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Should be possible, but definitely with consequences.
Also do you mean as preselection?
Or literally as a wingwoman? (which she'd basically have to know what was going on and be down for)
Just last week I used my old FWB (who I'm confident could still fuck, if I wanted to - we're in the same research lab) as preselection, and now I've got a girl in my class in the works (got compliance + IOI's). The first day of class I flirted with her for the whole class to see (we were the only people talking in the class, mostly), second day I opened my girl of interest, and third day I got the girl's number + compliance.
On the third day of class my FB saw and heard me open the girl of interest (and she knows my game, I've ran it on her for christ's sake), and was bitchy as fuck with me later that day during the beginning of our volunteer shift. I mostly turned her around by the end - but it's not crazy to assume that she was pissed at me for showing this new girl interest and not her.
I feel like with preselection/social proof it's totally doable, so long as you keep your attainability with your FB in check, but with having her as a wingwoman, that either require a very clear and accepted understanding of polygamy or else jealousy would just grow out of control.
Like during the beginning of the shift with my FB (when she was pissed), she actually told me to approach a girl who was looking at me. It was clearly a nudge at me opening the girl from class. I could feel the jealousy on her - and so I flirted with her and qualified her during appropriate times (never to the point of full on gaming her) because even though I don't want a sexual relationship with her anymore I still care about her.
Now if you're literally asking like a full on wingwoman (throws sexual / chase frames in conversation with you and other girls) you would definitely need a girl who's totally cool with an open relationship, but like 90% of girls that enjoy fucking you aren't gonna want you fucking other girls who could potentially steal your commitment and time away from them.
Cool topic though! My situation is an old FB is slightly skewed, but I'm interested to see what others might have to say on the subject.
Hue
Also do you mean as preselection?
Or literally as a wingwoman? (which she'd basically have to know what was going on and be down for)
Just last week I used my old FWB (who I'm confident could still fuck, if I wanted to - we're in the same research lab) as preselection, and now I've got a girl in my class in the works (got compliance + IOI's). The first day of class I flirted with her for the whole class to see (we were the only people talking in the class, mostly), second day I opened my girl of interest, and third day I got the girl's number + compliance.
On the third day of class my FB saw and heard me open the girl of interest (and she knows my game, I've ran it on her for christ's sake), and was bitchy as fuck with me later that day during the beginning of our volunteer shift. I mostly turned her around by the end - but it's not crazy to assume that she was pissed at me for showing this new girl interest and not her.
I feel like with preselection/social proof it's totally doable, so long as you keep your attainability with your FB in check, but with having her as a wingwoman, that either require a very clear and accepted understanding of polygamy or else jealousy would just grow out of control.
Like during the beginning of the shift with my FB (when she was pissed), she actually told me to approach a girl who was looking at me. It was clearly a nudge at me opening the girl from class. I could feel the jealousy on her - and so I flirted with her and qualified her during appropriate times (never to the point of full on gaming her) because even though I don't want a sexual relationship with her anymore I still care about her.
Now if you're literally asking like a full on wingwoman (throws sexual / chase frames in conversation with you and other girls) you would definitely need a girl who's totally cool with an open relationship, but like 90% of girls that enjoy fucking you aren't gonna want you fucking other girls who could potentially steal your commitment and time away from them.
Cool topic though! My situation is an old FB is slightly skewed, but I'm interested to see what others might have to say on the subject.
Hue
That's a good point. I think I just wanted to not be out alone, as opposed to her putting in chase frames etc so it was probably more preselection.
I had an idea, do the fwb thing on a week night, and then on fri or sat night do the preselection thing.
I have only made out with this woman a bit, on date 1 from online, have not slept with her but she said she could handle some fun.
What's the etiquette though. Should I sleep with her a few times first before even attempting to head out with her?
Do I not get too physical with her when I'm out, do I only take phone numbers when I'm out with her as opposed to taking another woman home in front of her?
Possible example but only made out, not fwb or anything at the time.
I did make out with another woman couple years ago, she may not have been up for non monogamy. Met her again may have mentioned help getting over shyness, met in a shopping center,and went to a few shops she browsed and I approached. However she went quiet after that. She said "I approached everything that moved" and was in a a bit of shock. I missed heaps of sets did not approach everything literally lol, I think she maybe took offense that I did so much approaching that day? I dunno. But she also met a guy after that as well, so that may have played a role. But the point is, after that, she was only willing to meet for coffee as friends, she didn't want to go into shops with me and she would browse her own section and I go off and approach. She didn't want to do that again, so maybe that particular woman liked me too much, or she moved on and had no interest in helping. But then why still offer meet for coffee as friends but not do the shops thing and have me approach?
I had an idea, do the fwb thing on a week night, and then on fri or sat night do the preselection thing.
I have only made out with this woman a bit, on date 1 from online, have not slept with her but she said she could handle some fun.
What's the etiquette though. Should I sleep with her a few times first before even attempting to head out with her?
Do I not get too physical with her when I'm out, do I only take phone numbers when I'm out with her as opposed to taking another woman home in front of her?
Possible example but only made out, not fwb or anything at the time.
I did make out with another woman couple years ago, she may not have been up for non monogamy. Met her again may have mentioned help getting over shyness, met in a shopping center,and went to a few shops she browsed and I approached. However she went quiet after that. She said "I approached everything that moved" and was in a a bit of shock. I missed heaps of sets did not approach everything literally lol, I think she maybe took offense that I did so much approaching that day? I dunno. But she also met a guy after that as well, so that may have played a role. But the point is, after that, she was only willing to meet for coffee as friends, she didn't want to go into shops with me and she would browse her own section and I go off and approach. She didn't want to do that again, so maybe that particular woman liked me too much, or she moved on and had no interest in helping. But then why still offer meet for coffee as friends but not do the shops thing and have me approach?