Alright guys, embarrassing to admit, but I'm facing the facts. I'm not super dominant in the bedroom. I take what I want, pin girls down, light chocking & spanking - but if I had it my way things would be more sensual, and that's actually the stuff that typically turns me on. Sometimes at the start we even have to slow it down because I just don't get aroused for some reason doing those things.
Even in the middle at times I am extremely dominant I typically start to lose my erection - it's almost like I feel pressure to be someone I'm not (or not yet) and I lose my mental state.
Anyone else ever experience this?
Any tips to overcome this?
One of the girls I am seeing is into BDSM (lets face it most girls in general) are into being dominated. Leaving scratches/bruises, throwing her around, rough sex.
I seem to really suck at it, as it just isn't naturally my temperament.
So any tips or advice on improving this and giving this girl (as well as others) the time of their life/fulfill their fantasies is much appreciated too. I'm sure once I'm used to it I'll be able to enjoy myself too.
Even in the middle at times I am extremely dominant I typically start to lose my erection - it's almost like I feel pressure to be someone I'm not (or not yet) and I lose my mental state.
Anyone else ever experience this?
Any tips to overcome this?
One of the girls I am seeing is into BDSM (lets face it most girls in general) are into being dominated. Leaving scratches/bruises, throwing her around, rough sex.
I seem to really suck at it, as it just isn't naturally my temperament.
So any tips or advice on improving this and giving this girl (as well as others) the time of their life/fulfill their fantasies is much appreciated too. I'm sure once I'm used to it I'll be able to enjoy myself too.
