Girl from OLD a few years ago

[Dumdum1]

Hey guys, need some advice on this one.

Recently saw a girl I met on pof about 4 years ago working at a bank near me. She was helping someone else last time I went so she didn’t see me there. Back story is that I got her number but we never got together because she used to model and I was suggesting we should get dinner but she was on a juice diet for fashion week lol, suggested coffee but she didn’t drink coffee. She was 20 at the time so drinks weren’t an option.

Anyways I went full AFC on her in a long text after she said to check with her later in the week, then when I hit her up later that week she tells me she won’t be free for a while cuz her grandma got in a car accident...

Haven’t talked to her since but after seeing her the other day I checked her IG out. Looks like she’s been single for a few years now. Has hashtags like #single and sh1t on some posts. No pictures with ex’s and no tags either. Not a model anymore so I think she’d be a little easier to get out now.

Question is do I bring up how I acted like an AFC years ago or just ignore it and treat her like an old friend, ask how she’s been and tell her that we should go out now? What’s the best way to go about it?

 

[ironore]

Question is do I bring up how I acted like an AFC years ago

No. As a man, never explain yourself.

If you have the opportunity to approach her in person say, "You look familiar. Have we met before?"

If you do on have the opportunity to approach in person I wouldn't spend any effort on her since she rejected you. If you insist in messaging her online don't waste your time with any more small talk. Just keep it simple and to the point. Either she rejects you, ignores you, or agrees to go out with you.

 

[Dumdum1]

Question is do I bring up how I acted like an AFC years ago

No. As a man, never explain yourself.

If you have the opportunity to approach her in person say, "You look familiar. Have we met before?"

If you do on have the opportunity to approach in person I wouldn't spend any effort on her since she rejected you. If you insist in messaging her online don't waste your time with any more small talk. Just keep it simple and to the point. Either she rejects you, ignores you, or agrees to go out with you.

Ya I won’t be messaging her at all lol I have her number but figure no point. Seeing her in person is the only way I’ll be giving it another go. If she turns me down again then that’s that.