- Joined
- Feb 27, 2014
- Messages
- 237
I've been out of "the game" for a while, at least in terms of consciously trying to improve my game or utilize what I already know / can do. It's been years, to be honest. I've done the few occasional approaches since then whenever I see a cute girl and feel compelled to approach, they usually go well.
But how does one revamp their motivation? I've lost mine quite a bit. I've also had my heart broken twice in the past 2 years, and not to attractive girls or quality at all. One was an HB4 if I'm being generous. The second is an HB6 if I'm being generous. Both treated me like shit. It was pathetic tbh.
But I also lost motivation before these girls. I want to get back into doing consistent approaches and working on bettering my game. I have 25 lays. 2,000 cold approaches. Not a good ratio but I am not a natural by any means. I went from a virgin to this, I found the community with zero game.
I want to get much better, and never feel scarcity again or fall for a low quality girl, or become a pussy and get bothered when a girl replies slowly, or LITERALLY BEG a girl to not end things or ignore me or leave me. I've fallen far from when I was being consistent with learning game.
HOW DO I GET MY MOTIVATION BACK?? FEAR IS A FACTOR, NOT HAVING GOOD WINGS TOO, BUT A LOT OF GUYS DO NOT HAVE WINGS AND GO SOLO.
I WANT THIS. I NEED THIS. I HAVE UNTIL THE QUARANTINE ENDS TO GET MY MOTIVATION AND COURAGE BACK.
But how does one revamp their motivation? I've lost mine quite a bit. I've also had my heart broken twice in the past 2 years, and not to attractive girls or quality at all. One was an HB4 if I'm being generous. The second is an HB6 if I'm being generous. Both treated me like shit. It was pathetic tbh.
But I also lost motivation before these girls. I want to get back into doing consistent approaches and working on bettering my game. I have 25 lays. 2,000 cold approaches. Not a good ratio but I am not a natural by any means. I went from a virgin to this, I found the community with zero game.
I want to get much better, and never feel scarcity again or fall for a low quality girl, or become a pussy and get bothered when a girl replies slowly, or LITERALLY BEG a girl to not end things or ignore me or leave me. I've fallen far from when I was being consistent with learning game.
HOW DO I GET MY MOTIVATION BACK?? FEAR IS A FACTOR, NOT HAVING GOOD WINGS TOO, BUT A LOT OF GUYS DO NOT HAVE WINGS AND GO SOLO.
I WANT THIS. I NEED THIS. I HAVE UNTIL THE QUARANTINE ENDS TO GET MY MOTIVATION AND COURAGE BACK.