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Hello Guys.
1. Quick intro
Ah what the actual fuck just happened. I need ur advice on how to tackle this monster of disrespect that I just got thrown at and how to deal with it in the future. Im unsure how to react and since we (me and the girl) communicate fairly often, I will need to be fast to decide a proper reaction. To give u a clear insight I will structure this post in:
1. Quick intro
2.My timeline with her
3.Complete scenario
4.Recap
5.Coming interaction
2. My timeline with her:
So this girl was actually my first lay since I started seduction and is somewhat favorite of my casuals till now. We met in a club. Because her group was invited to another club and the bouncer didn't let us in the next club with them we exchanged contacts. Met another time in a bar more or less by accident, back to my place, LMR kicked a bit and she was a bit sick so no sex. Met again in club on purpose, took her home, great, really great sex. Met her another time even better sex and greater time. Till now no disrespect. Regular, but not too much texting. I have an eye on it. I am also seeing two other girls so there is no neediness really. At least from my perspective I couldn't tell. But now to the hard part. I have to add that she is a bit icy. Melts completely when being sexual but otherwise rather distracted, bored, no EC behavior. I already asked about this here but there was no clear answer. I did a bit of push pull, calling her BS out in a funny way etc. all decent progress. Now to the fucking bs..
3. Complete Scenario
We wanted to meet in a club again. She brought her (girl) friend she was with and wanted to meet. She sends text she wants to be there in the club in half an hour. 1 hour later no message. Walk into her and her female friend accidentally on the dancefloor, more than half an hour late no text: "Oops I forgot. But I knew we was gonna see us anyhow." Did some dancing with her, icy behavior. Melted when I was really sexually aggressive with her. Got her really warmed up then. Smiling, Giggling, EC, Body lamguage... After some time we go outside. My friend talks to her friend and we make out in the corner. Really good sexual talk. She can't pull back to me today she is SiCk again (has some underlying health issues but I think I call BS there today
. Was just too convenient with both of us being driver.. So we standing there and she holds my hand.
A guy walks past, she spots him, immediately actively pushed my hand away. Not just letting go. I'm talking about it pushing away. Walks straight up to him with no word to me and let's me stand there alone. Talks to him. He registers me, asks if she's here with me and she says "No we just met". They continue few words, he leaves her she comes back to me. Right now I am unsure if they might even have exchanged contacts. I was changing EC with my homeboy on what tf is going on..
I am... to be honest.. pretty flashed and try to build an adequate response that is seducer worthy. I am unsure. My energy shifted to cold completely. I go distance no touchy touchy like before and always say: "hmmm" to what she says. she talks and feels the cold vibe. I think okay: she can do whatever she wants if shes alone fuck everybody she wants I do not care, we are not in a monogamous thing, but, being with me, saying that and doing that in front of me is just fucking disrespectful.
But i thought going ice ice cold might be a too emotional reaction.. and throw a I do not give a fuck vibe gestures and verbals in. So I was partly cold and partly acting like I didn't care. She senses the sudden coldness and says: oh are u angry? Or somewhat like that.
I answer because I kind of register this as an direct disrespect in a very calm manner:
"What u just did was really disrespectful", "What exactly", "the arm, the acting like u don't know me wow: I just met him","I didn't say I just met him.", "Yes u did, I heard it." , "oh I didn't realize that." [...] Forgot that part, "Yea I just don't like to be disrespected."
The convo turns warmer again because I thoughg I made it clear enough I don't like being disrespected and if I react too overly she might sense emotional attachment. We make plans to fuck in the next days, be a bit sexual again and she wants to leave. She says she wants to be brought to her car by her female friend and so on and makes hints that I can walk her to the car. Yea no bitch no fucking way. I do not pick up on those hints let her kiss me one more time, slap her on the ass and sent her home.
4.Recap
I am unsure how I should have reacted: 1. Completely furios on the disrespect "Go fyourself X. How disrespectful. You can go f off." , or I think the better option: go straight for another girl and when she turns back to me after that talk with the guy I am gone to another woman. In that moment everything just went too fast. I was trying to go directly for other woman after they left but I grew angrier by having time to reflect on it and rather left and reflect more on what to do now. I am also not mad anyhow to her being with different guys and so on whatever when I am not there, we are casual, but when we meet and she does this, it is from my perspective complety disrespect.
5.Coming interaction
But I could be complete wrong. That's why I ask for ur guys opinion. How can I change the dynamic right there.. should I do nothing, call her out on it, on text? In person? Ignore her completely? Please tell me. "Hey, go fuck urself, that was so disrespectful.", ignore her a few days.. or not? I will go link up with my other ones now to free my head from this. Anyhow. I just want to restore her respect for me and fuck her like she never been fucked before.
Thank u guys so much u are amazing.
S.O.
1. Quick intro
Ah what the actual fuck just happened. I need ur advice on how to tackle this monster of disrespect that I just got thrown at and how to deal with it in the future. Im unsure how to react and since we (me and the girl) communicate fairly often, I will need to be fast to decide a proper reaction. To give u a clear insight I will structure this post in:
1. Quick intro
2.My timeline with her
3.Complete scenario
4.Recap
5.Coming interaction
2. My timeline with her:
So this girl was actually my first lay since I started seduction and is somewhat favorite of my casuals till now. We met in a club. Because her group was invited to another club and the bouncer didn't let us in the next club with them we exchanged contacts. Met another time in a bar more or less by accident, back to my place, LMR kicked a bit and she was a bit sick so no sex. Met again in club on purpose, took her home, great, really great sex. Met her another time even better sex and greater time. Till now no disrespect. Regular, but not too much texting. I have an eye on it. I am also seeing two other girls so there is no neediness really. At least from my perspective I couldn't tell. But now to the hard part. I have to add that she is a bit icy. Melts completely when being sexual but otherwise rather distracted, bored, no EC behavior. I already asked about this here but there was no clear answer. I did a bit of push pull, calling her BS out in a funny way etc. all decent progress. Now to the fucking bs..
3. Complete Scenario
We wanted to meet in a club again. She brought her (girl) friend she was with and wanted to meet. She sends text she wants to be there in the club in half an hour. 1 hour later no message. Walk into her and her female friend accidentally on the dancefloor, more than half an hour late no text: "Oops I forgot. But I knew we was gonna see us anyhow." Did some dancing with her, icy behavior. Melted when I was really sexually aggressive with her. Got her really warmed up then. Smiling, Giggling, EC, Body lamguage... After some time we go outside. My friend talks to her friend and we make out in the corner. Really good sexual talk. She can't pull back to me today she is SiCk again (has some underlying health issues but I think I call BS there today
. Was just too convenient with both of us being driver.. So we standing there and she holds my hand.A guy walks past, she spots him, immediately actively pushed my hand away. Not just letting go. I'm talking about it pushing away. Walks straight up to him with no word to me and let's me stand there alone. Talks to him. He registers me, asks if she's here with me and she says "No we just met". They continue few words, he leaves her she comes back to me. Right now I am unsure if they might even have exchanged contacts. I was changing EC with my homeboy on what tf is going on..
I am... to be honest.. pretty flashed and try to build an adequate response that is seducer worthy. I am unsure. My energy shifted to cold completely. I go distance no touchy touchy like before and always say: "hmmm" to what she says. she talks and feels the cold vibe. I think okay: she can do whatever she wants if shes alone fuck everybody she wants I do not care, we are not in a monogamous thing, but, being with me, saying that and doing that in front of me is just fucking disrespectful.
But i thought going ice ice cold might be a too emotional reaction.. and throw a I do not give a fuck vibe gestures and verbals in. So I was partly cold and partly acting like I didn't care. She senses the sudden coldness and says: oh are u angry? Or somewhat like that.
I answer because I kind of register this as an direct disrespect in a very calm manner:
"What u just did was really disrespectful", "What exactly", "the arm, the acting like u don't know me wow: I just met him","I didn't say I just met him.", "Yes u did, I heard it." , "oh I didn't realize that." [...] Forgot that part, "Yea I just don't like to be disrespected."
The convo turns warmer again because I thoughg I made it clear enough I don't like being disrespected and if I react too overly she might sense emotional attachment. We make plans to fuck in the next days, be a bit sexual again and she wants to leave. She says she wants to be brought to her car by her female friend and so on and makes hints that I can walk her to the car. Yea no bitch no fucking way. I do not pick up on those hints let her kiss me one more time, slap her on the ass and sent her home.
4.Recap
I am unsure how I should have reacted: 1. Completely furios on the disrespect "Go fyourself X. How disrespectful. You can go f off." , or I think the better option: go straight for another girl and when she turns back to me after that talk with the guy I am gone to another woman. In that moment everything just went too fast. I was trying to go directly for other woman after they left but I grew angrier by having time to reflect on it and rather left and reflect more on what to do now. I am also not mad anyhow to her being with different guys and so on whatever when I am not there, we are casual, but when we meet and she does this, it is from my perspective complety disrespect.
5.Coming interaction
But I could be complete wrong. That's why I ask for ur guys opinion. How can I change the dynamic right there.. should I do nothing, call her out on it, on text? In person? Ignore her completely? Please tell me. "Hey, go fuck urself, that was so disrespectful.", ignore her a few days.. or not? I will go link up with my other ones now to free my head from this. Anyhow. I just want to restore her respect for me and fuck her like she never been fucked before.
Thank u guys so much u are amazing.
S.O.
