Over the years I've been trained myself to have better posture, talk slower, etc. But for some reason I cannot stop checking out women or even people in general. I look at people when they are walking by. I look at people when I am walking by. I tired to condition myself to keep my head and eyes straight but I like looking at other people too much.
I've read the post on using peripheral vision. That's just hard with glasses and contacts are too uncomfortable to wear everyday.
What can I do? Do I just need more determination? More discipline? Or are there exercise and steps for this?
Can you teach me how to respond better when I get caught?
Usually I panic and frantically look away or do a meek smile. I probably do these things because I don't want my co-workers to think I'm leering at them as it's especially awkward when it happens at work. I don't want women at work to think I'm a creep who stares at them. Maybe they already do.
Is there a difference between looking at a female co-worker and a cute girl when I'm out and about?
I've read the post on using peripheral vision. That's just hard with glasses and contacts are too uncomfortable to wear everyday.
What can I do? Do I just need more determination? More discipline? Or are there exercise and steps for this?
Can you teach me how to respond better when I get caught?
Usually I panic and frantically look away or do a meek smile. I probably do these things because I don't want my co-workers to think I'm leering at them as it's especially awkward when it happens at work. I don't want women at work to think I'm a creep who stares at them. Maybe they already do.
Is there a difference between looking at a female co-worker and a cute girl when I'm out and about?