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NiceGuy110

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My question is, do girls slightly more inclined to do this more than guys?I'm not just talking about in bars where a stranger might get blanked by a girl... I'm talking about when you might pass someone you know well in a quiet area, and you say 'hi' first, and you get nothing back. And are girls more inclined to get away with it? I can only count on two hand the number of girls I've come across in my time, that do this; but they are out there.

I think it's funny the way girls look down and pretend to be parting the hair from their face, as an excuse to avoid looking at someone they know when they're passing them. I think it's quite infantile. And it makes me feel as if I'm a big dangerous grizzly bear.

I remember I once passed such a girl in a quiet street, where it was a little harder for her to blank me. I said 'hi' and got awkward (and reluctant) smile from her. There was something quite insulting about it... it was like as if I wasn't even worth the hassle of her opening her mouth to actually say 'hello'. However, nowadays if I have to pass such a girl (and where you feel you have to say hi), I'll say her name first instead of saying 'hi'. Then depending on how she reacts, I might say 'hi'. They never blank you when you say their name! Think about it! They're are submissive, so it isn't too hard to win.

I've known two girls who've blanked me. And what's most hilarious of all, is when you'll be amongst a group of people (with blanker included) and when it's you who is the person who's steering the conversation, but yet they will still avoid talking to you directly! So what's funny, is that they end up commenting to others on your subject matters, without quite realising that it's because of you that they're discussing such.

It's only a matter of time until I come across one of these sorts of women, in a situation where they are in need of help; lets say with a flat tyre, or might need something of theirs to be carried. And I'll be sure to look straight at them, before walking right on buy! Because at the end of the day, there's a higher chance of them needing me, than me needing them!
 

Michal

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Girls were doing this to me when I was highly uncalibrated and was giving off a weird, leechy vibe. My mindset at that time was more like "what do I get from socializing with these people" or "they should let me speak" or "why arent they asking me anything".

If this is happening when you are cool as well, I cannot say I know the root cause. But when I improved my social skills, this ignoring behaviour went away.
 

Virgin101

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Michal said:
Girls were doing this to me when I was highly uncalibrated and was giving off a weird, leechy vibe. But when I improved my social skills, this ignoring behaviour went away.
The interesting thing, is that the girls who were blanking when you were weird, will probably continue to do so regardless.

Their minds are set.
 

Michal

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Virgin101 said:
Michal said:
Girls were doing this to me when I was highly uncalibrated and was giving off a weird, leechy vibe. But when I improved my social skills, this ignoring behaviour went away.
The interesting thing, is that the girls who were blanking when you were weird, will probably continue to do so regardless.

Their minds are set.
Some do, some dont. I met members of both camps. All it took was get more confidence and self-esteem due to having better life and more success. And better body (from skinny to fit.. almost like Brad Pitt in Fight club). What happened was, they started to test me again, while in the past, they would hardly pay attention to me. Social gathering, I come in, sit down on the other side of the table, a minute later she comes and sits next to me. Or this other girl who dis not recognize me at all, sit next to me on a train and after I just said her name like "Nicole?" I could see her recognizing me and being somewhat amazed. I dont think I changed much on the outside except getting a different haircut and better fitting clothes and nice pair of shoes. But the vibe did and this is was the result.
So I would say there are couple of levels:
1) no change in behaviour, you were never their type, you had nothing to offer to them and at this point their minds are set even though they might recognize you changed somewhat
2) they pay attention to you because of the improvement but still are set on your old you
3) they pay attention to you, view you differently but they start testing you because there is this past you and they want to see whether you are still weird - if you pass those tests, they will respect you but probably not get together with you unless you game them really well
4) just like 3 but if you pass those tests they will be interested in you and it should be easier because they accept your new you as the real you.
5) no tests, instantly struck by you (usually happens with girls from high school where you grew up, got more manly and they view you as a real option because "back then we were just kids")

I met girls in all these levels, that is why I wrote it this way. Maybe someone else has different experience.
 

Virgin101

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It's important to remember that the blanker also flawed in a way. They lack graciousness. Alpha people shouldn't view it as a sign of weakness to say 'hi' to a weaker person.

Some blankers probably get a false sense of superiority out of it too.
 
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