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Just wanted to share with you guys something I picked up from one of the RSD coaches way back in 2010 or so. Been using it ever since.
Eye contact gambit
If you are talking to a girl who is giving you some eye contact and you want to really escalate it up, accuse her of being shy and not looking you in the eyes.
I’ll note here that this doesn’t work well on actual shy girls who aren’t able to look you in the eyes. Don’t use this on these girls.
You: “you’re such a dork. You can’t even look me in the eyes when you’re talking to me!”
her: “what?! Yes I am!” (Almost always get some variation of this)
you: “Nah your doing that thing shy girls do where your looking at my nose or forehead or something!” (Say it playfully)
her: “no im not!”
you: (big smirk) bet!
Then just shut up and look her right into her eyes and think the dirtiest and sexiest thoughts about her while doing it.
the more she wants to “win” the longer she will look back into your eyes.
If you do it right the tension will skyrocket and she won’t be able to go long before giggling and breaking it.
To take it a step further you can grab both of her hands after saying “bet” and hold them while doing it.
If she seems comfortable enough with that you should also keep subtly moving in closer to her while holding her hands and eye contact.
Don’t be surprised if it leads to a kiss.
The better your timing and set up the better this will work.
Eye contact gambit
If you are talking to a girl who is giving you some eye contact and you want to really escalate it up, accuse her of being shy and not looking you in the eyes.
I’ll note here that this doesn’t work well on actual shy girls who aren’t able to look you in the eyes. Don’t use this on these girls.
You: “you’re such a dork. You can’t even look me in the eyes when you’re talking to me!”
her: “what?! Yes I am!” (Almost always get some variation of this)
you: “Nah your doing that thing shy girls do where your looking at my nose or forehead or something!” (Say it playfully)
her: “no im not!”
you: (big smirk) bet!
Then just shut up and look her right into her eyes and think the dirtiest and sexiest thoughts about her while doing it.
the more she wants to “win” the longer she will look back into your eyes.
If you do it right the tension will skyrocket and she won’t be able to go long before giggling and breaking it.
To take it a step further you can grab both of her hands after saying “bet” and hold them while doing it.
If she seems comfortable enough with that you should also keep subtly moving in closer to her while holding her hands and eye contact.
Don’t be surprised if it leads to a kiss.
The better your timing and set up the better this will work.
