beginners. warm approach is where it's at.

 

[DarkKnight]

Well, I would argue that turning cold leads into hot ones is the pinnacle of seduction. However it just isn't worth your time in hindsight. Then again, you can't be sure someone is a cold lead until you open her.