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SIMPLE OPEN NOTEBOOK
Where i:

  • Collect posts on subject matters from inside the community.
  • Connect the dots
 
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SECOND GEN ESCALATION | CONNECTING THE DOTS
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KEY WORDS: Escalation as momentum, Smooth Escalation, Variations/Broadness of escalatory practice. Advanced Escalation. MASF style. Refined escalation.
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LEVELS
1. SIXTY - Micro-steps
2. COZY - Fractional Space/Refined feel/feel

MINDSETS
Everything is sex https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/everything-is-sex-or-sexual.21698/#post-105753

DOINGS
Spacially- Proximity, play w. provocative distance
Using pauses, lag and the likes - harmonisation
w. playfulness
w. barriers
w. emotional addtiions eg. catty moves (ijji) eg hugs eg. i love youre so..
eg. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/some-intro-methods-and-kiss-closes.21696/

...So first tip, with the hand play, start talking about chemistry as you trace your fingers along her palm, and make some cold reads on her being open hearted and capable of two kinds of true love or whatever. Just buy time to caress more thoroughly.

Also get your body language set in a way you can touch her more effortlessly like getting a leg in between hers.

And in the k close, ask her some questions, this gets her in response mode, start with a kiss on the cheek, telling her how nice meeting her was, give her a hug, pull your head back but keep holding, then kiss her other cheek but draw your jaw back slow along hers, and if she wants to kiss she will twist to catch your lips...
 
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Venue Engagement Models
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Key words: styles of presence, change gears, venue management, variation, moods
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Various Models
  • Central Position in bar w wing, being the party, drawing people in.
  • Mingling around, slow paced fluidity, mini-open and leave. Renter, force iois, groove. Materialise or reenter based on their vibes.
  • Fishing 10s - Low awareness span, cool guy, active disinterest, hover, slide into sets in strong lock-ins, patiently activating opportunities, isolate, verbals, sex talk
  • Bad ass entry, sexual haze establishment, mingling around setting girls on sensual haze, collecting.
  • Acclimatisation, feel good, explore, entry on key vibe sets.
Smaller Moves
  • Go to bar, do proximity openings (warm up, social proof, become active, acclimatise etc)
  • Move straight into good lock-ing. work from set.
  • Ignite DF, then leave for presence in adjacent visual spot for carefree and flirty girls to gravitate towards. materialise low key opener
  • Pawning Around
  • Smoke and mirror - social proofing
  • Using visual spots to be seen & captivate
 
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Place holder - sexuality as mundane actions
 

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THE FLIRT - Flirting
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Flirts are central as part of seductions - a key centre line. Here flirts are understood in a wider sense involving banter, playfulness, feistiness and potentially other dimensions. But it removes many elements. Might be behind why humor is so key to women cause it removes their insecurities, relaxes and gets them into a totally different mode. Might even pass over resistance points.

Multiple techs fit into this and can support various nuances of flirt while still circulating the rapport-soft-fun centreline.

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My Recall: Change of energy through shift to teasing - SC girl change FRENCH - her changes and fun opening when teased from basic - awakening.

Parts in flirting at the moment:
- Teasing in its various forms.. playfulness or more fiery.
- Openings w receptiveness and polite-intelligent playful framing of situation as her not getting something
- Opening w more direct energy of it, more tension in the frame set w a smile.. putting it out for her to bite on
- Mischief and weness... roleplays, we frames..
- Singy songy summerish liberated joyfulness...
- Add to fun nudging part of the verbals - being more active in the fun vs just nudging. stimulate on response especially but dont limit to that.
- Use with touch to smoothn escalation
- Articulate the energy, give it life, shape it..

- The nourishing addition of sexuality - this is not the flirt but next stage...
Mmmhh i get it . the flirt, the role of it, the nuances... how they collect in a central energy
The tease and the warmth as important as the tension

Bigger picture
Do we have an intimacy principle? or is it too simple to encompass all dimensions? something else. including the fun too, the joyful connection..
Like the pleasure principle the connection intimacy feel and the fun playfulness and banter feistyness all provide good feels that can fuel things. This is a very joyful fun stage where the connections are central. The lover side of things. I think its stronger than sexual feels tbh. Maybe due to girls seeds. But also for actual mens true needs across many things. My sense of intimacy has always been its more effectful. the softness, the real rapport. The intimacy of the connective feel on this area.

but much more to be understood..
 
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Using the body
Stepping into vibes, amplifying them

The body contains your energy
A certain movement expresses an energy
so movement can activate vibes

Walk, move like someone eg morrison
And feel somatically into the movement
see how the vibe arises
Feel how you fill up with that vibe inside

morrison - a delicate pleasure
 
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Study womens facial contours

look at their feminine contours of their face, do so while letting them see it. Enjoy the elegance of her. just lightly. Follow the lines.

keep your attention onto her, show it no hesitancy. Like youre studying her like a beautiful piece to be witnessed.

Do it mindfully - which means really see them and let the mindful part enable more seeing between the lines. Study beginners minds and the likes to understand this.

you will read a lot from the response

and you will appear like someone who is interested in them or screening them, like really seeing them level.

it is striking for them

so adjust if the intensity grows in the wrong directions. Beware what seems wrong might not be it.

you then load vibes

or you can preload it

See how a connection in space arises between you off this

play with it

build your sense of the connection arising from it

note how your system informs you for response

welcome to gravitation
 
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