1. Food/drink seems more normal but tbh I usually don't want to get food or drink, I'd rather go on a walk and mosey on close to my apartment and then ask her to come there. What do you think? Is there a way to get going on a walk sound normal in your phrasing- how would you phrase it?
Trying to get a girl (grad student) to go on a walk with me around campus and not just meet in her office on campus.
2. And what would you say to ask her to come with you into your dorm/apartment room that is very nearby her office on campus?
Say you're a student at the university and she is a grad student (with her own office) at the university.
3. Say you worked under her in her lab before some years ago. How would you word your invite email? How would you word it if you wanted to make it clear you didn't want a platonic meeting? Or is that a bad idea because it puts too much pressure/has more risk of autorejection?
I'm not blind to the fact that probably nothing will happen given the history. Still, if you were going to do this after just graduating, I don't see any risk or consequence of doing this
Trying to get a girl (grad student) to go on a walk with me around campus and not just meet in her office on campus.
2. And what would you say to ask her to come with you into your dorm/apartment room that is very nearby her office on campus?
Say you're a student at the university and she is a grad student (with her own office) at the university.
3. Say you worked under her in her lab before some years ago. How would you word your invite email? How would you word it if you wanted to make it clear you didn't want a platonic meeting? Or is that a bad idea because it puts too much pressure/has more risk of autorejection?
I'm not blind to the fact that probably nothing will happen given the history. Still, if you were going to do this after just graduating, I don't see any risk or consequence of doing this
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