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Shake&Bake

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They want absolutely nothing to do with me. They are always saying I'm way too young. Guess this a glaring myth that keeps popping up in the seduction community that milfs are easier. But they are not unless you are of the right age they want
 

naturalmikey

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They want absolutely nothing to do with me. They are always saying I'm way too young. Guess this a glaring myth that keeps popping up in the seduction community that milfs are easier. But they are not unless you are of the right age they want

they tend to be very superficial and in the age of online dating they can be. i remember when single moms knew they’re low value status. but now they attractive ones have access to young fit guys via dating apps. their need for validation from attractive men is certainly the highest because they get the least external validation. a young hot guy makes them feel like they’ve still got it.

generally speaking though the older a woman gets the more difficult she becomes. as her looks value she becomes bitter. this has gotten worse over the past few years.

i believe social media and online dating is mostly to blame for the drastic increase in superficiality in women. they have access to more hot guys. their nature is to be choosy and now they have more options. women’s perceived self value has reached a high point. lower value older women tend to be the most delusional. i only see it getting worse. so looksmax now and get as many girls as you fan because women aren’t becoming any less superficial in the near future. they also don’t need a mans resources anymore. so using resources to look down a high value women is not really an option unless you’re loaded.

if you want older women get your body as good as possible. big arms and a six pack go a long way. then get on tinder or hang out at wine bars or swanky lounges. some cities are known to have cougar bars, 333 in newport beach would be an example of this. you find the right one and she'll bankroll you too.
 
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Sub-Zero

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they tend to be very superficial and in the age of online dating they can be. i remember when single moms knew they’re low value status. but now they attractive ones have access to young fit guys via dating apps. their need for validation from attractive men is certainly the highest because they get the least external validation. a young hot guy makes them feel like they’ve still got it.

generally speaking though the older a woman gets the more difficult she becomes. as her looks value she becomes bitter. this has gotten worse over the past few years.

i believe social media and online dating is mostly to blame for the drastic increase in superficiality in women. they have access to more hot guys. their nature is to be choosy and now they have more options. women’s perceived self value has reached a high point. lower value older women tend to be the most delusional. i only see it getting worse. so looksmax now and get as many girls as you fan because women aren’t becoming any less superficial in the near future. they also don’t need a mans resources anymore. so using resources to look down a high value women is not really an option unless you’re loaded.

if you want older women get your body as good as possible. big arms and a six pack go a long way. then get on tinder or hang out at wine bars or swanky lounges. some cities are known to have cougar bars, 333 in newport beach would be an example of this. you find the right one and she'll bankroll you too.
So what can we do to adapt for the near future?
 
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Skills

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They want absolutely nothing to do with me. They are always saying I'm way too young. Guess this a glaring myth that keeps popping up in the seduction community that milfs are easier. But they are not unless you are of the right age they want


A myth of the seduction community, which is total bs.... They are much harder as they get older (minus couple of exceptions):

- They have fucked a lot of guys already so they know exactly what they want and what they do not want...

- they are more skilled at identifying body language, game etc.... (due to experience)

- they have been fucked and dump more and more heart breaks (they have tougher skin)

- their standards are through the roof...

- they are more financially stable.

- they have kids to think about...

exception:

- just got out of ltr that she was in for years, and the stage of relieving what she missed

- seeking validation through sex (too see if she still got it, but unusual)

- and the famous cougar (which is just tiny minority)

And yes they typically do not go for younger guys, but they do, i said typically...
 

naturalmikey

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So what can we do to adapt for the near future?

hot young chicks will always be insecure no matter how much validation they get and can easily be manipulated through validation. they’re really not getting anymore dificult. it’s the single moms that are totally delusional. i don’t make a habit out of fucking single moms. so i don’t really give a shit. women in their late twenties early thirties have always and will always be more dificult. it’s gotten worse but they’re not as bad as the mid to late thirties single moms or even the still single crowd at that age. point is 21-24 will always be down to fuck guys with game. like @Skills said older women have seen it all. some 22 year old girl has never had real game ran on her.
 

Zorz

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Although I don't have many experiences with milfs, a friend of mine has been with a lot 40+ women. Comparing our experiences I found out that the game with them is different. And I will explain how
1. Most 40+ women are well known in their city have many social circles through work, friends or family. So discretion is the key. That's why the best way to approach is private messages through fb or other dating sites. If you approach on the street try somewhere that there are not many people around. Remember that they won't risk their carriers and families for an ons. They will do ons as long as there is no danger for their reputation.
2. Most of them know what they want. If she keeps talking to you fucking is on. If she says no it's no and it's almost impossible to turn it around. But be careful not to mistake resistance for no.
3. You can be much bolder with them and talk openly about sex and what you want and they love it. Also move quick with them or they will soon get bored.
4. It's very hard to get them with a mediocre dressing. If you want results your dressing should be excellent. Button down shirts and generally a classy outfit is a must.
 

Zorz

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@Zorz does this friend of yours happen to be very good looking?
He is average in terms of beauty. He has a great physique. An excellent, passionate and classy sense of fashion is how he manages to make a first good impression in older women. Which seemed odd to me because it is not that important in the 20-30yo age group that I go for. In this age group game and other fundamentals seem to be much more important
 

naturalmikey

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He is average in terms of beauty. He has a great physique. An excellent, passionate and classy sense of fashion is how he manages to make a first good impression in older women. Which seemed odd to me because it is not that important in the 20-30yo age group that I go for. In this age group game and other fundamentals seem to be much more important

i agree. i don’t think how you dress matters much at all, from a fashion perspective so long as you look good in whatever you’re wearing and are clean/hygienic.
 

Fluxcapacitor

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@Shake&Bake dude! them saying your too young could also be a shit test or a soft next. If its a soft next and you handle it well they will become curious and/or interested. Ya too young isn't a no its a chance to tease them and be charming. What's their body language like? Are they saying this playfully because its not usually what happens socially? Are they teasing because they want to play the game? Theres a lot more going on here and ya can try hanging in the set for as long as ya can for reference dude!

We can't ya too young...
Age is only a number//ya only as old as ya feel, don't you want to feel 22? (risky one but delivered with the right tone and timing will work)

better yet play into it an use it to disqualify yourself:

Ya right I'm much to young for you, what would my mam think??
Yeah am a little young, you possibly couldn't keep up (again risky but can work)

Don't take it so seriously dude!
 
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