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Dudes! Lately I've found myself approaching hired guns at some of the clubs I've been at an have had a fair bit of success with this. A have also found they're more reliable for meeting up on a date after rather than the usual club girls.
My issue is at busy clubs unless a see them on their own (to be covert from the other staff) towards the end of the night I find the approach doesn't seem calibrated. Sometimes even a more calibrated, well timed approach at the end feels very uncalibrated an feels like a drive by approach.
It's very "hi I'm flux, you seem cool _ want to go for a drink sometime?/ do you have a boyfriend?"etc. It's very direct an confident but also out of nowhere unless I have been able to pre open (using this as a screen an to break the ice helps)
I have read the articles on hired guns an some of it seems more applicable if ya build familiarity with them. Would this help in clubs or do you become another drunk? I don't really go to the bar, I don't drink an my friends (usually female friends) usually bring me (soft)drinks so I don't bother going to the bar much.
I am kicking myself I didn't approach this bar maid last night, I just turned up (so wasn't feeling social) an only being there a few minutes were changing venue. The bar was busy so I let it go so wondering if ya have any tips for hired guns in night game?
Thanks dudes!
My issue is at busy clubs unless a see them on their own (to be covert from the other staff) towards the end of the night I find the approach doesn't seem calibrated. Sometimes even a more calibrated, well timed approach at the end feels very uncalibrated an feels like a drive by approach.
It's very "hi I'm flux, you seem cool _ want to go for a drink sometime?/ do you have a boyfriend?"etc. It's very direct an confident but also out of nowhere unless I have been able to pre open (using this as a screen an to break the ice helps)
I have read the articles on hired guns an some of it seems more applicable if ya build familiarity with them. Would this help in clubs or do you become another drunk? I don't really go to the bar, I don't drink an my friends (usually female friends) usually bring me (soft)drinks so I don't bother going to the bar much.
I am kicking myself I didn't approach this bar maid last night, I just turned up (so wasn't feeling social) an only being there a few minutes were changing venue. The bar was busy so I let it go so wondering if ya have any tips for hired guns in night game?
Thanks dudes!
