Emotionally Intense Sex vs Stoic Animalistic Sex. What's Better?

[Cacc]

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Which have you found works best with girls. As in, which style gets a girl more attached to you, and thinks of you as more dominant.

thoughts?

By "emotionally intense" I mean having the girl feel incredibly desired by you and you're fucking with so much passion and lust.

The othet style I mean more of being very stoic and detached. Treating her like an object abd nothing more. No lovey dovey emotions. No bunch of kisses, etc. Hard, rough sex.

Which have u found works best? To me, the latter seems better.

 

[Lover]

Hmm. For girls I'm seeing regularly, my style is a mix of both. I use the emotionally intense style for foreplay and the beginning of intercourse. Pleasuring all her body with my hands and tongue, maybe give oral to her if I feel like it. And during intercourse, start with a slow rhythm and gradually build up the intensity. As we get more into it, she already feels my desire for her, and I can allow to be more animalistic and focus more on my own pleasure as well. Fuck her the way I want to, slap her ass here and there, twist her nipples harder than I would in foreplay, ordering her around without any resistance.

With some girls, I have done the same when I had sex with them for the first time, and honestly, with the exception of one, it's probably been overkill to do so. If I were to change anything about that, it would be to skip a lot of the emotionally intense and go more animalistic with a new girl. The tension is skyhigh already (especially if it's first date sex, and you can't wait to tear each other's clothes of). Then later, when she is becoming familiar with me and the sex, I'd do the more mixed style.

I wouldn't know if it differs for ONS's and booty calls since I haven't had any of those types of sex. My guess is though that the sex should be more animalistic when the relationship is more casual.

 

[Cacc]

Interesting perspective Ajay. What you said is what I feel is true aswell.

Does effort and investment play a part in sex aswell? Being more passionate is obviously more effort. And I feel that with new girls, unless you both like each other, being too passionate can seem incongruent and maybe make you too attainable. Just guessing tho.

Other's perspective on this would be good.

 

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