Hey guys,
Something I’m finding difficult is communication in the bedroom.
Like Chase once said, every guy thinks theyre above average in bed but technically 50% are above average and 50% are below.
Naturally if you want to get better in bed, you have to communicate to see what the girl likes and what she doesn’t. I’m constantly watching facial expressions and body during sex as well but I feel like i’m interpreting things the wrong way too.
So a multi-part question:
a) How do I better communicate in bed so that I can figure out how to make her tick? Obviously you don’t want to ask “did you cum” because it makes you look dumb but I’ve been with girls that I cant tell if they’re cumming or not. Their legs shake and their muscles contract but they never outright say they came. What language can I use and when should I ask these questions (after, before, during sex?)
b) what are you keeping an eye on during sex? Her body? her face? What are signs that she’s enjoying it, or cumming, or that you should continue doing what youre doing or change what youre doing? I feel like I misinterpret things. For example if i’m eating her out and at one point she says “i want you to fuck me”, i take that as im doing a bad job eating her out so she wants me to stop. Or if she’s moaning loudly (some girls are just vocal the entire time), then she wants me to just continue what im doing
If you don’t have the answers, what can I watch/read? Sex god method is great but it doesn’t answer the questions above.
Thanks.
Something I’m finding difficult is communication in the bedroom.
Like Chase once said, every guy thinks theyre above average in bed but technically 50% are above average and 50% are below.
Naturally if you want to get better in bed, you have to communicate to see what the girl likes and what she doesn’t. I’m constantly watching facial expressions and body during sex as well but I feel like i’m interpreting things the wrong way too.
So a multi-part question:
a) How do I better communicate in bed so that I can figure out how to make her tick? Obviously you don’t want to ask “did you cum” because it makes you look dumb but I’ve been with girls that I cant tell if they’re cumming or not. Their legs shake and their muscles contract but they never outright say they came. What language can I use and when should I ask these questions (after, before, during sex?)
b) what are you keeping an eye on during sex? Her body? her face? What are signs that she’s enjoying it, or cumming, or that you should continue doing what youre doing or change what youre doing? I feel like I misinterpret things. For example if i’m eating her out and at one point she says “i want you to fuck me”, i take that as im doing a bad job eating her out so she wants me to stop. Or if she’s moaning loudly (some girls are just vocal the entire time), then she wants me to just continue what im doing
If you don’t have the answers, what can I watch/read? Sex god method is great but it doesn’t answer the questions above.
Thanks.