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Getting Motivation Again.

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Cro-Magnon Man
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I've been out of "the game" for a while, at least in terms of consciously trying to improve my game or utilize what I already know / can do. It's been years, to be honest. I've done the few occasional approaches since then whenever I see a cute girl and feel compelled to approach, they usually go well.

But how does one revamp their motivation? I've lost mine quite a bit. I've also had my heart broken twice in the past 2 years, and not to attractive girls or quality at all. One was an HB4 if I'm being generous. The second is an HB6 if I'm being generous. Both treated me like shit. It was pathetic tbh.

But I also lost motivation before these girls. I want to get back into doing consistent approaches and working on bettering my game. I have 25 lays. 2,000 cold approaches. Not a good ratio but I am not a natural by any means. I went from a virgin to this, I found the community with zero game.

I want to get much better, and never feel scarcity again or fall for a low quality girl, or become a pussy and get bothered when a girl replies slowly, or LITERALLY BEG a girl to not end things or ignore me or leave me. I've fallen far from when I was being consistent with learning game.

HOW DO I GET MY MOTIVATION BACK?? FEAR IS A FACTOR, NOT HAVING GOOD WINGS TOO, BUT A LOT OF GUYS DO NOT HAVE WINGS AND GO SOLO.
I WANT THIS. I NEED THIS. I HAVE UNTIL THE QUARANTINE ENDS TO GET MY MOTIVATION AND COURAGE BACK.
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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I've been studying game again and looking at my old FR's and LR's, and working on developing a stack, similar to my old stack which I'm reviewing, but I want to be much better. Hit 100 total lays without dipping below HB6. I'm at 25 lays and 31 years old. I threw away my youth studying and not even getting anywhere lol.

Been talking to Ricardus about mastery. Just looked him up, did not know he was still writing and posting! Sweet. Gonna go through all of his posts.

And been talking to Tank, on and off sporadically. I forget who else posts on here that I know outside of the forum.
 

Bismarck

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Hey man,

I don’t think Tank is the best role-model if you want to get good at this. As several people have pointed out, his mindsets are wrong, and he resists implementing the plentiful solid advice he’s been given by more successful guys.

Anyway, this thread of yours seems more like a diary, and I strongly recommend you journal your journey, as it will help you by making you accountable to yourself, as well as by helping you track your progress.

So, I’m going to move this over to Journals.
 

Velasco

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HOW DO I GET MY MOTIVATION BACK??
You don't need motivation. You just need a foolproof strategy to follow, that'll lead you to the result you desire (lay girls above 6s)

so...

Download the clip titled, "Bonus - San Diego Hotseat"

and watch from 0:00 - 17:30. (don't bother watching the rest).

For beyond the open, read this:

 

Water

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey man,

I don’t think Tank is the best role-model if you want to get good at this. As several people have pointed out, his mindsets are wrong, and he resists implementing the plentiful solid advice he’s been given by more successful guys.

Anyway, this thread of yours seems more like a diary, and I strongly recommend you journal your journey, as it will help you by making you accountable to yourself, as well as by helping you track your progress.

So, I’m going to move this over to Journals.
Hey um... This isn't a journal. This was a one time thread lol. Can you move it back? I have a journal already :p
 
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