PeachFrustration said:
So after putting a lot of thought into it guys, I have decided to stick with Atlanta. I have taken it upon myself that for the next year or even two, I am going to try to make this city work for me. For a while I was entertaining a leave but I decided that I have some things that need to be resolved in Atlanta. I feel like even if I was to go to a new city, there would always be that aching feeling in my head of not being able to get any progress in Atlanta or not having had success in the city.
I am going to take a brand new approach to life, have a few hobbies I am going to take part in every weekend. Having more luck on dating apps and already number closed two girls off of Bumble.
It is my goal to get involved in at least a couple of group hobbies, trying to see which ones are best for Atlanta.
Will be eating well and working out first thing every morning to get in good shape, BF% is somewhat on the higher side now.'
I think things can work out for me here and if they don't after a year, I know I gave it my all.
I can respect that decision, but would like to let ya know that there's no reason to feel like you're letting yourself down by going into a new market.
In addition, if you'd like to build your own social circle there are lots of different ways you can do it. Join sites like meetup and etc. Find hobbies you enjoy doing. Just Google search hobbies + groups. You can also find Facebook groups this way too, for whatever you'd like to do. Since I'm assuming you are more in the corporate world, networking events will probably work double time for you.
Start into the hobbies a little bit and talk to EVERYONE. Anyone that seems even remotely cool (and single will probably help your cause for the next step) try to see if they'd be interested in hanging out. Watch the game (whatever game there happens to be) or even a bbq or something, anything. Once you have a little bit of experience running a circle and you have some respect of running it then you start trying to invite women as well.
Start playing matchmaker. Find out what people want to do, find out what their goals are. Hook them up with people that can help them in their goals. There was a post of Chase's how he had a roommate or a friend in college that had hardly any game but still got laid like a rockstar. The reason is because this guy would know fuckin everyone. He'd find out what people wanted out of life and hook them up with other people. This guy also knew at least a little bit about a lot of different things (can't remember, he may have actually known a lot about a lot but can't remember which) and came off as an authority. Girl likes psychology? He was an expert. Girl was interested in her tennis swing? He was an expert. He also knew other experts and would hook them up. Stuff like that. In the corporate world this works double for you because you know and hang out with friggin everybody.
Now you have the makings of a social circle that you have built. You're the alpha of. You can take it even further than that if you'd like.
Another route/option to take is a thread I found (I think it was on these boards but for the life of me I can't fucking find it and it irritates me so much) that had a fun plan. I want to say it was a post by Just_Dave or possibly Tuburao (spelling?), but again, can't remember. Anyways, just go up to any guy that looks remotely cool and invite him to a party that you're throwing. Go up to quadruple the amount of women as guys and invite them to your party. Make fliers, make cards, make a Facebook Group, make anything you need. You've recently gotten a promotion, or a new job, or whatever it is and you want to celebrate by having fun. This is a brand new thing that you want to start doing on a somewhat regular basis. Invite anybody that looks somewhat cool/hot. Invite hundreds of people if possible, the more the better and the quicker it'll grow.
Google Search: GirlsChase: How to throw an afterparty that gets you laid
This should turn up a few results for you. You can also do this at the bars/clubs if you'd like.
Once you have a big enough group start talking to local businesses about pregaming at their place in exchange for discounts and other treats. Now, not only are you the owner of a social circle that gets you laid but you also are the guy that gets the group discounts.
And as usual, still play matchmaker.
The reason that you want to play matchmaker and hook up some of your new/old friends with other new/old friends is because it makes the social circle bigger and stronger. Think about it, are you more likely to hang out with Guy A or Guy A who introduced you to your new friends B and C along with A?
People will remember you for giving them the hookups that they now treasure, or the new job that they wanted, or even helped someone out by getting them in touch with a golf instructor. Doesn't matter what it is. What does matter is that you, out the goodness of your heart have helped them achieve a goal of theirs. You ask nothing. You're just a source of awesome value. You become like giant pillar of light in a world of unending and dark loneliness. You're the fucking man!
Who wouldn't wanna hang out with the fucking man???
Men respect you. Men follow you. Women see it. Women start to like it. Women see other women start to like it. Women get wetter when they notice it. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Take pictures and post them to your Facebook Group. Hell, create an Instagram tag. Invite everyone to a now bustling Facebook Group/Instagram page. Use those to recruit more people into your domain.
Boom, barely even need game at this point (though I still highly, HIGHLY suggest that you work on another way to meet women. That can be day game, night game or even online game but make sure that your skills stay sharp).
