FR Gym guy behavior feedback needed

[KnownUniverse]

the approach him crowd is retarded, listen to what will said... You did what you had to do which is open body language and give him approach invites, and proximity... It is his job as a dude to act on that.... It was obvious he was giving you negative reactions, so you did not approach, which is the correct move... You did not do anything wrong....

The point is efficiency. Instead of spending weeks or months giving someone googly eyes, talking about them on social media and worrying about if they like you or not to the point of creating social fallout you can just say "hi" and find out straight away without making the whole thing weird.

Poor behaviour is poor behaviour whether a man or woman does it.

 

[KnownUniverse]

And this dude didn't fare so well.

why would he appraoch her if he didnt like her? She didnt get the hint and pursued it until something broke.

this happened a few times to me in my 20s. It actually offended me that some women who i considered way below me thought they had a chance. Do i regret it now? hell yes - A lay is a lay - but at the time i knew exactly what was going on.

 

[KnownUniverse]

And the whole concept of a huge muscled guy “reporting” a tiny woman is pathetic.

it would look something like this:

attractive guy: hey, who's the girl in the hoody that comes in?
Cute Gym staff: That's Lilly, why?
Attractive guy: She keeps staring at me and acting weird. Is she retarded or something?
Cute Gym staff: [laughs] she probably likes you. You should talk to her.
Attractive guy: I dont want to talk to her, she's weird.

Cute gym staff laughs. Grateful not to be her right now.

Cute gym staff: She's harmless. Just try and avoid her. If she doesnt stop I'll have a word with her.

Attractive guy walks off.

As you can see, it's not that inconceivable.

 

[Francis]

Lilly's threads are awesome. Rare look into the female mind indeed. Great reminder a girl can be dying to meet you and it's really just a case of going up to the NPC quest and hitting X to start.

I really don't think you should have to approach either... But I know what it's like to have a girl flip her hair like seven times in my peripherals trying to get me to do something, and I freeze.

For the average dude who doesn't even know to play his role, it's honestly sad. I'm just really hoping we get to at least see things progress to some conversations. From a VAC perspective, maybe shy guys need more attainability signals from the girl. More overt AI's, perhaps.

 

[Lilly]

it would look something like this:

attractive guy: hey, who's the girl in the hoody that comes in?
Cute Gym staff: That's Lilly, why?
Attractive guy: She keeps staring at me and acting weird. Is she retarded or something?
Cute Gym staff: [laughs] she probably likes you. You should talk to her.
Attractive guy: I dont want to talk to her, she's weird.

Cute gym staff laughs. Grateful not to be her right now.

Cute gym staff: She's harmless. Just try and avoid her. If she doesnt stop I'll have a word with her.

Attractive guy walks off.

As you can see, it's not that inconceivable.

Hilarious that you assume I’m some ugly disgusting unwashed woman who wears hoodies. But sure, jerk off to this weird powertrip you have about this topic.

He’s the one who hovered and looked at me first.

 

[Skills]

Lilly's threads are awesome. Rare look into the female mind indeed. Great reminder a girl can be dying to meet you and it's really just a case of going up to the NPC quest and hitting X to start.

I really don't think you should have to approach either... But I know what it's like to have a girl flip her hair like seven times in my peripherals trying to get me to do something, and I freeze.

For the average dude who doesn't even know to play his role, it's honestly sad. I'm just really hoping we get to at least see things progress to some conversations. From a VAC perspective, maybe shy guys need more attainability signals from the girl. More overt AI's, perhaps.

She is not a typical female more like afc female

 

[Skills]

The point is efficiency. Instead of spending weeks or months giving someone googly eyes, talking about them on social media and worrying about if they like you or not to the point of creating social fallout you can just say "hi" and find out straight away without making the whole thing weird.

Poor behaviour is poor behaviour whether a man or woman does it.

Or you can achieve the same goal by giving strong signals, open body language and approach invites which is what she did..

 

[Skills]

why would he appraoch her if he didnt like her? She didnt get the hint and pursued it until something broke.

this happened a few times to me in my 20s. It actually offended me that some women who i considered way below me thought they had a chance. Do i regret it now? hell yes - A lay is a lay - but at the time i knew exactly what was going on.

Correct so did the gym dude...