Hi beginner here
So months ago I was working with this 20 year old (I'm 29) on this dinner theater. A lot of the times we meet either at the dinner theater, another audition, event, etc. Most of those times she does a little light flirting. Example
Her: so how you spent Valentine's day
Me: like I spend it every year by myself
Her: wow that's kind of a shock going to be honest with you.
You know little light stuff like that. Now I know what some of you are thinking why haven't you made a move. Well to be honest she's a little conservative for my taste. Don't get me wrong she's very cute and well put together. But she comes across as a little inexperience if you know what I mean.
So anyways one day I decided to ask her for her number (that was a mistake I should ask her out on a date first). After giving her ice breaker text that day I decide to ask her out over text 2 days later. She didn't reply. I wasn't too upset because like I said a little bit too conservative for my taste but I just thought I give it a try.
About a month or two later she texts me to wish me happy Birthday (which is weird to me she's not on social media I don't know how she knows unless I told her but who the hell remember after so long). Text a little bit and that was it.
Cut to yesterday she texts me just to see what up. So I'm thinking she must be interested. So doing our text conversation I tried to ask her out again. I asked her if she's free this week. At first she dodged the question. Then later she said that should be available while August/ September when everything calms down a little bit and asked if I had any plans on August/September I said not yet . Then I asked do you have any plans on August/September. She dodged the question again. And at that moment I was tired trying to escalate things she dodging the questions. So we just text like normal (with me doing most of the texting despite me trying to deep dive).
My question to you.
1. What do I make of this girl? Is she just texting just to be friends, Trying to figure me out, etc
2. If she is interested in me why not let me escalate the situation? This is something I'm doing wrong?
So months ago I was working with this 20 year old (I'm 29) on this dinner theater. A lot of the times we meet either at the dinner theater, another audition, event, etc. Most of those times she does a little light flirting. Example
Her: so how you spent Valentine's day
Me: like I spend it every year by myself
Her: wow that's kind of a shock going to be honest with you.
You know little light stuff like that. Now I know what some of you are thinking why haven't you made a move. Well to be honest she's a little conservative for my taste. Don't get me wrong she's very cute and well put together. But she comes across as a little inexperience if you know what I mean.
So anyways one day I decided to ask her for her number (that was a mistake I should ask her out on a date first). After giving her ice breaker text that day I decide to ask her out over text 2 days later. She didn't reply. I wasn't too upset because like I said a little bit too conservative for my taste but I just thought I give it a try.
About a month or two later she texts me to wish me happy Birthday (which is weird to me she's not on social media I don't know how she knows unless I told her but who the hell remember after so long). Text a little bit and that was it.
Cut to yesterday she texts me just to see what up. So I'm thinking she must be interested. So doing our text conversation I tried to ask her out again. I asked her if she's free this week. At first she dodged the question. Then later she said that should be available while August/ September when everything calms down a little bit and asked if I had any plans on August/September I said not yet . Then I asked do you have any plans on August/September. She dodged the question again. And at that moment I was tired trying to escalate things she dodging the questions. So we just text like normal (with me doing most of the texting despite me trying to deep dive).
My question to you.
1. What do I make of this girl? Is she just texting just to be friends, Trying to figure me out, etc
2. If she is interested in me why not let me escalate the situation? This is something I'm doing wrong?
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