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A Lot of lessons to learn, a lot of revelations.
Becoming more of a natural.
I see the progress. So i will take baby steps.
I will take my time. I talk to some certain girl or a really badass dude and they stop and take the time to converse with me. And i feel like i am one of them. That they would be seen with me and even that they feel a small obligation to take the time to chat with me.
Right now I am in the midst of a sticking point where i can open beatifuls easily (and it can be much more intimidating to open “hot dudes, or naturals as they are called here” because i get that high school fat nerd feeling but not with the girls??
Because I have seen so many nice looking women with way average dudes) even get phone numbers (which lead to nowhere), and in the middle of the conversation the girl or the other person will be waiting for me to continue the conversation, or lead somewhere and I have no idea what to do to continue the conversation but i know that they are leaving that door open to me for those moments.
I feel my initial intention is to just talk and chat but then that original energy in the conversation dies and i need a new place to go after the original open and such. Considering that now i am getting more charismatic and charming or confident apparently because people are starting to stick around more and see where i am going to take interactions.
You see, I want to become the type of guy who hangs out with people for a living. And people are like how does he even make money all he does is hang out with friends and does yoga and goes to parties.
And go to the batting cages with the guys type thing.
Insights??
A Lot of lessons to learn, a lot of revelations.
Becoming more of a natural.
I see the progress. So i will take baby steps.
I will take my time. I talk to some certain girl or a really badass dude and they stop and take the time to converse with me. And i feel like i am one of them. That they would be seen with me and even that they feel a small obligation to take the time to chat with me.
Right now I am in the midst of a sticking point where i can open beatifuls easily (and it can be much more intimidating to open “hot dudes, or naturals as they are called here” because i get that high school fat nerd feeling but not with the girls??
Because I have seen so many nice looking women with way average dudes) even get phone numbers (which lead to nowhere), and in the middle of the conversation the girl or the other person will be waiting for me to continue the conversation, or lead somewhere and I have no idea what to do to continue the conversation but i know that they are leaving that door open to me for those moments.
I feel my initial intention is to just talk and chat but then that original energy in the conversation dies and i need a new place to go after the original open and such. Considering that now i am getting more charismatic and charming or confident apparently because people are starting to stick around more and see where i am going to take interactions.
You see, I want to become the type of guy who hangs out with people for a living. And people are like how does he even make money all he does is hang out with friends and does yoga and goes to parties.
And go to the batting cages with the guys type thing.
Insights??
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