Drama and got stood up

[ramshead]

Me and this girl hace been going out for a while. We go out 1 or 2 times a week. She has already introduced me to some of her friends, so it seems its starting to get serious. I havent told her I love you. and we have been going out for 3 months. The reason i say that is that last friday after we had sex she Said I l....ike you, but it almost came out as an I love you from her. And joked around with her and told her you were going to say something else and she turned red.

So 2 days later on Sunday. I was on an amousement park with some friends. We drank beer on the way there. When I got their she texted me.

Her - Wyd
Me - Jusr got here at this amusement park all drunk, lol
Her- Tfti
Me - No Problem - I meant it as a bad boy humor
Her - Thats not what you say every friday when you ask me out.
Me - Lol stop fucking around ill invite you next time ------ this comment could be the reason why she stood me up later.
Her - There wont be a next time

I left it that and didnt text her until the next day in the afternoon.

Me - You no I was joking
Her - About what
Me - My last comment

She then said something I told her when she made a childish remark to me and was being rude to me, so I gave her the silent treatment for 4 days and acted like nothing happend. When she apoligized to me.

Her - I dont no what your talking about
Me - So your not angry
Her - No
Me - so we are cool
Her - Yes --- with a smiley emoji

So yesterday on friday around lunch time I texted if she wanted to go out for some drinks.

Her - Yes id lovee to
Me - Ok ill pic you up at 9
Her - Ok

So l texted her I was on my way like I always do. And she sometime replies or not. Yesterday she didnt. So when I got to her house I tcalled her and she didnt pick up so texted im here. With no reply after 20 min waiting I called with no answer. So I left. An hour later she blasted with texts.
Her - OMG!!!!
Her - I hust Woke up from my nap
Her - (My Name) Im so sorry i had put my alarm and I didnt here it.
Her - she replied with 3 emojies with the girl with her hand over her forhead.

Which I havent replied to.

She could be saying the truth or shes trying to teach me a leasson but im not sure which. I dont no weather
to give her the silent treatment again and show her its not cool and wont stand up for childish behavior Or
Text her with a “Its not a big deal it was only drinks”

Any advice from any guys on how I should handle this. She could be saying the truth or shes teaching me a lesson or testing me.

 

[ramshead]

So I texted her around 3:30
Me - it’s not a big deal. We were only getting drinks
Her - next week
Me - cool

So then she called me and apologized and we talked a little and she then said to call her later and I told her to call me daddy and she did in a sexy tone. And then she said she was wet and if I can stop by tonight. I guess I handle it perfectly. But still need advice from the pros I think I fucked up im my texting. How could I have handled it with out insulting her but still seem like I didn’t give a shit

 

[ramshead]

Do mean cussing at them I’m always cussing at them in their presence and they call me asshole. But I was drunk so I cussed at her through text.

 

[ironore]

Do mean cussing at them I’m always cussing at them in their presence and they call me asshole. But I was drunk so I cussed at her through text.

Try to reach the point where a girl cannot affect you emotionally. When she can control your emotions you come across as weak. When she cannot control your emotions you come across as strong. When you call her out do it from a position of strength not anger/hurt/weakness. Calmly and without anger make it known that you are not happy with whatever you are calling her out about. Then drop it.

I know, easier said than done. But this is something that we all need to work on.