Científico's Seduction Chronicles

[Científico]

Wow, what a trip this has been.

I got laid, but I also made a few mistakes that tempered my results. Problably will get into them in another post.

As of now, let’s just say that this experience travelling with other guys in the game has opened my eyes. It’s one thing to be a specialist in one-on-one dates, which is what I spend a lot of time working on, it’s quite another to be well rounded in group dynamics and practice seduction in an environment like a table at a restaurant or at a club.

Perhaps my favorite part was getting accosted tonight by an angry couple that overheard my conversation at a restaurant with another guy in the game. Apparently, they are very offended by a man that likes to have sex with women (and a lot of them).

 

[Científico]

Thoughts about my trip to Lima

This post will be a bit more of a comprehensive reflection on my last adventure in LatAm with a few friends also in the game.

I did a lot of things right. My cold approach momentum is stronger than ever, and I feel the after effects even today when I approached three girls on my grocery store run (with two IG closes) without even thinking about it, completely outcome independent.

The other positive highlight was how I effectively used some new (old) routines. I was shocked at how well they worked. The PUA "strawberry fields" routine that Tom talks about in his book, that you can also google easily, is surprisingly effective at spiking up the dates and engaging the girls. There is also the "Questions Game" which works well, as well as the other one from Toms book I detailed in a previous post. These routines + sex talk gambits and qualification questions I sprinkle in seem to be doing very well lately on dates I have led, both here on my home turf and on this recent trip. Thanks to this I laid several girls in less than week, taking advantage of the high volume one finds in South America.

I didn't do everything right though. Here are two mistakes I made:

1.) Not capitalizing fast on a cold approach lead when she was clearly DTF.

I approached this absolutely beautiful half asian, half peruvian girl on the street. She hooks immediately and looks at me longingly with these big eyes. She asks me for MY IG. She signals that she is travelling soon but may be available in a day or two. Then a guy comes by in a car and picks her up.

Looking at her IG, it appears this guy is her boyfriend. And yet, when I message her she is very receptive. I ask her to go out for some drinks that night, and she replies she isn't about crazy plans but prefers something more chill.

My friends and I are going out to dinner with a group of girls, but my buddy suggests to me that I should send a hail mary message and simply invite her over for quiet glass of wine and a movie.

She doesn't reply right away, and we go out to dinner with the girls. While at dinner, I do get a reply - she is down to come over and is staying close by!

Here is my mistake - I should have immediately gone back to the Air BnB to receive her. The dinner wasn't even going well, and the girls we were with were entitled princesses that didn't deserve my attention. But I decided to tell her to wait until I got out, which by the time I did it was too late to make things happen. I regret this very much.

2.) Being between two places New Years night.

Longer story short - My friends had a table with girls on NYE, but I decided to be between them and another party (with proper dancing) that I wanted to check out - which turns out, wasn't even good. I get there around 1:30 - 2 am and immediately regret it.

Meanwhile, I had a solid shot with at least one of the girls at the table had I been present and fully taken advantage of it. Instead, I left to go to this other party that wasn't even good. I also regret this.

There is also a third mistake I made, but that I won't detail here - suffice it to say I will be changing some behavior next time I embark on a group trip.

 

[Científico]

LR - Redhead Gringa

Had this girl over last night for a home-cooked meal.

She arrived and I looked deeply into her eyes. It was on immediately. But we broke the tension to eat. I served her the food, and drinks. And gave her a few goodies I bought for her on my last trip.

Then, played a bit of the Questions game out on my balcony while sitting overlooking the view.

Once the sexual tension was very high and we were kissing and making out, I did my normal dominant move of physically picking her up and carrying her to my bedroom.

A bit of LMR to break through here. The first time I tried to escalate she blocked it, but after I took my dick out she gave me a nice BJ. I put on a TV show, then tried again later. She blocked things again, but I kissed the outside of her leggings and rubbed my hard dick against her pussy through the leggings. Somehow, this gave her an orgasm after a while (!). She then let me put my fingers into her pussy, then I took off the leggings and started eating her out (more orgasms).

Finally, she relented - 'okay you win, do you have a condom?' Music to my ears. She was very loud during sex, screaming and orgasming multiple times.

I like this girl a lot. She reminds me of my ex when I first met her. Just incredibly romantic, and emotional. She has to be managed properly.

 

[Higher]

Just incredibly romantic, and emotional. She has to be managed properly.

I recently met one such girl too. Any advice on managing her properly?

 

[Científico]

I recently met one such girl too. Any advice on managing her properly?

I'm still figuring that out for myself somewhat. Like I said, she reminds me a lot of my ex when I first met her, and much of my troubles with my ex ultimately stemmed from me not properly establishing the right frames from the beginning. I am aiming to do things a little differently this time.

She is very much like my ex in terms of how attracted and devoted she is to me (started from the beginning) and very clearly shows it. This is another girl that has chosen me and gone all in. But she is also a bit better than my ex in the sense that she is a bit more attractive, and more feminine. There is a lot I can show her and teach her and she knows it. With a better diet and fitness routine, I know I can make her into an even better girl.

Unlike the latina girls that I meet in LatAm, the gringas like this one for some reason try to lock you down into monogamy very quickly. At least that has been my experience. Already on the second time after we banged, she was making comments about not wanting to share me and asking questions about me seeing other girls, which I deflected (essentially didn't answer in that moment). She spent the night over, and the next morning I took her out onto my balcony and decided to gently, but firmly, have a 'Talk' similar to how Varoon Rajah describes in his Harem Series. Essentially told her that I could not do monogamy. I was prepared to risk losing her over this, because I know from the experience with my ex where the road to monogamy with a possessive woman goes - for me, nowhere.

Thankfully, it did not take her long at all to accept that I will not be monogamous to her. Now, I am constantly showing her the love and affection that she truly deserves.

She is also bisexual and has dated women before, so I am keen to carefully explore how I could perhaps bring other women in. She is quite a find especially for the subpar dating market in the US.

Blonde Gringa Dancer Flake

With this girl, I was also going to repeat the same at-home dinner date that I did with redhead gringa, unfortunately she got cold feet at the very last minute (the day of, after weeks of discussion) and came up with some excuse about her not being over her ex.

In hindsight, I should have perhaps pushed back a bit more and seen if I could turn it around. But I was also turned off a lot by this sudden reversal. As always with women - you win some, you lose some.

Dating Momemtum Slowing

Work has increased activity the last week or two with the start of the year and with the horrible dating market in the US, things have slowed to a trickle. I swear, I can go days without seeing a single hot girl in the US, especially if I don't go out in the evenings for night game. The dating apps also slow down substantially.

Not unexpected. The best I can do while still being in the US working this job is simply to take advantage of opportunities as they come, but accept the reality that things will be slower. Thankfully my approach anxiety is not where it used to be - lately I have been much better at taking the shots, even if the approach turns out awkward.