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So a user I look up to on this board, I believe Grand Poobah, wrote a post about why Tinder is ineffective for meeting women and TBH, I do agree that online dating is tough. That being said, I've had more than enough success on Bumble and The League when it comes to matching with good looking women that I don't really think skin color alone is that big of an issue.
In fact, I have even shared pics on my lay reports of convos I've had on Bumble with women, had to ask Franco to remove them for personal reasons obviously. If anyone has doubts, Franco can vouch for me here and if you don't believe him, PM me and I'll personally get the pics to you.
Just like Grand Poobah, I am South Asian and get mistaken for Middle Eastern from time to time.
So what is it with the minority issues anyways?
The truth is, dating apps are about image and giving off a "cool vibe" through pics. I feel like guys who are good at social media game are good with dating apps because they know how to portray that cool guy image on pics. You will see them post pics of them doing cool stuff and it has the right amount of lighting to it and everything. A guy of any race can pull this off but it has to be pulled off the right way, you can't make it too professional because that is boring yet you can't make it too casual because then you may as well post a selfie.
That is the biggest thing minorities struggle with, especially Asian and Indian men, giving off that cool guy image.
On top of that, looks matter regardless of race. I've known countless white guys that don't get any matches on dating apps yet minorities who do well because they look good. I have a tough time believing some guy who looks like a Bollywood actor or Daniel Heney is going to have a tough time with dating apps.
"But Oh Pry, you yourself don't get blonde bombshells on those apps!"
Alright, fair enough, I'll confess, the main girls I've smashed from dating apps have been brunettes or ethnic women but I am perfectly okay with that because these women were good looking. While it is true that I don't match with hot blondes all that often, at some point, hot pussy is hot pussy. I used to have an aversion to smashing dark haired white girls but if she is hot enough, who cares? For the lack of effort it takes with these apps, I say it is a good trade off because I am too exhausted after long work hours to consider putting in tons of hours to gaming some of the most high value women out there.
We all have a type but if she is hot, the practice is good enough from my experience. I never though I would enjoy sticking my cock inside of brown, latina and dark haired white women so much for the amount of effort it takes. Decent enough online game coupled in with aggression because you are on a dating app is good enough for the simplicity of it all.
I get it because I want a hot blonde as much as the next guy but there is absolutely nothing wrong with smashing a Kat Dennings. Yes, I would take a hot blonde any day but why pass up easy pussy especially if it is still much better looking than the average woman?
Plus, I doubt I would get that many hot blondes on dating apps even if I was a white guy because there are not that many of them on dating apps to begin with. Your typical hot blonde has social status and is out and about to even consider wasting too much time with dating apps. I doubt I would match with them that often even if I was a hot white guy. How do I know this? I have friends who fit the bill of being white and good looking, they mainly match with ethnic girls and brunettes too.
Guys, I promise you, fucking a sexy brunette or ethnic chick won't make your dick fly off, only glutten does that.
Here are common issues I notice with profiles of minorities on a lot of these apps:
1. Too many selfies and bathroom pics, seriously guys, don't do this.
2. Not enough pics of them doing cool shit.
3. Lack of lighting and filters as well as other pic enhancements on their pics, almost every guy succeeding with online dating is doing this.
4. Being unrealistic about their value, I don't care what race you are but if you don't look good without a shirt on, you'll struggle on these apps.
You have to convey from YOUR profile that you're a cool guy, it is plain and simple.
And these apps are the future, everything is being taken over by the internet.
Yesterday it was Tinder and today it is Bumble and The League, tomorrow it will be some other app that gets big.
Social media and the online world are taking over everything from how you get a job to how you fuck.
And believe me when I say that the value of minority men is RISING!
Whether it is Black Panther getting big or Into The Badlands, minorities are IN if you are hot. Things are only going to keep getting better too, I see it with my own eyes.
Brown guys started being more desirable ever since the Big Sick and Zayn smashing Gigi Hadid.
A handsome latino can do some serious damage on these apps too.
Honestly, I don't see this whole minorities can't slay on dating apps thing, I really don't.
In fact, I have even shared pics on my lay reports of convos I've had on Bumble with women, had to ask Franco to remove them for personal reasons obviously. If anyone has doubts, Franco can vouch for me here and if you don't believe him, PM me and I'll personally get the pics to you.
Just like Grand Poobah, I am South Asian and get mistaken for Middle Eastern from time to time.
So what is it with the minority issues anyways?
The truth is, dating apps are about image and giving off a "cool vibe" through pics. I feel like guys who are good at social media game are good with dating apps because they know how to portray that cool guy image on pics. You will see them post pics of them doing cool stuff and it has the right amount of lighting to it and everything. A guy of any race can pull this off but it has to be pulled off the right way, you can't make it too professional because that is boring yet you can't make it too casual because then you may as well post a selfie.
That is the biggest thing minorities struggle with, especially Asian and Indian men, giving off that cool guy image.
On top of that, looks matter regardless of race. I've known countless white guys that don't get any matches on dating apps yet minorities who do well because they look good. I have a tough time believing some guy who looks like a Bollywood actor or Daniel Heney is going to have a tough time with dating apps.
"But Oh Pry, you yourself don't get blonde bombshells on those apps!"
Alright, fair enough, I'll confess, the main girls I've smashed from dating apps have been brunettes or ethnic women but I am perfectly okay with that because these women were good looking. While it is true that I don't match with hot blondes all that often, at some point, hot pussy is hot pussy. I used to have an aversion to smashing dark haired white girls but if she is hot enough, who cares? For the lack of effort it takes with these apps, I say it is a good trade off because I am too exhausted after long work hours to consider putting in tons of hours to gaming some of the most high value women out there.
We all have a type but if she is hot, the practice is good enough from my experience. I never though I would enjoy sticking my cock inside of brown, latina and dark haired white women so much for the amount of effort it takes. Decent enough online game coupled in with aggression because you are on a dating app is good enough for the simplicity of it all.
I get it because I want a hot blonde as much as the next guy but there is absolutely nothing wrong with smashing a Kat Dennings. Yes, I would take a hot blonde any day but why pass up easy pussy especially if it is still much better looking than the average woman?
Plus, I doubt I would get that many hot blondes on dating apps even if I was a white guy because there are not that many of them on dating apps to begin with. Your typical hot blonde has social status and is out and about to even consider wasting too much time with dating apps. I doubt I would match with them that often even if I was a hot white guy. How do I know this? I have friends who fit the bill of being white and good looking, they mainly match with ethnic girls and brunettes too.
Guys, I promise you, fucking a sexy brunette or ethnic chick won't make your dick fly off, only glutten does that.
Here are common issues I notice with profiles of minorities on a lot of these apps:
1. Too many selfies and bathroom pics, seriously guys, don't do this.
2. Not enough pics of them doing cool shit.
3. Lack of lighting and filters as well as other pic enhancements on their pics, almost every guy succeeding with online dating is doing this.
4. Being unrealistic about their value, I don't care what race you are but if you don't look good without a shirt on, you'll struggle on these apps.
You have to convey from YOUR profile that you're a cool guy, it is plain and simple.
And these apps are the future, everything is being taken over by the internet.
Yesterday it was Tinder and today it is Bumble and The League, tomorrow it will be some other app that gets big.
Social media and the online world are taking over everything from how you get a job to how you fuck.
And believe me when I say that the value of minority men is RISING!
Whether it is Black Panther getting big or Into The Badlands, minorities are IN if you are hot. Things are only going to keep getting better too, I see it with my own eyes.
Brown guys started being more desirable ever since the Big Sick and Zayn smashing Gigi Hadid.
A handsome latino can do some serious damage on these apps too.
Honestly, I don't see this whole minorities can't slay on dating apps thing, I really don't.
