Hello there. I have a problem with a girl. We've been dating for a while and whenever it happen in normal, safe place sex is good. But when why try to do it in a car or similar she gets anxious and the whole thing just becomes a awkward, weird process to fulfill a need as quick as possible.
She's the only one I had, and I'm having, car sex with, so I don't have a reference. What could it be that creates so much negativity? Cold it be not enough dominance from me? Should I make her hornier before getting to the place? Or what else?
I know it's hard to answer with so little references, I'm giving you some more. First of all, location could be an issue. For as much as I think, I can only find places that are either close to houses, public places, etc..., or to ones near the woods. The latter are kinda scary and the former keep us constantly alert for other people passing by. Second, she' s at easy with me both personally and sexually. She has no problem telling me if she doesn't or does like something, whether it's standard or a little kinky/out of the normal schemes. Third, for what I can see she really wants to find a way to have sex even if there's bad logistic, but gets too anxious. Forth, her family is strict and old minded, that could be an issue.
What do you say?
She's the only one I had, and I'm having, car sex with, so I don't have a reference. What could it be that creates so much negativity? Cold it be not enough dominance from me? Should I make her hornier before getting to the place? Or what else?
I know it's hard to answer with so little references, I'm giving you some more. First of all, location could be an issue. For as much as I think, I can only find places that are either close to houses, public places, etc..., or to ones near the woods. The latter are kinda scary and the former keep us constantly alert for other people passing by. Second, she' s at easy with me both personally and sexually. She has no problem telling me if she doesn't or does like something, whether it's standard or a little kinky/out of the normal schemes. Third, for what I can see she really wants to find a way to have sex even if there's bad logistic, but gets too anxious. Forth, her family is strict and old minded, that could be an issue.
What do you say?

