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Dudes! So I absolutely hate it when ex's are brought up. I'm not sure if this is a mindset issue I need to change or whether it's fine?
I've noticed a few times am talking to a girl, during a deep dive or something I will ask a question an they will mention an ex (even innocently where it's part of the story and not cause they're still not over them) and I'll just completely cut that topic of conversation.
I'm just like no I want to have fun and keep this fun so if this topic relates to an ex I'll drop it and move on. To the same extent I hate discussing my ex's, I won't bring them up it's never oh I done that with my ex, I would simply say I've done that/been there and if more is asked it was with a friend or just a name. I done that with alexis (purposely avoiding ex)
I know they will have past lovers an boyfriends, a just don't want to hear about it. Just wondering if this will come across as an insecurity?
Thoughts? Thanks dudes!
I've noticed a few times am talking to a girl, during a deep dive or something I will ask a question an they will mention an ex (even innocently where it's part of the story and not cause they're still not over them) and I'll just completely cut that topic of conversation.
I'm just like no I want to have fun and keep this fun so if this topic relates to an ex I'll drop it and move on. To the same extent I hate discussing my ex's, I won't bring them up it's never oh I done that with my ex, I would simply say I've done that/been there and if more is asked it was with a friend or just a name. I done that with alexis (purposely avoiding ex)
I know they will have past lovers an boyfriends, a just don't want to hear about it. Just wondering if this will come across as an insecurity?
Thoughts? Thanks dudes!