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Over the past couple of years, this is a topic that has interested me and one I have learned to get more and more of an understanding of. I mean it's pretty obvious what these kinds of women are like in a school setting and doing during those years but as they age, it becomes more nuanced. So what I wanted to personally do was share some of my findings here over the past few years in hooking up with some of these girls and during some points in life, being a part of their world.
High school -> The popular girl, captain of the cheerleading squad, cheerleader, or just whatever is defined as "cool" in that setting. Often traveling to a fancy location on their parents' dime and getting into partying at the age of 15 or so. Here in NYC, they, unfortunately, find their way into some nightclubs and popular bars. End up picking a college that is at least somewhat prestigious but has a really good party scene (Arizona St or Arizona, Alabama, Ole Miss, a state flagship that is a good party school, or a big state school with relaxed admission standards). If she is bright, she'll go to a prestigious school that still has a good party scene but is not exactly an Ivy (USC and Syracuse come to mind).
College -> At least in the US, almost always in a sorority. Goal becomes to get a bid for the top sorority on campus and in those years party with athletes, fraternities that are high status, and a celebrity when possible. At some point in their junior year, usually the summer they become a senior, intern in a major city at a nice company. For all of my fellow New Yorkers, this means intern season baby! I remember taking home a girl that was a sorority girl at Alabama interning in NYC, she was an Alpha Phi.
After college (early to about late twenties):
Now this is where it got very very tricky for me personally. The world will have you convinced these types of things do not matter in the real world, fact of the matter is they really do. Rarely do these kinds of girls grow out of their image-conscious lifestyle, what happens is that it just changes.
1. Will usually move to a local big city or a major city if they can.
2. Will try to stick with old college friends and go out with them.
3. Will often explore the trendiest nightclubs in town and in NYC, the trendiest rooftop.
4. Will usually work in Advertising, Sales, Marketing, or something very outward-facing. Some might do bartending for a couple years before moving on.
5. Will usually live in select parts of a major city.
6. Often end up "settling down" more into their late 20s these days.
High school -> The popular girl, captain of the cheerleading squad, cheerleader, or just whatever is defined as "cool" in that setting. Often traveling to a fancy location on their parents' dime and getting into partying at the age of 15 or so. Here in NYC, they, unfortunately, find their way into some nightclubs and popular bars. End up picking a college that is at least somewhat prestigious but has a really good party scene (Arizona St or Arizona, Alabama, Ole Miss, a state flagship that is a good party school, or a big state school with relaxed admission standards). If she is bright, she'll go to a prestigious school that still has a good party scene but is not exactly an Ivy (USC and Syracuse come to mind).
College -> At least in the US, almost always in a sorority. Goal becomes to get a bid for the top sorority on campus and in those years party with athletes, fraternities that are high status, and a celebrity when possible. At some point in their junior year, usually the summer they become a senior, intern in a major city at a nice company. For all of my fellow New Yorkers, this means intern season baby! I remember taking home a girl that was a sorority girl at Alabama interning in NYC, she was an Alpha Phi.
After college (early to about late twenties):
Now this is where it got very very tricky for me personally. The world will have you convinced these types of things do not matter in the real world, fact of the matter is they really do. Rarely do these kinds of girls grow out of their image-conscious lifestyle, what happens is that it just changes.
1. Will usually move to a local big city or a major city if they can.
2. Will try to stick with old college friends and go out with them.
3. Will often explore the trendiest nightclubs in town and in NYC, the trendiest rooftop.
4. Will usually work in Advertising, Sales, Marketing, or something very outward-facing. Some might do bartending for a couple years before moving on.
5. Will usually live in select parts of a major city.
6. Often end up "settling down" more into their late 20s these days.
