Endgame for a playboy, age, impact of game on career/future, and my dilemma.

Oh Pry

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Chase's recent posts have kind of hit a cord with me and whenever we talk about age, endgame, and being a player it usually resonates a lot with me. I have a dilemma that I have talked to guys like Hue, Franco, and various others on this sub about for actually years now and don't even know where to start with it. The dilemma revolves around not just getting laid but being involved in the hedonistic life of partying with hot girls, socializing with hot party girls, being able to show up to events with hot girls and making cool friends. Getting laid as a result of my lifestyle and having a lifestyle where I am introduced to party girls and partying which I never really got out of my system.

I know the work that will get me this is working in nightlife and it's something I've been wanting to do for a very long time but then there is the opportunity cost.

Right now my life is not bad at all. I make good money, I can get laid with decent looking girls thanks to dating apps and a strong online game, and I have a handful of friends I can go out with. The lack of satisfaction for me is in the fact that I do not feel like I am going "hard", I don't have status and power in the nightlife scene that I want, and I am not living that hedonistic party life to the level I crave.

On one hand, I can continue to put in these next few years to set myself up for wealth in my 30s. I am ultimately doing what I am doing so when I get to my 30s, I have enough money in the bank to actually live the life I want. That life would be bartending at a nightclub, drowning in the nightlife scene, fucking loose party girls, and really being that kind of guy while also making money doing it. In other words as close to Dan Bilzerian as possible, he might be the only older guy out there with a player life worth living.

The problem I run into is if I do that right now, I effectively throw away a promising career that can set me up for so much money in the future. I wonder if it is worth it.

Then on the other side, I wonder if the opportunity to live the life I want will still be around in my 30s. Will I be too old to fit in with the attractive people in those scenes? Will I be able to get a job at a nice night club? Will I be able to live a lifestyle centered solely around hedonism and pussy?

Looking at how many men age out of the game discourages me even further and makes me want to lean towards the former, walking away from a good load of money to get in on the hedonism life before it is too late.

For the first time in my life, I have come across something that makes me so lost that I do not even know where to begin.
 

ZacAdam

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Then build an online business.

It's easy to earn 10k once you get on momentum, and then after that, just maintain it. Then party all you want. I just started the internet lifestyle momentum.

I have a continuity of someone paying me 1k per month. That's per client. And the rest is all on other services, jobs that i am doing.

I'm going to build that momentum.

Zac
 

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Black and white thinking.

You can build your career in the week and and do nightgame in the weekends far into your 30s, probably even 40s. I'm soon to be 37 and I still get better at nightgame.

Your question is also rather weird. You get laid from ONLINE game but you are sure you want a CAREER in what is essentially a scaled up version of night game?

What about getting laid regularly from night game or up-scale social circle before planning this, if you aren't yet?

Mentality here is also a bit reactive. You want to base your career on access to hot chics? I don't deny this may work but don't be surprised if you are royally sick of that lifestyle at some point. A lot of hedonists end up exactly like that.

Screwing hot party chics can be done in other ways than working in night life.

I for my own sake would get really sick of going out more than 2x pr week at this point.

Also I suspect your pessimism about getting hired for nightlife jobs at older age is a bit exaggerated.
 

Oh Pry

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There are many reasons I want to work in nightlife but yeah, night game on roids plays a role as well as having power and status in that scene.
 

onespiritualpitcher

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Have you seen Dan Bilzerian's interview with London Real on YT?

He mentions how pussy and seeking pleasure is a black hole. An enjoyable one for a while sure, but a black hole nonetheless. And then you get used to the best of everything and it still doesn't make you happy.

Discover your hero's journey instead. The gift you can give to the world. The path which will force you to grow/self-actualize the most. Then the specifics, like location, career path, etc., will take care of themselves.
 

Oh Pry

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Have you seen Dan Bilzerian's interview with London Real on YT?

He mentions how pussy and seeking pleasure is a black hole. An enjoyable one for a while sure, but a black hole nonetheless. And then you get used to the best of everything and it still doesn't make you happy.

Discover your hero's journey instead. The gift you can give to the world. The path which will force you to grow/self-actualize the most. Then the specifics, like location, career path, etc., will take care of themselves.
Dear god this hero journey stuff is pure utter garbage and will be for me. I hope this place does not turn into some incel forum or motivational speaker 101 garbage shit.

HAAAYYYY GO ON a fuckin hero journey coding buddy! Have fun jerking off in the mean time or dating whales.

Fuck the hero journey, welcome to the real world.

Fuck being some coping faggot who clings to this MGTOW life purpose hero journey shit, seriously. Lots of pussy and fine pussy or GTFO lol.

No insult to you btw bro.
 

onespiritualpitcher

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Dear god this hero journey stuff is pure utter garbage and will be for me. I hope this place does not turn into some incel forum or motivational speaker 101 garbage shit.

HAAAYYYY GO ON a fuckin hero journey coding buddy! Have fun jerking off in the mean time or dating whales.

Fuck the hero journey, welcome to the real world.

Fuck being some coping faggot who clings to this MGTOW life purpose hero journey shit, seriously. Lots of pussy and fine pussy or GTFO lol.

No insult to you btw bro.

Bruh...a mind is like a parachute ;) and yours ain‘t opening right now.

I’m definitely with you on having an abundance of quality pussy in one’s life though.

Lol @ jerking off and dating whales (can we get a whale emoji?) I mention in my journal here about how I’m on a noFAP/noPorn streak, which has been a huge sticking point in my game. Your words give me more motivation to stay on it. Raising those T-levels and harnessing my sexual energy :D

Maybe you can get inspiration from what Hector and other veterans have done in this thread.

I’m not as far on this seduction journey as other members here, but I believe I have a bit of wisdom and a perspective worth sharing that other guys could benefit from. Beyond learning from other dudes, being pushed to take action to have an abundance of quality pussy in my life, and holding myself accountable, that’s why I’m here.

But actually watch the Dan Bilzerian video...I’m only posting these links because you mentioned him directly in your OP.

Here‘s a shorter clip where he mentions how he’d rather build something WIN/WIN and that’s become his purpose.


Then in this clip he talks about how money can make it harder to be happy. Most of the stuff that makes him happy is stuff that doesn’t require lots of money or women.

 

naturalmikey

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how are you aging? if you're aging well and have all your hair you'll likely look good until your late forties or when you start losing your hair, whichever comes first.
 

TheHustler

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I think you are imagining the difficulties you might have in night game at a older age as most men do. I am 47 and the amount of interested chicks is not declining. I definitely think you could still do night game at that age.

Although like the others above have stated you may not still want to game that much. Things get old and you might not enjoy it enough after all those years to do it THAT MUCH.

I would go game on the weekends. Although if you are really passionate about game that might not be the case for you. I would only do it if you think you are still gonna be very passionate after all these years at game.
 
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